I'm Carrying His Baby & He's Cheating On Me?! | KARAMO

You're pregnant. It seems like this should be a happy time, but your man has brought you on my show to unlock your phone.

Yes.

Why does Derrick think you're cheating?

Because he's insecure. He's a narcissistic person and I really honestly feel like he's doing something and trying to portray it on me so he won't feel as bad when I catch him doing it.

I love a woman with discernment and also emotional language. Okay, you better tell me exactly. So Derrick reached out to you. What made you message him back?

Well, I didn't message him back immediately. I think it actually took about a month for me to even respond. But after going through his profiles and me being single for almost 6 years, I'm like, okay, he has a career, he doesn't have any kids, he doesn't smoke, he doesn't do drugs, he's into God. So I just felt like he was checking off most of the things in my box that I was looking for being ready to settle down at my age. You know, I'm in my 30s now, so I'm just ready to settle down, look for love, and he fit the man to me.

Sounds beautiful. Yeah, it sounds like, yeah. So how bad have things gotten?

Things have gotten from bad to worse. I mean, it started off doing good. We were good the first month or two. And then after that, he started accusing me of cheating, going through my phone. He has friends setting up fake profiles, inboxing me through social media.

Really?

Trying to catch me cheating. He's even made a fake profile portraying to be a woman.

What?

Reaching out to some of my guy friends, trying to basically see if I'm lying about sleeping with them or things of that sort. It has gotten to the point of no return to where it's like after today, if he doesn't get his act together, it just won't be anymore.

Yeah, you're done. So you brought a Facebook message exchange from Derrick. Let's see it.

Yes.

Okay.

So this is him portraying to be a female to one of my guy friends.

Send me a pic of your— He's asking for a pic of—

Yes, this is him portraying to be a woman. So, and I guess to get the attention of my guy friend, he is, asking for sexual pictures and sending sexual pictures.

Who are you? No face. What? Okay, listen, I'm confused by this. Okay.

Well, let me break it down.

No, I mean, I ain't confused about this, but I'm confused about if you're trying to spy on your girlfriend to see if she's talking to somebody, I don't need you to send me a naked photo too.

Yes.

Right? Right. Okay, right, right. Okay, yeah. "I don't need that. Why would he ask for that?" I am not sure. That don't seem crazy to you?

It seems crazy.

Okay, yeah.

And the only reason why I asked him, and what he said is that is his way of trying to basically play out the woman's role because he really does feel like all women are hoes and prostitutes and that's his way of putting it out there.

Okay. Well, Derek has been listening backstage and I actually do want to hear his side of this story. So everyone please welcome Derek to the show. Hey Derek, thanks for being here. How you doing? Nice to meet you.

Nice to meet you. Thanks for having me.

So tell me, how did you meet Akilah?

I met her on a Facebook dating profile that my friend had told me about. So I went on there, I hit like maybe 50 different women up.

Okay.

And I'm getting all different kind of messages. And about a month later, she hit me back.

But I'm the hoe and he's hitting up 50 different women.

But she told me she was a sugar baby for the fans. And to my knowledge, a sugar baby's a hoe. You get paid to sleep with men for money, you a hoe.

Well, not all sugar babies. Sugar babies get to define their relationship with the people they're with. So some have sexual relationships, some don't.

What was your relationship?

I mean, I had sex with a lot of 'em, but still, that don't make me no hoe.

Did you get paid for it?

And that was when I was 18, 19.

I am in my 30s. You cannot go off of something that I did when I was younger. Everybody has a past.

What about your past?

And they talk about how you was a trick. If I was a hoe and a sugar baby, you trick on women.

I don't call it tricking.

It was tricking.

You're paying for OnlyFans.

You're tricking on women.

It's no different.

So you saying that you used to provide for women? So that is, she right. If you wanna call her a ho, if you wanna call her a ho, well, she was in a relationship with the men that she was having sugar babies with.

No, it was just simple sex.

It was not simply sex. You feel like it was simply sex. I told you, we would go out, we would go traveling, we would hang out.

Where you gonna travel to?

Las Vegas, often.

Who?

A couple of 'em.

Okay. It sounds like when you met her, you was hitting up a lot of women. You just said 50 women?

Trying to see which one bite, and I'm the one that fell for it.

So if at the beginning of your relationship you hitting up 50 women, That was before you all. So what was it once you got together that made you say, hold on, this girl, she is—

His insecurity, his narcissistic ways.

When we first got together, everything was good. We used to always be on the phone all night, all night we was on the phone. Then once I got this truck driving job, I was on the phone nonstop.

He's not able to deal with his loneliness. He feels like I'm supposed to.

She always on Facebook, dudes popping up at the house. She getting off the phone with me.

That is, that is—

Nobody fuck with the house.

So one of my exes, it was a week after us talking, one of my exes did pop up, but I mean, I was on the phone with him. I let him know, I called him back immediately, But he was like, "It only take 5 minutes to." Like no one is doing that.

