Is My BFF Helping My Man Cheat with Non-Black Women? | KARAMO

Well, thank you for being here. So I gotta ask you, what is going on with you and Jordan?

That he's not gonna stop talking to other women. That's new.

Oh yeah.

But yes, like I—

Oh, so you didn't know that?

No.

Okay. Absolutely not.

So how does it make you feel knowing already that he said he's not gonna stop talking to other women?

That makes me feel a little hesitant to go forth with this, but we here now.

Got it, okay.

We here for resolution, so.

I'm here for you. So how long have you and Jordan been together?

Since about 2015. So it's been almost 10 years.

Wow.

We've been on again, off again for a long time. Yeah. And I recently moved to Orlando, so it's been a strain on our relationship.

Got it. And where's he living?

In Virginia.

Okay.

Yeah, back at home. That's where I'm from.

Okay. Got it, got it. And that has been a strain. How long have you been in Orlando?

Since December of 2022. I am in college, so I relocated for school.

Okay, nice, nice, nice. Congratulations.

Thank you.

So when did you start noticing Jordan's On social media?

It has been over the years, but more recently it's a specific person that I was noticing him conversating with more.

Okay, got it. And what kind of things does he do on social media other than?

This might sound really like crazy, but Twitter or X, what it is now, there's a very like strong sexual community on there and he be retweeting and liking the content that the creators be creating. And it's a specific type that is not me.

Got it, what is the type?

Asian.

Oh, so he's into Asian women?

Yes.

Okay then, got it. And so you're seeing this because you're being—

And I'm a beautiful Black woman.

Okay, yeah. And so you're seeing it 'cause he's retweeting this over and over again.

And I go through his likes.

Oh, and you go through the likes, yeah, okay then. What makes you think Jordan may be cheating with this woman though?

It's mainly her that I see him interacting with. And there was an instant where we were, this is like a couple years ago, we were in the club. We were doing what couples do in the club. We was in the same section. She was doing the side eye. Mm. So yeah. And it's been constant with this same person. I didn't know it was multiple. But it's been constant with this.

Got it. So we have some of the tweets that he's been— So he tweeted out, "My wife is gonna be Asian." And he's in a relationship with you for the past 10 years and you are not an Asian woman.

I'm not Asian. My name is Malaysia, but I'm not Asian. I'm not Asian.

"Asian women still have my heart." Okay. And this is from 2023.

So granted it's been over, It's been years and I feel like he'll say stuff like that to get under my skin or 'cause he knows that it's a constant thing. And there was a situation that happened in the very early part of our relationship where we were not together anymore. And I did get like in a relationship with someone else and like he kind of holds that over my head. But I told him in like 2019, 2020, like if we're gonna continue, you gotta let that go.

Social media is all a gimmick at the end of the day.

A gimmick. Social media is a gimmick. Okay.

I mean, I do talk to other people, but I'm never flirting or doing anything out of pocket. I know Malaysia has me on.

So I'm gonna ask you this though, and this is man to man. You don't think typing on social media that your wife's gonna be Asian when the girl you're dating is an African American woman, you don't think that's out of pocket?

It is definitely out of pocket. Definitely out of pocket.

Thank you for taking accountability. Thank him for taking accountability 'cause that's something that he don't really do.

Okay.

Thank you.

You're welcome.

I mean, at the end of the day, I work all day every day. So social media's all I got.

Yeah. So what's going on between you and this specific Asian woman that she said, you know, we saw, she saw in the club that was giving you the side eye?

I have no clue what she's talking about.

None at all?

None at all.

Okay. So you're not talking to this woman, you don't know this woman?

Nope.

Nothing at all?

Nothing at all. She's always assuming, it could be, She could say I'm talking to an alien.

I do assume. I do assume. Because when you tweet and stuff like that, and like I said, he will troll me. He'll say stuff to get a reaction out of me. But why are you saying that? Is there any truth to it? But okay, I understand tweet song lyrics or whatever, but why in the moment that we going through what we going through?

So you think it's passive?

Yeah, it's being petty.

Do you do that?

I do do it. I definitely do be petty. He's very petty.

He's a Taurus. He's petty.

She always gonna bring up his zodiac, and I feel like that has nothing to do with him being petty.

It does.

