Tiffany's boyfriend left a bar with another woman, flirted in front of her, and went to the woman's apartment. Karamo and a panel debate whether Tiffany's concerns come from past trauma or real red flags, and how to tell the difference between insecurity and justified distrust.
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I wanna talk to my audience and get y'all's point of view on this. Anybody have an opinion on this? I wanna get y'all's comments.
I think my opinion honestly is that I'm seeing some insecurity here and you're not gonna be able to keep a relationship like that. I think you're driving him away.
Oh, so you think that her insecurities are what's driving him away?
Yeah.
Oh wow. How do you feel about that?
I feel like it's not insecurities, it's just the things that I've been through.
What's your thoughts on this?
Hey Tiffany.
Hi.
It sounds like he was clear when you first met that he wasn't ready for a relationship. And you know, it sounds like you're holding past him against present him.
Do you feel like you're holding past him against present him?
I feel like I'm not because I let a lot of that past go.
And then something recently happened that I didn't mention, which is he went to the bar with his friends and then he left the bar with a girl and he flirted with her actually right in my face. And then I found out later, he said, all right, I'll tell you the truth. You know, I left the bar with a girl and we were supposed to just go to drinks and she ended up driving to her apartment. And this was recently. So this is why I'm feeling the way that I'm feeling now.
[Speaker:KARAMO] Makes so much sense. This makes so much sense because now you're telling me that there's been the beginning of the relationship, even though y'all weren't, you said you were just talking, you were trying to figure things out. Then there's now you've put the app on your phone And then now there's a woman at a bar. Then securities make sense.
I mean, when people show you who they are, you have to believe them.
I agree, I agree, I agree.
And checking your phone every single day and being on top of you and the insecurity.
He checks my phone every day. I can't send one text. I can't send one text to nobody. He checks my phone every single day.
Do you check her phone as well?
He checks it every day too.
I check it, but not like that. But she's not crazy though.
I don't know. Listen, that's the thing.
Why y'all gangin' on me?
This one I'm on your side.
That's not even right.
Listen, I'm on your side on this part.
Listen, I think it's time for us to go back to the stage so I can unlock the phone. We'll get the answers right now.