Derek, what were your past relationships like?

He was a trick.

Outside that, outside that.

It was horrible.

They were horrible.

One woman always cheated on me.

You said they cheated on you?

Constantly.

Constantly. Did you ever cheat?

Yes.

Yes.

You did? I did. So it was a mutual cheating relationship in the past?

Not at first.

Yes, it was.

Not at first.

So have you ever had a healthy relationship?

Ever? Never.

Never. Never. Okay then, got it. Do either of you have other children?

I do.

You have other children? And is there a relationship?

Yes.

He has a relationship. Okay then. So this will be your first child, right? Oh, yes, sir. Okay then. And would you have considered this relationship a healthy relationship?

At first?

Yeah.

Oh, yes, sir.

There's a big age difference between you two, right?

Yes, it is.

15 years?

15 years.

Got it. So could that also be why? The sugar baby thing is triggering you? Yes. Because you're older and you feel like maybe, do you think she's using you?

I don't think so because before me he's dated nothing but older women.

Older women. So I don't think she's using me. It's just the point that she is younger. She's my first younger woman I ever dated.

I'm young and I'm pretty and he's insecure and low self-esteem.

She's a sugar baby.

Do you think there's a little bit of insecurities?

I told her I had a little bit of insecurities.

He has a lot of insecurities. Any man that's waking up in the middle of the night sneak and go through phones and then trying to blame it on somebody else.

But what did I see in your phone?

What did you—

Nothing!

You had your ex-man in your phone as a woman. Why? There was nothing going on.

So, a guy that helped me raise my daughter, he's not the biological father, but he raised her up. So I told him about this man. At first everything was calm, cool, okay, that's cool, he's, um, it's good for a child to have multiple role models. And then all of a sudden it flipped to now you're still having sex with him, to now this baby is his baby.

So why hide his name as a woman?

The reason why I changed his name to be a woman's name is because after I had already told him the truth, he was fine with it at first. After he talked to someone in his family, they made it an issue. And that's where it started to be, "I don't want you talking to him no more. I don't want him to have nothing to do with her." And I'm like, "Well, I can't necessarily say that. This is a man that raised her." We're not having any type of interaction. When he hits me up, it's for a [MASKED]. I changed his name because I'm tired of constantly having to talk about this man that shouldn't be an issue, that you were okay with.

He's not doing nothing now because we don't talk now because I'm catering your feelings.

When the last time you did something for her?

What have you done for her?

What have I done for her?

What have you done for her?

That bike she got.

That's it?

Okay.

You ain't paying no bills.

You ain't, okay, you not doing nothing.

So how you gonna tell somebody he helped raise her?

20 years ago?

Listen everyone, Aliquila turned over her phone to our unlock the phone investigator and I think it's time to unlock the phone. All right then. Akilah, we unlocked your phone. Here we go. Derek, you wanna know if Akilah is texting new pictures of herself to men. She says she's not. My Unlock the Phone investigators searched her photos and found that she is telling the truth.

Clap with the crowd.

Clap. Derek, you wanna know if Akilah's communicating with any exes She said she is not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched her phone and found she is telling the truth.

I told you. Come on with the apology.

Hold on.

No, no, ain't no hold on. Come on with the apology.

Derrick, you also wanna know if Akilah is using any dating apps. She says she is not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched her apps and also any apps that could be deleted and found she's telling the truth.

Now get on your knees and apologize.

Akilah is not doing anything, not talking to anybody. We even did the search for you over under other numbers just to see if there's anybody else that could possibly be cross-referencing, if there's guys that could be under girls' names. There was nothing that we found. How do you feel about this?

How he been feeling, how it's still gonna be a lie, how it's still, now the show gonna be fake and they helping me out. He gonna come up with something. This is not gonna be enough, but that's okay 'cause continue on and I'm gonna be gone.

Okay. Well, this, it's not just your phone, Akilah, that we unlocked.

Yes.

Derek, we unlocked your phone as well. What's on the line for you?

If I find anything, I mean, I have zero understanding from him putting me through all of this in months and months and months. I have zero understanding. If it's a little bit, I'm done.

You're done.

I'm done.

I mean, I mean, You're pregnant right now. And like this, you also don't wanna be in any stressful situations. Not at all. Derrick, here we go. Akilah, you want to know if Derrick is communicating with other women. He says he is not. My Unlock the Phone investigators searched his apps and found that he is not telling the truth.

I already knew.

He is communicating with other women.

I already knew.

From 4 different Instagram accounts.

I already knew. You already know that.

I did not know that.

What other accounts I got you in?

What?

And you ain't told me you was talking to no other women. What the fuck I look like? I be sitting here looking dumb? If you sitting here and all of the shit you be doing?

Come on now.

Why do you have 4 Instagram accounts?

Why?

I made those a long, man, I made those a long time ago.

Well, you know what? While we doing this, we gotta back up. Why? I'm not even gonna go there yet.

