I’m 44, But My 29-Year-Old Boyfriend Wants A Baby! | KARAMO

Angel, 44, doesn't want another baby with her 29-year-old boyfriend Solo, who gives money away without a plan. She says she'll leave if he won't get financially stable. Karamo pushes Solo to take responsibility for their future together.
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You wanna marry this woman. Do you also wanna start a family with her? 'Cause she brought up earlier that kids might be an issue.
No, I really don't think it's an issue. I did talk to her about wanting kids and whatnot and she's like, "I'll give you a baby." You know what I'm saying?
Oh.
Wait a minute. Hold on.
So you just told me, you said, "No, you're not doing it." Now you're—
Wait a minute.
You really want another one?
I really don't want another one. But when you are married and if we get married and he sacrifices and does what he needs to do, this man's never had a baby before, we would discuss it.
Do you feel like she controls you with money?
I don't feel like she controls me. I just feel like, you know what I mean? She just, she shows a lot of concern.
Good.
Yeah, not control.
'Cause I see that as well. I see that as concern as well. Yeah. I don't see that as control at all. And I also don't, I think that the communication here is pretty great. I think the thing for me that we need to realize is that if you really do see a future with her, is that you gotta take accountability for how your actions today are gonna be stopping you from having the future you want tomorrow. Because y'all are a beautiful couple. Like, I just love y'all together, right? They're couple goals. What do you think it's gonna take for you to— Okay, Black love, there we go.
Y'all ready?
Angel, do you have an ultimatum for Solo today? Yeah. Okay, what's the ultimatum?
Say it right now.
Yeah, say it right now. What's the ultimatum?
You know, I don't wanna lose you. You know, again, we both feel that we have We just stumbled into each other's life. I love you, I respect you, but for me to be the woman that you really want, and like you always say, like, oh, I want people to come and go out of my life. I don't want to be that. And so I have been there where 10 or 15 years later, I'm like, dang, I wish I would have did this. You haven't did that yet. And so if we keep going the way we're going as far as the finances, I'm not going to feel safe and secure financially with us moving out of my penthouse, getting another house and getting married. When you're dishing out this money, we can't know where we're growing, where we're investing in. And so we haven't really talked about what's gonna happen if, you know, you don't stop doing that. But for me, I feel like I'm not gonna be able to be with you. I'm not, I'm not, I don't wanna say that, but I'm just saying like, I did that before, then I have to leave that person because that's still bothering me and I don't want that to happen, but I'm not doing it.
Most definitely.
So I mean, I mean, it's the communication, like I said, between y'all I believe is really great. And I can also tell you in an attentive a good listener, which I appreciate. She's just telling you that she wants to feel secure. And right now, the fact that you're giving away money is not making her feel secure for the future. I don't think it'd make any of us feel secure. I don't care how much money you make. I know that you have a thriving business. I can see why you have a thriving business. But I also think that you're mature enough and strong enough to realize that you do want a better tomorrow. Would the young boy who had to take care of his mom, Could he have imagined the life he has today with this beautiful woman and having a business? Mm. Couldn't have. Couldn't have. Why couldn't he have imagined that?
Honestly, I didn't think I was gonna live this long.
Exactly.
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