Is My Fiancée Smashing My Cousin? 👀😿 | KARAMO

Just 5 months ago, my guest Tequila was celebrating her engagement to her fiancé Quincy. But since the proposal, Quincy has been accusing Tequila of lying and cheating with his own cousin. Tequila says she has nothing to hide, so she wants my help unlocking her phone to reveal the truth to her fiancé. There's so much to unpack here, so everyone, welcome Tequila to the show. Hi, Tequila.

Hi.

How are you doing?

I could be better.

Can I have a hug?

You sure can.

I'm sorry. I'm so sorry. Take a seat for me. So Tequila, I see you're distraught. Please tell me, let's go back with your relationship. How did you meet Quincy?

I do security.

Yeah.

During my course, I got put in Quincy's building. I was working there, then all of a sudden, I seen him, you know what I mean? Like, I was just like, he different. He don't look like the rest of the people in this building. Like, you know what I mean? So I was working and then one day he just walked up to me. Hey, how you doing? He was like, what's your name? I was like, Tequila. He was like, you got a man? I said no, which I didn't.

Yeah.

You know what I mean? I had a hump buddy.

I ain't had no man though. Yes.

So we kicked it off. From that point.

And how was it in the beginning? Was it good?

It was awesome. It was like I had a feeling that came, like when I met him, I was just like, dang, it's something different about him. And I was willing to explore that. You know what I mean? So long story short, me and Quincy started talking, which turned into immediately dating in August.

And then he proposed in 1 month.

He proposed in 2 weeks, actually.

2 weeks.

Wow. I was holding it like this.

Yeah.

And you're happy because you told my producers you thought you'd never get married.

I told them that I would never get married. I've been proposed to multiple times, but I've never took it. I'm like, man, get outta here. I ain't marrying nobody.

So then what made you say yes to Quincy?

I don't know. It was just a different feeling that he gave me when I met him.

So when did the cheating accusations start?

A week.

A week?

Because let me tell you this, Karamo.

Yeah.

My little fling buddy, which I didn't know, like when I, My fling buddy was his cousin. But I was with his cousin for 4 years. I wasn't with him, but that's been my fling for 4 years.

Did you know they were cousins when you met?

No.

Well, I went to a Halloween party and the only reason I was at the party is because of my fling's mom. I cooked a lot of the food and I told her I wasn't gonna come. She said, "Girl, you cooked all this food, you better be there. It's a Halloween slash birthday party." So I just went just for her. My fling was there with his girlfriend, which they all, we all know each other. I be at their house. It ain't like it's no, you know.

It's what it was.

I'm a realist.

It wasn't intentional that you—

It was never.

It was like, I didn't know that that was your cousin.

It was never intentional.

And you and Quincy moved fast.

Real fast.

Yeah, so it wasn't even time, like you had time to be like, oh my gosh, I just realized this is your cousin, let me tell you. You just said no.

And that was that.

So have you ever cheated on Quincy after that? Never.

Never, never. I only known the boy 6 months. He ain't even given me a chance to cheat.

Please welcome Quincy to the show. Hey, how you doing?

Hey, how's it going?

Welcome to the show, sir.

All right.

Good job. Take a seat. So you heard what Tequila had to say backstage. What do you think?

You know, I'm tired of the lies and you know, when my mother asked her a question about a family member, She didn't ask me a question, Quincy. She said, I'm talking.

She ain't ask me no questions though, don't lie.

She asked, do you know this certain person? This is our family.

No, she didn't.

She claimed she didn't know this person.

Ooh, you a liar.

But later down it came out that she was dating the person my mother asked's son, which is my cousin.

Okay, so you think that's how she lied to you? No. Because that's not her recollection of the story.

No, it's not.

So, but how do you also say she's manipulating you? How?

It's not.

Because it was before my time. It didn't really matter 'cause she stated they wasn't in a relationship, but just dillin' around.

So if she said that they weren't in a relationship and it was before your time, why do you feel some ways about it? And I'm sincerely asking. Insecure.

It wasn't nothing to hide. You should have a woman.

He wants me to go and tell every dude that I've talked to, "Oh, I'm with him now." Is that what you wanted?

