I'm Still Looking For My Father! | KARAMO

All right, so Chris's search for his biological father brought him to my show. Take a look at this. So in the last year, Terry was contacted by two people claiming he could be their father. He has formed a great relationship with his potential daughter, but he is fed up with Chris, the man claiming to be his son, because he keeps begging his family for money.

I've been looking for my family since I was a little kid. Like, my mom died when I was 3 years old. I grew up with nobody. Like, I have no family or nothing. My dad, I found him through Ancestry. That's how I knew I was related to him. He's not giving me like no type of communication. Like he's like, he just don't care. And I don't like that. I ain't gonna lie, I'm gonna be honest. I told him that I hope he die because I wanted him to feel how I feel.

Well, we have your potential sister here, Deja. Why did you stop communicating with her?

Because I feel like she messy as hell. She young and she feel like we supposed to be fighting over his love. Like, girl.

I'm messy.

You really are messy, yes.

So what's all this that you doing? I'm trying to get him to understand like all your pain, I feel it too, bro.

Chris and Deja's potential father Terry is joining us remotely via phone.

What the hell you think you doing? You going through the whole damn family asking for money.

Scammer.

And you calling me asking me for money. That's all you is. If he ain't my son right now, I want my money back.

Oh, Chris, now it's time for your DNA truth. So here's your truth to open.

You got this, bro. I know we look alike.

Oh, shit.

He's not my daddy. He's not.

Terry's not your father. Terry, what do you want to say in this moment?

Send me my money.

There has to be some other link in the family.

The only person that know her is my brother Georgie.

So your brother Georgie, there's a strong possibility then that could be.

That means they went behind you, Dad.

So Chris found out that Terry is not his father and now hopes Terry's brother George is his dad. He's back to solve this DNA mystery. Please welcome Chris to the show so we can hear his side of the story. All right, so I'm gonna be real with y'all. So there's some guests that stay on my heart and on my mind after they leave, and you was one of 'em. I thought about you because I just felt for you. Like, I could see already that you was just looking for love and support, and then like, To be very honest with you, I got upset 'cause I felt like people was ganging up on you. Yeah, and I feel you. Yeah, and we had our little moment backstage. And I mean, you got a mouth on you, but it's fine. Yeah, you know? But I still felt that people were not taking account that there was still a young man in there, a little boy that didn't get the love and support. And so like, you were always on my mind. And you know, have you spoken to Terry since the show?

No, I've tried to make amends with him multiple times and he's neglected, like he didn't want no nothing to do with me.

Nothing to do with you.

Why do you think that is?

I don't know.

Stubborn. Yeah, he's stubborn. He's stuck in his way and he is older and I understand that, but I will not try again. I did it. I did what I did. I tried to take him out to eat and everything and he said no.

Well, the interesting part is just to give y'all a little context because the way this all came together is because Ancestry said that you are related to this family.

Yes, I am.

So this is like an ancestor kid. So this is not just you finding random people outta nowhere. This is from Ancestry. So that means someone in this family is connected to you.

Yes.

And so why are you back with us today? Why are you here today?

Because I wanna make sure, we here to see if George is my father.

Okay then.

Yeah, and hopefully he is.

Do you know anything about George?

I don't know really too much about him, but when I was having conversations with Deja, she was just like telling me little stuff like we have some similar resemblance and similar ways. And then I found out his birthday was April 2nd and mine's April 21st. So I'm like, well, maybe he could be my daddy.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Have you developed a relationship with him?

I haven't. I don't wanna do that yet. I said I was gonna wait until I find out he my daddy first and then I'll develop a relationship because I did it wrong the last time.

Everyone please welcome George to the show.

How you doing?

You all right? Nice to meet you.

Yeah, nice to meet you. How you doing, sir? So how do you feel about what he just said?

Uh, it's one of them things, man, that, uh, you know, I know the search for his father could be, you know what I mean, kind of overwhelming.

Yeah.

And, uh, I just really want to let him know, man, that I help you in any the way that I can, you know, because I remember a lot of fun things about your mom and her family also.

So, uh, so you do know Chris's mother? What was your memories of her?

And was a real bubbly person. Like I said, her and my brother was in a relationship, and, uh, we all used to pretty much be around each other every day. Okay. And, uh, it just transpired into a I guess you could say friends with benefits type of relationship. Got it, got it.

Did you know that while you were having that friends with benefits thing that Terry was also involved with her?

And that's a part that threw me for a loop because my brother was married.

Yeah.

And I didn't know rather than dating.

That he was still messing with her.

Right.

Right.

You know, and it never came up in the conversation. You know, I was not aware at all.

How long were you involved with Christine?

It was about three or four years.

Three or four years.

