I'll Relocate For You If You're Not Cheating! | KARAMO

So you gotta tell me what's going on here.

Well, I want to have his phone unlocked. I think he's a little bit shady sometimes.

Okay.

He moved for a job and I said I was gonna go and didn't and I do feel bad about that, but I wanna know, am I going to Georgia or back into Oregon?

So why are you convinced that he's cheating on you when he moved?

Well, I don't necessarily really think that he's in person cheating, like person to person, but I think that he engages like on the, computer or on the phone with people.

Got it. So there's more than emotional cheating that's a problem for you.

Yeah.

Got it. And you want me to unlock his phone today because is there specific people you think he's talking to?

Just females in general.

So what did you and Dwayne buy each other that made you suspicious he was cheating?

It was a bottle of lube, Uber Lube.

Okay.

And so I let him take it with him, no problem. And I've only seen him like 3 times video and I told him, I'm like, why don't you just go and get that bottle? And he's like, well, it's gone. I'm like, what? Oh, like, so what do you mean gone? You know, like, I've seen you 3 times and it's gone? Like, then where and with who?

With whom? Makes sense. So did you tell him that you would move there too?

I did.

Got it.

I did.

And why haven't you?

Um, I have children that are here in Oregon and a grandson that's new, and I would like to be there with them. And I I'm willing to move, but like, I just, I feel torn between the two.

How was your trust level and also your sex life before? Because you brought up the lube, and so that's the reason I'm asking about your sex life. I'm not just being nosy, even though I am nosy. But how was your relationship and your sex life before?

Well, our sex life is amazing.

Okay.

Amazing.

Sex life is great?

Yeah. Yeah, he's like ruined it for everybody else. If he's not my boyfriend, I think I might end up just being single.

Oh, okay, Dewayne. All right, so the sex life was great, which, But now I understand why you'd be questioning the lube bottle being gone. Right. Because that was your intimate thing. That's what you used. And now it's like, who else did it?

On a daily.

Got it. Okay, she said on a daily.

Okay.

I'm not mad at you, all right? I'm not mad at you. So I know that he moved and you didn't move.

Right.

But my producer told me that he blocked you after you didn't move.

He does sometimes.

So he'll block you on social media?

Yeah.

What?

Yeah.

And how does that make you feel? And why does he do it?

Well, because the way, probably because of the way that I communicate with him and then he gets uptight and just doesn't wanna hear it anymore. And so, yeah.

Well, why block you on the phone?

Because I blow his phone up.

Got it.

I mean up.

Okay.

Like 163 messages back, like in a row. I'll just push the send button and the button, just.

Girl, you got a lot of free time on your hands.

I will, enough.

Okay, that's 160 messages? Yeah. So you keep saying how you communicate with him could be off. When you say communication, like, are you, what I heard from the text messages, are you angry in these messages?

Sometimes. I feel hurt, and so I think my hurt comes out as, you know, being angry.

Got it. Yeah. I know that y'all in different states. Do you think he still loves you?

Yes.

You do? Why do you feel that way?

Well, there was donuts waiting at the front desk for me when I arrived. And they're the same kind that, you know— and he wouldn't be here. I mean, I'm not an easy individual to live with. You know, I'm not high maintenance, but I'm not an easy individual to live with. And the fact that he's still willing to be here or to come here or to talk to me, that says to me that he doesn't—

So are you sure you're ready to unlock what's in Duane's phone?

Yes.

You need to know.

I don't need to know, but I want to know. I'm tired of being a yo-yo. You know, I want to be in or out. You know, I want to be a girlfriend and not a detective. I want to just— I just want us to be a one, not a half.

That was a word. She said, "I wanna be a girlfriend, not a detective." I felt that in my soul. I felt that in my soul. All right, well listen everyone, it's time to meet Dewayne and hear his side of this story. So everyone, please welcome Dewayne to the show. So why do you think she feels like you're cheating?

I think the lack of communication might be part of it. When we were together in Oregon, We were always together. We worked together. Very rarely were we apart.

Got it. Do you think she's a manipulator? 'Cause my producers told me that you said that.

Yeah, I believe that.

You think she's a manipulator?