Do you want us to go get some answers?

No, it wasn't like that.

Okay, tell me what you want.

It goes like this.

I wish my phone was out there.

I deleted all the women numbers out my phone 'cause I could've kept my women too if it was like that.

That's your, you don't got friends if you friends with women.

They not friends if you had sex with 'em and in a relationship with 'em. That's different.

So you telling me everybody that you deal with that you gotta be hateful and deep in despise when you get out, when you're not dealing with them because you dealt with them, you shouldn't be friends with them no more? That's grown women stuff.

Why you choose all the men you dated and had sex with to be your friends?

How do you know who I had sex with, Quincy?

Because you told me.

Who do I have sex with, Quincy?

But we not here for that.

Who has a key to my house, Quincy?

It's not about a key, Mom.

Have you heard other rumors about me?

You go out and do your thing. You not that stupid.

Boy, you stupid.

Have you heard other rumors about me?

You with me every day with your little flamboyant ass.

Oh, you get missing too now. You get missing.

Where I get missing?

When we argue?

You get missing for hours.

And I be home?

You get missing for hours.

I wish you could have a thing that's every time a lie, they buzz. You know what I'm saying? Like real stuff. Something should buzz in his booty. Just like that.

Well, listen, I wanna know, what else do you think she's lying about?

It's been situations where a guy came to the house.

And I let him in, and what did I tell you?

Hold on, I'm talking, he's talking to me.

Did I tell you who he was?

He's talking to me, not you. Did I tell you who he was? He's talking to me.

See, that's why you go corny.

That's why we can't be together, 'cause your mouth.

No, we can't be together 'cause you're insecure, gaslighting, manipulative, and narcissistic person.

I'm talking to you, Karamo. Yes, uh-huh, come on, talk to me.

A guy came to the house, right? First, this my son's uncle. So I see his face, I start laughing 'cause I know him. So he came in, they talking back and forth and this and that. So then I said, "Man, do you know me? I'm from such and such." He said, "Oh, my bad." So the first thing came out her mouth, "I ain't fuck with him." You lying. So when I look, I said, "Well, ain't nobody asked that question." So do you not like her having male friends?

Nope.

What is your problem with that?

Insecure.

I don't got no problem with that, but why you choose all the men you had sex with and was in a relationship to be your friends? You saying these your friends now 'cause I deleted all my women friends.

So do you think she should be deleting all her friends? No. Her male friends?

If you had sex with 'em and was in a relationship with 'em, Okay. What you holding on for?

Okay. We're actually gonna be unlocking both of your phones right now. Why you put your head in the Bible and lie? You need to get on your knees and pray.

Stop lying.

So Quincy, we're gonna go ahead and unlock your phone first. When it came to apps and you talking to anyone, we did found zero results. When it came to text messages, we found zero results. When it came to DMs, we found zero results. And when it came to photos, we found zero results. So from what we have found, you have been faithful in your relationship.

I ain't hide nothing.

So Tequila, we went through your phone as well. So when it came through text messages, there was a text exchange between you and his cousin, but it was completely platonic.

Yes.

Completely platonic. Yes. Now when it came to photos, we went through your phone and there was several photos in your phone There was 4 different photos in your phone in the last 6 months of different women. We didn't see any text messages with them. They were in lingerie and in seductive poses. Can I see the photos? I guess so, this one.

Where? She a good actress.

Where in lingerie?

See, this is what I was telling you.

Let me show 'cause that ain't in my phone.

This is what I was trying to tell you.

Oh, this is before him.

Okay.

What you talking about? This is my, this is my. Man, so what are you talking about?

Okay.

Try me again.

Man, I ain't come here for all this, man. I told you all these lies, she gotta excuse me.

We have one last thing, one last thing. You need to take a seat for this one because this was the most important one. So I went back and looked at the text between you two and they were nasty, mean, and disrespectful in nature. I wanna go and pull up the text messages I found.

Boy, you talking about "I thought you was gonna find those." "You're a liar, kick rocks, I hope you die." Me, me.