Yes.

I was told. And I need to know if it's true that you and Terry have another brother that also went with Ann.

Well, it was just. I don't want her to sound like she's a hoe.

No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. Not on this show.

But the thing of it is, it's just we all had the type of relationship that we all kicked. Get, you know what I mean?

Uh, got it. Okay, okay. You know, um, and so is his name is Jerome, correct?

Right.

Is Jerome still alive?

Uh, no, uh, we just buried him, uh, last month.

Last month?

Yeah, yeah, yeah. We just, uh, me and Terry flew out to Detroit and we just buried him.

So I'm so sorry to hear that. I'm sorry for your loss.

Yeah.

Where does he fall in the line of brothers?

It's Terry the oldest. I got a couple of brothers that's older than Terry, you know what I mean? And then there's Terry, that's my other brother. Then there's the twins, 'cause he has a twin. Jerome has a twin.

Oh, he has a twin?

Right.

Where's his twin?

Right, he's in Detroit also.

So his twin is in Detroit?

Right.

Got it.

I know if they ran into her, 'cause it could be also. I mean, because of the traces. Yeah. And I don't want it to sound like your mom was a whore or anything. She got around. And it wasn't like that. Our family was just so close.

Right, right. Well, listen, we have Terry's daughter back here today. So everyone please welcome Deja to the show. Davison, how you doing? Welcome back.

I'm so sorry. I didn't talk to you last time. I apologize.

Girl, you got some information. You sitting there, you know, you don't have to apologize.

It's time to meet you. Yeah.

So this is good. Okay, this is good to see.

Boy.

So the last time I saw you, y'all, you was like, I ain't messing with you. You messy, I ain't messing with you.

Oh, we've been good.

Are y'all good?

He called me, we talked after the show.

Yeah, we talked. Yeah, and how did it feel? Like you feel like you resolved some things?

He knows my heart.

Yeah.

And when I told him how I felt backstage, I was serious. So when he gave me a call, he just really wanted to apologize. I allowed him to do that. You get what I'm saying? I'm the only person that feels your pain, know what you're going through, and actually it, You know, been through it. Yeah. Yeah, so I'm trying to help you through it and I don't want you to continue on with your past.

Because I think it's important to remind everybody that you were on that last show as well because you had never met Terry and you did not know if that was your father. And so you were looking for your own answers that day and it was hopefully to find out that this was your brother and that that was your father.

Right.

And the news for you found out that Terry was your father. And so you did understand what he was going through walking around in the dark as well, not having any answers. How's your relationship been with Terry since you found out that he was your father? Has it gotten better? Way better. Okay, good.

Yeah.

All right everyone, I think it's time to hear Terry's side of the story. So everyone, please welcome Terry back to the show. Terry, is this the first time you meeting Chris?

Oh yeah.

This is the first time? How does it feel to see him for the first time after everything that went on?

Oh yeah, I still feel the same way.

You still feel the same way? Okay. Are you hoping that your brother is his father?

Yeah. Oh no, man.

Do you see the similarities between them?

No.

You don't?

No.

You don't see the similarities?

No, his head bigger than his.

Okay.

Okay.

How does it make you feel knowing that George was with Ann at the same time with you?

Well, back when I was coming up, I was, I was kind of popular when I was coming up. All my brothers chased all the girls that I was with.

Okay, so all the girls you had, you feel like your brothers chased?

Oh yeah, all of them.

Got it.

And vice versa.

Got it, got it, got it. Okay, it ain't all me. You young.

It's a two-way street now.

You young, I ain't never had to chase nobody like you.

Okay.

Not that girl, no.

Did he ever mention that he might be the father before you came on the show? —last time? Never? Okay. Do you feel betrayed that he kept these secrets from you? No. No, okay then.

I don't feel betrayed. Like I said, all my brothers chase behind.

So this is something you used to? Yeah. You used to the fact that they chased behind a girl? But George saying that you chased behind his too.

Well, I'm older than George. Uh-huh. So I didn't chase behind none of his girls.

Okay, okay. Were you aware that your other brother Jerome was also involved with Ann too and also possibly fucked her as well?

Oh no, I wasn't.

You weren't? No, I wasn't. How does it make you feel knowing that the twins were possibly involved?

Well, in that case, you might as well blame my other brother, Afton. You might as well, you know, we got a lot of other brothers you might as well blame.

And do you think those other brothers were involved as well?

I don't know, I can't say for sure. Maybe, maybe not. If he was there.

Do you know of any of the other brothers that could have been involved?

I really don't, and at the same time, I wanna, you know what I mean, especially Chris, that your mama wasn't no easy person. This is somebody that we all had a relationship with. You know what I mean? A friendship while my brother was going with her. It wasn't no going behind his back or anything like that. She wasn't built like that. It was after the fact.