Yeah, I believe she wants to believe what she thinks and she will do whatever she can to find that as fact.

She doesn't like to be wrong. How do you feel that he just called you a manipulator? How do you feel that he thinks that way about you?

Sometimes.

Oh, so you're agreeing.

Well, not entirely, no. Because I mean, no, not entirely, but sometimes I do.

Sometimes you do manipulate it?

Yeah.

Okay.

Sometimes.

Has she cheated?

Yes.

Oh, got it. Okay. When did you cheat in the relationship?

I don't know, like halfway through it.

Okay, 'cause y'all been together for how long now?

2, 3 years.

2, 3 years.

Almost 3 years. So like a year and a half in. And how did that make you feel when you found out she cheated?

The most difficult part of it was our relationship was good. And I guess it's one thing if you're fighting and battling and it happens, you can find an excuse for it. And I can't. And I get over things. I could get over that. I think she's harder on herself.

Got it, yeah.

You know, for that situation.

Is that why you do the same behavior where you block her? 'Cause like you're trying to punish her a little bit?

No, I'm not trying to punish her in any way. I wish she could understand. I moved across country because she wanted to go with me.

Got it.

I took a job that is above what I really should be, you know, have. I was fortunate to get the position. It's taken me a lot of energy to accomplish it, to be successful at it.

Yeah.

And, uh, you know, the communication between the two of us is sometimes gets in the way.

Got it. Do you think she's cheating now?

I couldn't tell you.

Oh, that's not a no. Do you think she's led you on about this move to Georgia?

Yeah, I wouldn't be here today if I wasn't led on to believe that she would be returning back to Georgia with me and come to find out that wasn't the fact.

Your son Aaron is in the audience right now, right? Aaron, how you doing? Stand up for me. I wanna hear what you have to say about this relationship.

I think it's long overdue.

So you're thinking what's long overdue?

This relationship.

You think they should be breaking up?

Yeah, 100%.

Oh.

Yeah. Okay.

I think obviously she cheated on him and there's obviously no trust in the relationship, especially if there's a point where you guys are going through each other's phones. I feel like that's like your main source of privacy. And if there's no privacy, there's no trust, there's—

How does Tiffany treat your dad from your point of view?

Personally, from like my experience, every experience I've had with Tiffany, it's always been like, it's always been good. But seeing where my dad's coming from, like stuff that goes on behind closed doors, it's not the case.

Yeah.

Yeah.

So you get one side of Tiffany, but you feel like it's a whole different thing with your dad.

Yeah.

Understandable. Do you worry about him dating her?

I mean, a little bit here and there. I think he needs somebody to have down in Georgia 'cause he has nobody down there. So if she's not the one that's gonna be there, and to support him.

So if she does not move to Georgia, is it over between you two?

It is.

Okay. If we find anything in his phone, is it over for you?

It is.

So it sounds like both of you all have an ultimatum for each other. So if your phone is clear, then you'll move?

Yes, I would move.

Aaron, one last question for you. Do you think that Tiffany is a bad influence on your father?

My dad's 51 years old. I think he needs somebody that's that's gonna be a team with him. It's not always gonna be, like, I feel like the problems that they're dealing with is something that like I deal with and I'm 21. I don't wanna be dealing with that when I'm in my 50s. So I think—

How do you feel hearing your son saying you shouldn't be dealing with this in your 50s? I mean, it's hard as dads when the kids start saying that stuff, you're like—

It is, it's embarrassing.

Yeah.

Brings a little reality to life.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Got it.

Well, I think we do make a good team. I mean, I'm a solid for him, you know what I'm saying? I work hard with and for him. You know, he's a good man, but he's not an easy one. You know, it takes a lot to keep up after him.

Got it, got it. Well, we know that there's an ultimatum here for both of you, which is you wanna know if she's gonna move to Georgia and you wanna know if there's anything in his phone. And it sounds like if neither of you get the answer you want, that you're ending this today. All right, so listen, we're gonna unlock your phone. Are you ready for this? Tiffany, you want to know if DeWayne was in contact with 3 specific women. DeWayne has told you he is not in contact with these women. My "Unlock Them Phone" investigator searched DeWayne's texts and when it comes to, he is telling the truth. There were no texts were found between those 3. You're asking a lot. We dig deep. You're shaking your head no. I'm telling you what that we found.