Yes, I get it. "You're just insecure, bitch ass." So when I see these type of messages, I just think there's so much hurt and disrespect here. We obviously see this is toxic in nature. "Your worst fear happened when you opened up to this man who you loved, and that's why you're triggered." I understand where the abusive language comes on. It's not right.

It's not.

The thing is that I know about this is that even though the communication, the language is very disrespectful, She has been upfront to you. And I think that people—

She's been upfront.

I went to the phone, we went to the phone, and so the things that you were concerned about and things you weren't concerned about, we searched for. There was no other men that she was talking to. There was no interactions with guys that were sexual in any way.

Did she bring two phones or one phone?

Two.

Two or one?

And one is a game phone. It's not even on, Karamo. He think it's on because you know when you got—

You got social media sites on there.

You know when your kids call you and then it rings, you could do that, what is it, Google?

Sure. When it's silent, I got my phone synced.

So whenever my phone rings on my regular phone, it'll ring to my game phone.

He's swearing it's too far.

Are you trying to—

I come for the guy I like.

Are you trying to end this relationship or are you trying to stay? Because either ways—

I'm done with it.

Bye. Bye. You look better gone. Tell him to get my ring back. This is why, listen, this is why I think—

No, because I want to take a moment because even though this is I brought up that line for you for a reason. Because I know you would've had the strength to leave this. I already know you did. But you opened yourself up and I know women like you who are very strong and have to do it on their own. And I'm sorry.

I'm in college.

Yeah.

I got 3 kids, 3 grandkids.

Yeah.

I'm 46 years old. I beat cancer. I just wanna enjoy life.

I get it.

And I can't do it with him 'cause he's too busy worried about other people who not, I'm not fucking involved. Oh, did you tell my cousin that we're dating? I don't have to.

But this is what I want you to know.

We're not in a relationship.

This is what I want you to know because I understand the things you're going through. But what I want to leave you with personally is that I'm sorry that you got into a relationship that couldn't give you what you want, especially when you opened up and were vulnerable for the first time. Because I know how hard that can be when you've had to have a wall up and had to guard yourself and had to protect yourself your entire life and you give yourself and at that moment someone then betrays it.

And it's like I was just getting to a good place in my world. And I'm like, yo, I'm not going home where I can be with my son to go lay up here with you and this is what I'm getting for it?

Yeah. But I want you to understand this. There is still the love you deserve out there. And I know that's gonna—

Where is that, Karamo? 'Cause I'm not getting no younger.

I know, I know.

And I'm not a bad person.

You're not, you're not.

I'm not, I work hard.

I know.

And I love hard. I know, I know. And it's just like, dang, this make a person regret even like loving anything besides my kids. Like I told him.

I heard it. My only thing for you is just to remind yourself to take it slow next time.

I always take it slow. That's why I said—

You try something different.

I tried something different and look where it got me.

But even though this has gotten you here, I just wanna make sure you don't leave this stage feeling like I gotta close myself back off. Because I think every single one of us here have been thoroughly entertained. We've also all fallen for you. We can see your personality, we can see your truthfulness. We can all see it. We can see it, right? Y'all can see it. And I just don't want you to close yourself back off because you met a man who couldn't meet you where you were. You're gonna find the one, I promise you.

I hope it's before I'm dead.

It is, it is, it is, it is. It will be. You don't need that type. I know you're strengthened and you said earlier, I gotta be the woman and the man. I want you to feel like you can just be you.

That's where his gaslighting coming at. I said, what did you get with me for then? To pick out every little thing wrong or what you didn't think?

This is what you do right here. You already know it. He said he's done. I'm done. And this relationship, you then start to make sure you don't close yourself off and start to say to yourself, all right, you know what? Don't close yourself off. My love is coming. That needs to be your mantra. It is coming for you. It's coming, it's coming. And he gonna find his too. So my focus for you is just for you to leave here knowing to not close yourself off. Your vulnerability is beautiful and you're gonna find the man you deserve. Trust me, you gonna get that love. He just wasn't the one. All right? Come back next time, Fred, so we can keep talking and growing. I love you, man. Let me give you one hug, all right? Hold on, where you going? I'll tell you where you're going. Right here to subscribe and right here to watch more.

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