In this episode of Karamo’s relationship‑advice show, host Karamo mediates a heated dispute between Cassandra, who suspects her best friend Briana of having an affair with Cassandra’s girlfriend Destiny, and Briana, who denies any wrongdoing. Cassandra presents a series of “evidence” – shared movie outings, manicure dates, and especially the fact that Briana and Destiny repeatedly turn off their phone locations – and recounts a past betrayal where Briana allegedly slept with someone Cassandra cared about. Karamo repeatedly polls his studio audience about whether the activities constitute a “date night,” uses the audience’s split opinion to highlight Cassandra’s feelings, and then asks Cassandra about the history of her friendship with Briana (13 years) and her relationship with Destiny (a year‑and‑a‑half, met at Pride). The conversation escalates with accusations, name‑calling, and a demand to unlock Briana’s phone, which she refuses. Karamo attempts to expose possible flirtations, asks about attraction, and pushes both parties to articulate boundaries. He offers advice: set new boundaries, consider ending the friendship or relationship, and reflect on personal behavior. The segment ends with Karamo urging Cassandra to evaluate her actions, warning that she may have lost a “real one,” while Briana dismisses the stakes. Throughout, Karamo repeats questions for emphasis, uses a conversational‑tone, and frames the dispute as a learning moment for the audience.
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So girl, tell me, why do you think your friend is sleeping with your girlfriend?
Ooh, for example, they go to the movies together.
Uh-huh.
They go out to eat.
Uh-huh.
But the one thing that really got me, they went to the manicure and pedicure spot with the bubbly mimosas.
Mm-hmm.
Karamo, don't you think that's a date night?
Listen, it ain't my opinion. My audience said, "Yeah." Yeah? Who in here think those are date night activities? Raise your hand high. Okay, so we kind of split. Half the people feel like it's date night, half people don't. But clearly you feel like it's date night.
Yes, I do.
Okay then. So did they tell you what they were doing or did you have to find out?
No, they do secret stuff like turn off their location. I have both of their locations. They turn off their location. They lie, my best friend, and say sometimes that the location messes up, but I know I'm not crazy.
So. Yeah, that's a little bit suspicious, turn off location. And they've done that multiple times?
Multiple, on multiple occasions. So my sister told me that Destiny and my best friend were together at my house. I was at work. I work a lot, have a busy life, but I love Destiny though. I don't want this relationship to end because, you know, my best friend and her are messing around. I hope that's not true.
How long have you and Destiny been together?
We've been together since last year of March. We met at Pride.
So a year and a half?
Yeah.
Okay, y'all met at Pride. It was cute. Yeah. Okay. You was like, "That's the one." Yeah. Okay. And then how long have you and Briana been friends?
We've been best friends for 13 years. If Destiny, if she is cheating, she can go on about her day, but I'm willing to fight for this relationship because, you know, I love her. 13 years. I don't wanna just let it go.
I don't know. I'm trying to think of best friend Trey. Y'all know I have a best friend. His name is Trey. And if he was sleeping with my man, That might have to go. I don't know.
I don't know.
I'm not one of them like really like, let's swap and you know, like I ain't, you like deuces. Like I can't trust you no more. Like, I don't know. I'm not saying that's what you gotta do. I'm just thinking about what I would do. So best friend, don't try it. Okay. But have you ever asked Briana to stop hanging out with your girlfriend without you?
I've asked her a couple of times.
Okay. And she's not respecting that?
No, not at all.
Okay then. Why do you think she's not respecting that?
I feel like in a way she wants her. She wants her. She's done this in the past that I forgave her with talking to a person that I care for. She's claimed that he really didn't want me, so she went behind my back and slept with him.
Were you in a relationship with them or were you just talking to them?
I was in a relationship with one and went and slept with him. Forgave her.
And how long ago was that?
That was 4 years ago.
Oh, okay. Why did you forgive her?
We've been through a lot together.
Listen, I believe that no partner, no man, no woman should get in between friendships, but when the friend is choosing the other people, then like there's an issue. You know what I mean? Right. Did she apologize for it?
She apologized, but she's not sorry. Her favorite word is I'm delusional, I'm overreacting, act old-fashioned. Old-fashioned?
'Cause you don't want her to sleep with your partner?
Right.