Yeah, no, we need to go there. 'Cause why on Facebook?

Why on Facebook?

You asking for dick pics.

What's that? Seriously?

Because I was portraying as a woman.

But you can cast somebody without asking somebody for that.

But you want the man to think you're a woman though, right?

No, it's because you think all women are hoes and all women have to have sex, so you feeling like the only way to portray to be a woman is to be a hoe, and that's not it. That's not it.

I mean, professionally, I agree with her, but you know. So let's keep going. All right, Akilah, you want to know if Derrick is sexting other women. Derrick says he is not. Well, Unlock the Phone investigators searched his photos and found that he is not telling the truth. Oh, man. He has a hidden folder with sexually explicit photos of other women that he's talking to. Can I see that folder?

Oh, it's a folder.

I don't got no folder.

It's a hidden folder. Thank you so much. So these are some of the, these are just some of them. Do you know who this woman is?

No, I do not.

This woman?

Nope.

Oh, oh.

You seen it all.

No, I did not. That's my ex. Why do you got pictures of your ex?

Long time ago.

I just never deleted.

A long time ago.

But hold on, the question is.

You look at my phone.

But hold on, but this is the thing.

No, no, I did not. I didn't see all of these.

But the thing is, is that you're questioning her earlier. You were questioning her earlier for having a relationship.

That's April 20th. This is a new picture. Who is that?

That's nobody.

It's somebody. You got her in here twice. She in here twice.

Come on, man. You seen that since I was in here.

It's in a secret folder.

She know about the secret folder.

I don't know about no damn secret folder. I checked your email.

You opened a hidden folder.

But hold on, this is my question for you because you're saying you know about some of these people, but when she tells you about her ex, you then still call her a hoe and think she's cheating. But you're saying, give me grace, I've told you about these women, but you never gave her grace.

Yeah. And he didn't tell me about these women.

I believe that.

I believe that. Okay, well we have one more. Akilah, you wanna know if Derrick is communicating with other women and he says he is not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched his DMs and found that he is not telling the truth. Hey, come on. He actually, we have a graphic that he sent to somebody where he said, I will give you $5,000 for one night with me.

Oh, you paying?

Oh. This is July 2023.

That's a fake profile. Oh, look what it was though. 23.

It don't matter.

No, the second one was May 18th. How much it will cost me for one night? May 18th of this year? No, no, that's July 2023. May 18th of 2024.

It'll say it.

It'll say if you're a few years behind. You sitting here fucking lying, bro.

It's a fake profile.

You sitting here lying. Why are you, why is you messing? Why?

Why? I can't even talk. Like, you got me so bothered. I want to slap the shit out of your bald-ass head right now.

Akilah, I mean, the last one you want to know is if Derek was communicating with the woman that's really his cousin. We did confirm that is his cousin, but after all of this other stuff—

It don't even matter.

It don't matter. Yeah, I agree.

You seen them pictures, man.

Come on, man. Oh, no, no, no. We're not going to focus on just photos. There is— you have been lying consistently while also Accusing the woman that you are with and who is having your child of doing something from the beginning when clearly your behavior has been wrong from day one. What do you have to say to her?

It ain't nothing you can say.

Keep it. I don't give a fuck.

Keep it. I'm gonna tell you this. If you really wanna search for a cheater, just look in the mirror. That's all you gotta do. That's all you gotta do. That's all you gotta do.

You're a cheater and you're a fucking liar and that's why you was saying all that shit last night 'cause you knew they was gone.

I ain't never cheated on you.

What the fuck was all of that?

Man, just come on, man. I ain't never cheated on you. I'm telling you, I ain't never cheated on you.

Okay, well, this is a moment that because you do have a baby together, so you're gonna be in each other's lives. This is a moment that you can actually—

No, we don't have to be in each other's lives. We don't have to be in each other's lives. We got family members that can coexist and co-parent for us 'cause I'm not, man, I ain't never cheated on you, I'm telling you that.

Promise you, I ain't never cheated on you.

You a liar, look at all that shit.

I ain't never cheated on you.

You constantly lie, you just a liar. You're a habitual liar, you're a habitual liar.

I ain't never physically cheated on you.

What the fuck is cheating to you? Is conversating not cheating? Anything you're doing that I don't know about is cheating.

I mean, this is emotional cheating. This is emotional cheating.

And where you get $5,000 from?

It's 23, all right for you.

I'm gonna have Derek, I'm gonna ask you to leave my stage. Thank you for being here. I have enough of information about you. I do wanna talk to Lauren.

That's a lying ass.

I mean, at the end of the day, just because you carrying his child doesn't mean you have to carry his baggage any longer.

Oh, that's done.

Okay? This is done.

This is done.

And I'm happy that you have the answers you have that you can go on and go back to you finding your healing. There is a man out there that is going to love you and support you, and you deserve that man. He watching right now, and trust me, he gonna see it. He gonna see it. You hear me?

Thank you.

You're welcome. We all love her, right? You gonna find it.