I'm Your Wife, Stop Accusing Me Of Cheating! | KARAMO

So tell me, you caught your wife flirting with the security guard?

Yeah, we went to a local store and normally when you go to a store with your significant other, you go to the store together. And she decided to walk off. And I'm saying, "Come on, come on, let's go." She told me, "No, go ahead." But I faked like I was going, I turned around, I looked, she's talking to him. But after that, we left together. So then, the next time we went to the store, all I see is eye contact and a smile.

Yes, sir.

And then it happened a third time. Eye contact and a smile. So then I started questioning, what's going on here? She said she works with him. But then when I asked her again, what is his name? I never seen him before. I go to your job kind of often, but how come I've never seen it? And she's a parole officer. So now it's like I'm questioning it, what you got going on here.

And how many times have you seen this happen?

3 times.

3 times.

Total.

Do you think there's respect in your relationship?

No, not from her. For me it is, but not from her.

Okay, why you don't think she respects you?

Me personally, because I'm gonna share it. Could I stand up?

Yes, you can.

I'm gonna share this with you. She goes out outside with nightgowns on.

Okay.

And she's kind of stocky.

Okay.

And women, when they wear nightgowns, most of them are mid-thigh.

Come right there, mid-thigh, yeah.

She picked potatoes, tomatoes, and when she bends over, Oh. And I'm kind of like, "Why in the hell you going outside like this? Why? Females don't do that." And she kind of like came against me.

Got it. And so people in your neighborhood, your neighbors can see is what you're saying when she bends over like that?

Yeah, she love attention, but that's the wrong kind of attention.

So you told my Unlock the Phone investigators that you want to know if Robin was communicating with other men, if Robin blocked him on social media.

Or blocked me.

Blocked you on social media. And if Robin has been to Walmart while you're at work, and if Robin has been in contact with the security guard.

Yes.

Got it, okay.

Yes, yes.

So there's some clear things you wanna know.

It's a lot I would like to know. Is she using me for financial reasons or not? I'm not trying to bash her or anything. It's just the fact that in a relationship, in a marriage, "Man, it shouldn't be this." Yeah, I agree.

Well listen everyone, I think it's time we speak to Robin. So please welcome Robin to the show. How you doing, Robin?

I'm good, how are you?

Nice to meet you.

Good to meet you.

It's nice to meet you too.

You look beautiful.

Thank you.

Yes, you're welcome. So how do you feel about what your husband had to share so far?

Oh my God, Karamo, my husband has lost his damn mind. My husband, I think I lost my mind. My husband is insecure. Probably because of his past trauma with women. He says he's been cheated on by all the women he's ever been with.

Every last one of them.

But not me.

I don't know that yet.

Okay. And so he has some control issues also.

Okay.

And so he wants me with him all the time. And I love it. I love being with him all the time, but I do work. I go to work from 8 to 5, Monday through Friday. If I'm not at work, I'm with him. He thinks I'm, from 8 to 5, he thinks I'm having sex, talking on the phone, being with a man all day long. Like, 8 to 5, I'm just riding. You know what I mean? Like, come on, Steve! Karamo, Karamo!

If you did what you did in front of him, In front of me. What make you think I don't think you'll do it behind my back?

Okay, what he's talking about is I work in the criminal justice field. I work in a building that has a police in it and my department in it. We in the same building. One day we went to Walmart and my husband, I like to go look at the clothes. I just like to see what they have.

The clothes you went looked at wasn't your size. See, let me talk. They wasn't your size.

Let me talk.

But the clothes you looked at wasn't your size.

I wanna hear her side of the story. Let me see.

I love to look at the clothes they have in Walmart, you know, 'cause they cheap, but they have my size too. And so we were going for a birthday party and we were going to get a cake and the stuff for the birthday party. So we were roaming around. And at some point, we were going to the cake area to pick up the cake. And at some point—

You ventured off.

I ventured off into the clothing area.

That's not your size.

All of it's my size as far as I'm concerned. I can get in all of it. And so at some point, he kept walking. I ventured to the women's clothing. I'm looking at the clothing and a police officer is posted up. No, the police officer.

The one you talked to.

Is posted up. In the women's clothing. He's got full regalia on, ready to arrest somebody. And so I made my way, you know, looking at the clothes and boom, there he is. And I'm like, "Hi." And he's like, "Hi, how you doing?" And I said, "I'm doing good." You don't think he was ready to put you in handcuffs? I didn't even think about it.

I'm thinking, "Whoa." How was the intimacy and romance in your relationship?

Let me answer that. Let me answer that. And I'm gonna get personal on that. It's really not that good because I had cancer and I have ED. That's why I can answer that.

But I still make an effort to—

Yeah, she do, she do.

To have intimacy with him and I initiate it so he can have that experience.

What difference would it make if you doing it and then doing the things you doing? It don't make sense.

Yes, but I'm not doing anything.

That's what you saying.

But that's what we here for.

Okay.

Well, we about to find out the truth right now.

Here we go. I'm gonna share this. I love my wife. I love my wife dearly, but the decisions she make, make me go that way.

Yeah, I hear that. Well, True, you want to know if Robin has been communicating with any other men. Robin says she is not. My Unlock the Phone investigators searched her texts and found that she is telling the truth. True, you want to know if Robin had blocked you on social media. Robin says she did not. Mom locked the phone, investigators searched her apps, and she did not block you. She's telling the truth.