Okay. Well, call me old-fashioned then, okay. All right. All right, well listen, you know, I don't wanna judge because I wanna hear Briana's side of this story. So everyone, I think it's time to meet Briana and hear what she has to say about this. So Briana, come on out.
She's delusional, you delusional, you's a lunatic, you's a crazy-ass delunatic.
Briana, you are a manipulator.
And what are you?
You are a manipulator.
How?
You go to the movies with Destiny, y'all are out there dating.
We are friends, we are close. You always at work.
Does it look right, Karamo? It doesn't look right for her to be with my significant other.
And let me ask you first, welcome to the show. Thank you for being here.
Thank you.
Has she told you that she's uncomfortable with you hanging out with Destiny?
No, she has not.
So she's never told you?
Numerous of times I've told you. Numerous of times.
No, no, no.
You cannot be trusted, Briana. You cannot be trusted. I love you to death, but you're sick.
If I can't be trusted, why you keep bringing me around?
Because I want this friendship to last. I would think that you would have enough sense to do the right thing, but you still have—
So what has she specifically said to you since you said she never told you not to hang around her?
Never said nothing about stop hanging with Destiny. She said, well, I just feel like it's weird that y'all always together. You got on location. If it was something serious, we would've been to the location by now.
So she's saying you only say it's weird. Have you ever said the words, please stop hanging out with her?
I've told her this 3 times, to be exact, verbatim, word for word.
I'm gonna crash out on you, 'cause why is you lying in front of this man's face?
Okay, so let me ask you this. Are you attracted to Destiny?
No, I don't even like girls.
Okay.
Yes, she does. She likes the best of both worlds.
So you like to play when you wanna play?
Yes.
When I want to, but Destiny, she's a hoe.
She is too, and I love her to death.
Okay then, so then why do you keep hanging out with her so much?
Okay, so my thing is, if I'm at Cassandra's house, right? And Destiny around, why stop being cool when every time we turn around we gonna still be together?
Got it.
It don't make sense.
So you're saying like, I can have a relationship without her because you're forcing the relationship. Y'all all three are always together.
Exactly.
Not always.
Have you ever been this close to Cassandra's exes before?
We always been mutual when we go out to eat or when we go out on trips.
No, 'cause she said you got really close with one of 'em. She did. Like really close.
She did.
Is it true that you slept with somebody she was dating in a relationship?
It's true, 'cause you know why? He said that they wasn't together. She was being delusional in her head like she is now.
But if he says they not together, it don't matter. What did your best friend say?
Exactly.
She's delusional. They have never been together. Like, they have never been together. Why are you lying?
Okay, well, I think it's time to unlock the phone. Unlock, unlock, unlock, unlock, unlock, unlock. Briana, we unlocked your phone. Actually, we did not because Briana refused.
You are a liar. You.
Why would you refuse?
'Cause I'm a real-ass bitch. If I really was trying to do something, I would've said that, but I'm not.
Okay. Well, when we asked you to unlock your phone, we actually, my producer telling me, caught your response on hidden camera. Well, let's take a look at what you said. You can look right here.
Can you unlock your phone to prove you're not talking to Destiny? I can't do it. I can't do it. I'm sorry. No, I can't do it. But what's in there? Bacon. I want some. Have you guys flirted before? Has she flirted with you? Just once. You know somebody wants you, but they don't want to come out and say it, so they kind of like throw hints out to you. Like, you look good. Like, you know you look good. And like, you know, a little flirting, a little stomach or something. Like, it was the dress. It had to be the dress talking. But it wasn't just— if she cheating on you, it won't be with me. Not too long ago, I seen Destiny at the mall. I did see somebody get in her car. I look— I ain't want to make it obvious, but her hair was really nice.. And usually I have her like in like poofed out ponytail or poofed out afro. But this particular day, like, her hair was cute. Like, her hair was real cute. But you had your hair done, you meet somebody at the mall, they get in your car. Where y'all going? What y'all finna do? You doing something.
Hey, you are too. You gonna have a little something going on today.
So what I'm hearing here is Destiny has tried to flirt with you and you feel like she does want you. But you haven't done anything.
Right. But why is this something that you address being best friends? Why right now?
You so head over heels about her. Can't nobody tell you shit about Destiny.