Anne was a good woman. She was a lovely person. Yeah.

What I appreciate about what they're doing is that at the end of the day, this is his mother still. Right.

That's what I'm saying. So we have to make sure that we're talking about her with some respect. That's what I'm trying to say. That's what's up.

I know her more than anybody. Of course, everyone in here is going Everyone in here is gonna have their opinion about her actions.

I'm talking about them. They're the brothers. They knew that all y'all was, you knew that my dad was messing with a friend.

That's my point.

So why would y'all go behind him and deal with her?

Okay, but you got to understand one time, but you got to understand something that you don't even understand.

I understand it, but it's just not right. It's not right.

Chris, you're quiet as usual. I'm just listening. Yeah, that's not right.

It was no disrespect to her.

Y'all disrespecting my father though.

Your daddy disrespectful. What the fuck is she talking about?

I'll tell you this.

But your daddy had disrespected me. He had a full grown relationship with a girl that I used to go with.

That has nothing to do with— Hold on, did he have a baby by her?

Did he have a baby by her? Did he have a baby by her? Did she have a baby by her? I think it's time It is time to unlock the DNA truth.

Yes, it's time, it's time.

Now the interesting part is, Chris, I've known you a little bit now and I know your personality. You have been, you're normally an outspoken person.

Yeah, but I just been listening. Yeah. 'Cause I needed just to hear what they were saying 'cause nah, I'm good.

You good, but now you have more information. And so we're one step closer to you getting the DNA truth. So again, just like last time, this is not my truth to open, this is yours.

Oh man. Okay, here we go.

George is not your biological father. Oh man. Damn.

Well, I'm sorry, man. I'm sorry, Chris. But like I said, man, I'll be here, man. Listen, man, I'll be here, man. And I hope you can be here too, man. Like I said, man, I'll help you in any way that I can, man. Okay.

You know. So, second time, and I'm sorry. Yeah. I'm sorry.

I'm sorry, Chris, too.

Sorry.

What's going on in your mind right now? Just irritated.

Yeah. Yeah. 'Cause you're ready to find your answers.

Yeah, and it's just, at this point, I'm just over it.

Yeah, you over it.

I'm over it. Yeah. I'm tired of being hurt and I don't wanna be hurt again. Yeah. So I'm done. You're done.

I hear that. Do y'all mind if I take a quick second with Chris?

Sure.

I'm gonna just step backstage. If I could take a quick second with him real quick. I appreciate all y'all being here. All right. Mm-hmm.

Thank you.

I completely understand your feelings. I completely, because like I said before, I know you and I've met a bit of you. You're outspoken, man. You're not a shy man, but I could tell you were absorbing and taking in everything that was going on here. Yeah. What's going on in your head? I just don't know where else to go.

Like, what other way do I go? Who else could it be? Yeah. Because they are on there. If I wasn't related to them, they wouldn't be on there. Yeah. So it's got to be somebody. Yeah. But I'm tired of looking.

Yeah, I understand that. Well, what was illuminating to me, and I was trying to say this to Deja, but she was trying to support you. To support her dad or defend him, is that it sounds like these brothers was doing a lot.

A lot.

That's what I was just like, why would, yeah. Yeah, 'cause it was coming out like Jerome with the twins. Too many people. It was coming out one of the other, we just heard a third brother's name right there, an older brother. Right. If there's a way to get all of them tested at once. Right. Is that something you'd want? Because again, you're right. You're right, there has to be somebody in this. There has to be. I will tell you this though. You've got more answers and you deserve those more answers. And those answers did not lead you to a conclusion. You're not in the dark. And what I also wanna say to you is your restraint and the way that you handled yourself on the stage today needs to be applauded because, because every single person here had a comment to say about your mom, had a comment to say about this, had a comment to say about something. And you sat there and took this in and said, you know what? I think everyone kept forgetting and this is why I kept trying to bring it back to you. Again, this is about you. You deserve your answers. You deserve your truth. And this is why I will never stop giving up on you and why I told you you were in my heart last time because you deserve it. I wish you was my dad. Well listen, I'm here to be a support and a friend, you know what I mean? I'm always here for you, man, because you deserve it. As I told you before, anything we can do, if there's a way that my producers and I can reach out, because what I don't wanna do, and I'm gonna be very honest with you, is I don't wanna put you in between one-on-one like this no more. That's not my deal. And I think that getting all of them together and figuring out, all of y'all take it at once, let's get all of it. And if anyone who said they've had a relationship will get the test so that you can get your answers. Would you allow me to support you in that? Most definitely, please. Excellent. Come on, give me a hug.