I can't lie, I dated a Taurus, and he was petty. He did the same thing. Petty, petty. He did the same thing.

Petty.

So you both agreed to unlock your phones, but only allowed my investigator to search for this week, which I thought was very interesting. That was your mandate, right? Yeah. You wouldn't let us go past one week.

Yeah, I wouldn't let him go past one week.

Why?

Why? They asking why? Why?

I feel like it just wasn't, I feel like at the end of the day, even going through my phone, she's not gonna find nothing. So why would you waste your time and go back and look through my phone?

So, but if we are not gonna find anything, why only restrict us to one week? Is your relationship that weak that we only can look at one week?

I mean, the relationship is always gonna be on and off regardless. So one week is just like—

Regardless.

I feel like one week was good enough.

What do you mean regardless though? What do you mean one week was enough?

We always have our problems. We're always arguing. Like you're always accusing me of stuff.

I really don't know.

So if we break up today, you saying we gonna be back on again after this? After I heard just what?

Probably, I don't know.

Oh, do you think you'd be back on?

Absolutely not.

Absolutely not, okay.

Maybe still work on our friendship.

Our friendship.

Maybe still have a friendship because it has been a very long time. And I do consider him still one of my close friends.

Yeah, that's 10 years. I get that. Well, I think it's time to get to the results. Jordan, let's unlock your phone first. All right, so in this envelope is the truth. We've unlocked your phone. You only allowed us to go back 1 week and we respected that. So we are gonna check. All right, Malaysia, you want to know if Jordan is cheating on you. Jordan says he is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched through his photos and found that Jordan is not telling the truth. We found 16 deleted photos of Jordan with the woman you were suspicious about, all within the last week.

Within the last week is crazy considering the fact that you knew that we was gonna come here.

Well, that's why they were deleted. But people forget that we know even if you delete 'em, we can get everything out the cloud. That's a thing. We don't gotta go back 5 weeks. We can just delete 'em and get 'em out the cloud. Mm-hmm.

Well.

All right, well, let's continue on. My Unlock the Phone investigators searched through his videos and found that Jordan is not telling the truth. We found 24 deleted videos of Jordan with the same woman all within the last week.

So that's your girlfriend.

That's your girlfriend.

No. I'm not gonna do a whole bunch of back and forth upon it. Like, I don't care whatever they found, I still don't understand what they found.

You know what, that's okay.

Well, okay, well, let's continue on. My unlock the phone investigators searched through his phone and found that Jordan, again, is not telling the truth. Jordan had over 720,000 calls text and FaceTimes with this woman.

Can I get the evidence bag?

So you're just making it up to embarrass me. Oh, within the last 4 months.

Yeah.

So let me give you the evidence bag that we found.

Like, what is going on? What in the hell?

Well—

What is going on?

Well, on this deleted, within this past week that we searched it out, we did find photos of him being sexual with this Asian woman. These are photos of the two of them having sex.

Oh my God. Yo, ayo.

Those are photos that they sent to each other. If you go through, go through the second one as well. Is that his body? Is that you?

That's definitely. Who is this? Is that her? Who is this? What the hell? Yeah, uh-uh, absolutely not. What is this? What beach was you at? What the fuck is going on?

I really got nothing more to say about that. That is—

Okay, all right. I can—

You keep that. I'll put it back in the envelope for you.

These are—

So, I mean—

And those was all within the last week?

Yes, these are within the last week. That's all you gave us access to.

Yo.

I guess I just feel since she is away, I feel like I had, I just had to do what a man does at the end of the day.

Okay.

I'm gonna tell you this stuff right here. That's not what a man does. That's what a boy does. A boy who's not ready to be honest. 'Cause all you had to say to her was, you away to school, I'm here, it's not gonna work. I wanna go out. So listen, have your fun, have my fun. And then when you're done with school, let's try to see if we can rekindle this. Yeah, that's what we better do. That's growth. Many people who meet as high school sweethearts and go on to explore their lives sometimes take a break, but you decide to keep it on and keep telling her that something was going on.

Right.

So what happened when you went to the club with your friends last month?

Last month I was with me and our mutual friend, Jayneek. And I was just enjoying myself, having a good time. I think we went out for one of our friend's birthdays and Malaysia calling my phone like, "What are you doing? Who are you with? Why are there so many women around?" And we have a ping from Janeek.