I've been told she's a hoe.
You could've texted. I would've accepted it.
You knew she was a hoe when you first met her. So what are you talking about?
I would've accepted it. But still, at the end of the day, why would you text her? Why are y'all doing this?
So hold on. So you also seen Destiny possibly cheating on her. Why didn't you tell your best friend immediately?
'Cause she head over heels. It's always you just trying to get in our relationship.
No, she wants her.
I don't want her, she's a hoe.
You want her, so why give her the time to text her then? That makes you a hoe too.
We always go out.
I guess somebody wants to know.
So I'm gonna ask you this. Now that we've heard that Destiny has hit on you, that means you have nothing to hide. Is this really your best friend? You wanna give her your phone now so that she can look through it? Can I have the phone brought up? Can I have her phone? Lemme see. Thank you, Rob. So do you wanna give her the opportunity to look through your phone and see the text message between you and Destiny? You ready to unlock your phone?
It should be nothing for me to see what's going on.
You ready to unlock it? Okay. You see the message?
Ain't nothing in there, but okay.
Brownie, you asking her where she at? You asking her where she at? And let's meet up, stuff like this with the kissy face emoji. You are a liar.
You are a liar. Let me see the phone. Let me see the phone.
You are a liar. That's what you are. We are no longer friends. You don't have to worry about After today, nothing.
Bruh, like we just cool.
We're just cool. Cut that in.
Let me go. We're just cool.
We're just cool. You're just a whore. That's what you are.
I mean, I'll be that too if you want me to, but we're just cool.
You've been that. I've just been trying to see the good in you.
Which one is Destiny?
Which one?
Baby D. Baby D is Destiny.
And why would she be that?
Why would she be that?
Baby D. That's crazy. Um, I'm calling Baby D. Let's find out. I mean, we here, right?
Hmm.
Your call has been forwarded to voicemail.
Okay. We're gonna see. What I do know, we can't get an answer for Baby D. What I do know is Briana, you have some trifling ways about you. I will tell you that the way that you're respecting this relationship is not healthy. I'll tell you that. Because I can understand that if you're frustrated with how your best friend is picking her partners, I get that. You're like, I'm tired, I'm tired, I'm tired of this. But the way you're referring to her, the way you talking to her, and also like continuing behavior that could be considered shady or not giving her information, you can see how fucked up that is, right? Yeah. You do understand like if the shoe was on the other foot, you'd be hurt by that, wouldn't you?
Yeah, I'd be ready to crash the shit out of her.
You'd be crashing, you about—
But we two different people, so.
So then, so that means you're taking advantage of the fact that you know that she's not going to crash out on you.
I know I will, I'm just very, I'm more of a loving person, but I'm about ready to—
What I think needs to happen in this relationship, there needs to be some new boundaries. Yeah. And the boundaries don't need to be about her and Destiny, it needs to be about you. Right. You gotta start figuring out what you wanna do because she's showing you who she is. She's telling you this who I am. She's telling you like this what I am. She's telling you this my personality. And for some reason you're accepting certain behaviors that I don't think you should be accepting anymore. And I'm not saying that there's things that maybe could be bad on your part. I don't know the dynamics. We're only here for one part of the dynamic. And what we do know is that that you have a very sneaky relationship with the person she's dating. You have not been fully honest with her and that you have a history in your past of doing this to her. All XXX. Poor. I'm gonna tell you this, if you don't wanna end up being her ex-friend, you need to stop messing with who's gonna be her now ex. Right. 'Cause you about to break up with Destiny, right? Thank you. 'Cause you about to break up with Destiny. It's a wrap.
Okay. Once I get home, it's a wrap. Destiny can go far ways. She can go find a friend who can let her play in they face, but today stops it.
Done, okay. Well listen, I hope you evaluate some of your behavior, 'cause you might have just lost a real one.
She most definitely did lose a real one.
Okay then. I ain't lose too much of nothing, but—
The harsh ways, this is expected of her. But this is expected of you though.
Okay, if you know that, then why you?
Wouldn't come off like that.
Like my family tells me, I was her friend, she was really never mine. So I see that now.
I think we all agree with that. All right, well everyone, I wish y'all the best of luck separately. Thank you for being here. Everyone at home, stay with us, friends. We'll be right back with more.