Told you.

Told you.

True wants to know if Robin has been visiting to the Walmart in question while at work. Robin says she is not. My Unlock the Phone investigators searched her GPS locations and found that she is not telling the truth in this one. She was there last Friday at 11:00 AM.

I think that may be the one.

Right, when I was cooking greens and a roast. Right? Did you have greens and a roast on Friday? And I told you I was going to get it.

Like I told Karamo, I didn't come here to bash you. I came for the truth.

And you get the truth.

I came for the truth.

Okay. So True, you want to know if Robin has been in contact with the security guard at Walmart. Robin says she has not. My unlock the phone investigator searched her phone and found that she's telling the truth. There's no messages or contact information from the security guard in her phone.

I told you.

However, you did give us the, give my producers the security guard's full name, work number, and email.

Yes.

But you told me you didn't know him.

When they called—

That's a lie.

Listen, listen, they wanted to find out more. So I did my police work and went in my employee directory and I dug up this person's name and I gave it to them.

Got it.

Let's go.

Well, it looks like we're getting a ping. Our producers actually reached out to the security guard who wanted to share a message with Utru.

Take a listen.

So I do recall running into a heavyset lady a couple of months ago at Walmart. At the time, I didn't even know her name. But I'd seen her a couple of times at the building because we share the same office building. The first time I called her was this week. I don't have any type of relationship with Miss Robin. She isn't flirtatious with me, and I met her once at Walmart, and that was just her stopping by to say hello, and I never thought anything about it. Until I got the email about this whole incident.

So to be clear, he called you to see if this show was a scam because he didn't know if this was like some scam or something that's happening.

We work in the same company. I know, man. He can go into the employee directory and look up somebody.

But I'll tell you this, 'cause I had my producers grill him in every single way possible and your wife is not messing around with the security guard at all. They have no relationship at all. There's nothing at all. There's nothing at all here. There is some text between you two that I did find that I did want to talk to.

Between me and Robyn? Oh yeah. Oh. Oh yeah. Oh.

Yeah. Thank you.

I can tell you that. Oh yeah.

Oh yeah.

Oh yeah.

I know. Oh, there it is.

I know. Like I told you, I'm aggressive, very aggressive, mentally and verbally.

And I kept every one of 'em.

It says here, "You mean nothing to me. It's the second time you've muted me and God knows how many times you have met that behind my back or in your office. You are nasty and we don't have sex. You nasty. Who wants a woman like that?

I done said some things.

And then she says, I'm not meeting any men. You got a good husband and you go in.

You go in, in, in.

Karamo, this about me. I don't hide nothing. And like I told you, I'm aggressive. Very aggressive.

Yeah. You know, and just by acknowledging it, it doesn't make it any better.

It doesn't.

Because it doesn't. I understand you're seeking reassurance because of your past trauma.

Right.

But while you're seeking this reassurance, you're also damaging the relationship you have. Like you have a pretty good, a really great woman. The fact that she would stand by you and the fact that you accusing her and talking to this.

Oh, enough.

She could have any moment left you or pushed you away, but she's still sticking by your side. She's still standing here with you and she's still trying to show you that I'm gonna do whatever you ask me to. Every example you've given of like, I don't want you to be at that store, so she's not going anymore. You say, I don't want you sending these filters to anybody else, so she stops sending the filters. And nothing is enough because of your own insecurities. So what is it that you think in your mind your wife can do to help your trust issues?

I'm gonna be honest with you, Karamo. I really don't know. Because—

I'm glad you said that. Because the thing is that there's nothing she can do.

No.

There's nothing she can do.

Right.

There's nothing she can do. It's not okay that these women cheated on you because I said, just if there was a woman in front of me, I'd have said the same thing to her. It's not okay that you've had women betray you and hurt you. And now as you've gotten older, compounded with health issues, it feels even more like, well, what is my worth? And because that's what this conversation's about. These women have challenged your worth. And even though you have a woman right here who's telling you you everything to her, through everything, she's staying with you, she went and got your food, she's not going to certain stores, she's doing everything for you, you still don't believe you're worthy of this woman. And so therefore you are verbally abusing her and—

Trying to push me away.

And trying to push her away. Can you commit to your wife and say that I'll talk to you about what I'm feeling and what I've dealt with in my past?

I can. I can commit to talking to you about some things, some problems I'm having. And really, I know you can help me get over the past. And there's some things I may, little bitty things I may still deal with. But I can tell you this, I love you dearly.

I love you too.

Good, good.

I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

Listen, I'll tell you this. I know you're looking for true love, but you have to love true first.

Wow. You got that?

You got that?

Yeah.

If you can be vulnerable with your wife and talk about this and really share what's going on, every time you wanna accuse her, switch it to you sharing. What's going on in your past, it's gonna help you heal.

Okay?

You deserve that healing. And you didn't deserve anything that these women did to you. It's just the truth of it. All right? Wish you the best of luck, son, seriously. I wish you the best as well.

Thank you.

I just want you to know, I'm sorry for those text messages. And I promise I won't do it again. From now on, it gonna be just me and you. I promise you.

I love you. I'm with you. Like I said, we, this is our last hurrah for us together for the rest of our lives. And you have to stop doing that. Right. Trust me, I love you.

Thank you, I thank you for being there for me.

And I'm with you.

And I won't do it again, I promise.

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