Okay.

Okay. Now listen, Tiffany, you also wanted me to look for another woman.

Yep.

Okay. Duane has told you that he is not in communication with her. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched Duane's apps and Duane is not telling the truth. Duane installed a tracking app on January 4th to track her.

Doesn't surprise me.

Tiffany, you also wanted me to look for another woman named. Dwayne has told you he is not in contact with her. My unlock the phone investigators searched the phone and Dwayne is not telling the truth. He has over 500 interactions with her since June and he has deleted them all. Which our investigator has found. Is there anything you wanna say?

Bye.

Bye. How do you feel about what we found and what she just—

The tracking device? Uh-huh. I appreciate the show and I appreciate how it is, but you have something that states that I placed a tracking device.

It is a tracking app that you have placed.

And what tracking app is it?

We'll give you everything that we have found so you'll be able to justify everything. But I understand what you're doing here. You want justification to say, hey, well, what is this? And start to explain it to me. At the end of the day, you came here for and agreed to unlock your phone. These are the things we found based on her questions. And at the end of the day, you should really be thinking about the fact that your relationship was unhealthy. Absolutely. And that has now come to light why it was unhealthy. And now your relationship has ended. So at this point, I just need to know how you're feeling that you no longer in a relationship.

It's very interesting you ask because I have the same thoughts of getting up off the stage and walking out because I wasn't sure about the relationship.

Yeah.

For her to sit here and not have some sort of explanation of what that is and what detail is, is when she finds out that these are, whatever it is, is innocent, it's the tracking device is incorrect.

Tracking app.

The tracking app is 100% absolutely wrong.

I can tell you it's 100% correct.

But the interactions with—

But I love how you focus on the tracking app and not the 500 deleted messages that were found.

Okay, that's, I'm getting to right now. As the communications with a lot of those communication issues.

See, but this is what I explained to you 5 seconds ago. You're trying to justify with me. I'm not in a relationship with you. I don't care. All I can do is show what it is. What I'm saying to you is that first of all, your son is right. Let me be very clear because I don't need to go in circles with this. Your son is very correct. Y'all two are in an unhealthy relationship. I'm gonna tell you from my personal advice if you want it, she was never gonna move. She's in limbo because of the fact that you have trust issues from day one. Those trust issues were broken and for some reason you decided to continue to stay with a woman who broke your trust from immediately. And what she did is she retriggered that trust when she moved, you moved somewhere and she decided to tell you that she was gonna come and didn't. So she's now broken your trust twice. And now instead of communicating with her and saying, I'm going to be a grown man and tell you that my feelings are hurt and I think this is unhealthy, you decided to stay and start punishing her by doing things like blocking her, breaking up with her. And your son is right, it sounds like stuff you do when you're 21 years old. So what my advice to you is allow this to be a lesson where next time your feelings are hurt, The next time someone breaks your trust, because the truth of the matter is, is that neither of you are the villain in this. You both were just in an unhealthy relationship and started to do things to trigger each other. She broke your trust first. She cheated on you and I could see the devastation. She went to another town. Sounds familiar, the pattern? Went to another town and cheated on you. You were blindsided. You went to another town, she told you something that didn't come true. You're blindsided. You're gonna wait for a third time to be blindsided?

Figure. Absolutely.

At the end of the day, I'm just happy that you two have learned this truth. And I'm gonna be honest with you, my producers told me that you were thinking about coming out here and proposing.

I was.

Thank God you did not.

Absolutely.

Thank God you did not. And I think for you, the advice your son gave you, find somebody in Georgia who's going to support you and love you. You're a good-looking man. You are mild-tempered. You seem like a nice guy. You clearly raised a good boy, 'cause this young man is good. So find somebody else and let her find somebody in the town she's in who's gonna be there with her and her grandkids. And y'all call it what it was, a good time where y'all had great sex and move on.

Okay. Thank you.

Good luck, Karamo.

Good luck.

It is what it is.