I guess this is your friend you were saying that you went to the club with, who's both of your friends. Let's take a look at what she had to say.

Malaysia, I have a confession to make. Jordan and I go to clubs together to pick up girls. And he's definitely cheating on you.

Janique! Janique!

Well, Janique is here in the audience. Thank you for being here. Hi, Janique. Thank you for being here. So you just confessed that you actually go to the club with your friend and y'all pick up women together.

We do. Janique, you come to Orlando like every other week. Every other week. You're always with him. With me?

They're both my best friend. This is— I can't pick sides.

Like, what happens to being a girl's girl?

But I've always told you to leave him alone. Like, I didn't necessarily tell you, oh, he's out here cheating. I've always told you, every time you came to me with a suspicion, I told you just leave him alone, leave him where he at.

But at the end of the day, as much as like, yes, I get how you feel, could feel betrayed by her for not telling you, at the end of the day, the real person that you could feel betrayed by is him.

Absolutely, and I do. Of course, of course. You dirty.

But we're not done yet. Jordan, you want to unlock Malaysia's phone. So do you think we're gonna find something on her phone?

Probably.

Probably. Okay, yep, probably.

Well, you wanted to know if she was cheating with other men, so here we go. It's time to unlock your phone, Malaysia. Jordan, you want to know if Malaysia's cheating on you with other men. Malaysia says she is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched her apps and found that Malaysia is not telling the truth. Whoa.

Well, because I had my suspicion. I had my suspicion.

She's on both Tinder and Hinge. Wow. Actively.

Okay, granted, I can explain those apps 'cause I'm new to the area, so I'm finding people.

Got it.

Finding what kind of people?

Got it.

You never know who you gonna find.

So you gotta look on Tinder and Hinge?

Social media's just social media, right?

That's not social media. Those are dating apps.

My luck the phone investigator searched her texts and found that Malaysia is not telling the truth. She's been texting with 3 separate guys.

3 separate guys? That's 3. And I'm the dirty whatever this and the third?

Texting.

You're on there texting.

Please carry on.

Texting with 3 different guys. This is the number of texts that have come between these 3 different guys, 2,473. My unlock the phone investigators searched her photos and found that Malaysia is not telling the truth. We found 4 photos of the other guys that were sent to her, one of them being explicit.

Oh, that's, no.

These guys are not?

That, if you go back, that is not someone that I'm dealing with. That is someone that he confides in me about something, he knows him.

[Speaker:KARAMO] Okay, got it, got it. So two of them and then one of them sent the sexually explicit photo. You wanna send it?

[Speaker] No, no, do not show it. Don't show it.

[Speaker] No, we're not gonna put it up there. We're not gonna put that up there. We blur faces, but do you know this guy? Do you know this guy?

[Speaker] Never seen that guy a day in my life, but It just makes sense. I mean, like, wow.

Well, I'll tell you this, she did not send—

That's it, babe.

I will tell you this, and this is not to say anything better. She did not send anything back. She did not do anything sexual with them in nature back.

Never, y'all.

Never, y'all. She was engaging in the conversation, but in full transparency, there was never from her saying, let me have sex with you, let me send you something back. So there was nothing involved.

That was unsolicited.

But it definitely still had to—

It was unsolicited.

But it had to get to that point of talking and she's giving the vibe to where—

As you can see, I'm still, I'm desired, I'm still wanted. There's people that are not gonna cheat on me.

Well listen, y'all have 10 years of history and that's exactly what this is, history. You said if you found somebody that's loyal—

Absolutely, done. You're done? Done.

That's fine.

How do you feel about that?

That's fine. And done.

And done?

And we gonna go out later. Me and Eugene, we about to go out later and do the same thing though.

Okay. Y'all have fun.

Listen, I'm just glad that you have your answers. You have a bright future ahead of you. I do hope that one day, now that this honesty can be out, that you all can communicate even more honestly about what's going on. But at the end of the day, this is done, it's run its course. So, so yeah.

That's what you like?

Just put 'em away.

That's what you like?

Just put 'em away.

I don't look like that.

Well, he tweeted already that's what he liked.

He did.

All right, listen, the best of luck to you, all right? Keep up the good work, all right?

Best of luck to you as well.