Is My Girlfriend Cheating On Me With Her Female Best Friend? | KARAMO

I believe my girl is cheating on me with her best friend.

So why do you think she's cheating?

Because before we started talking, you know, before things got real serious, she told me they slept around with each other.

Oh, okay.

And she said she was teaching her how to. So I'm like, okay. So I'mma—

Let me tell you, all the things I was expecting you to say, that was not one of 'em.

So, So as we got to getting real serious, Big Baby keep calling her talking about, "I love you and when I'm gonna see you again?" And she's telling me this, my girl Jamisha. This past weekend when she had called her, she had left and she'd been gone for like 3 or 4 days. So she wasn't answering my calls or nothing. She called me like, "Yeah, I'm coming home tomorrow." Didn't even come, didn't call phone. Did I call her? It's going straight to the V, the voicemail. So boom, she called me Sunday like, "Yeah, Daddy, I wanna come home." She called you Daddy? Yeah, she called me Daddy. Yeah, she called me Daddy. So she like, "Yeah, Daddy, I wanna come home." She come home, we lay down about to get intimate. I'm feeling all these scratches on her booty, so I'm like, Damn, big baby got nails. So I'm like, what's going on? Why you got all these scratches? She's like, oh, I've been scratching. I'm like, come on now, these are sexual scratches. You got a carpet burn on your back.

Not carpet burn.

Carpet burn.

So, but let me get this. So she went missing for 3 days?

About 3 and a half.

No communication at all?

Like, it was like—

Somebody said send her back to the streets.

You don't even know her story. She's for the streets. But, uh—

You messy for that one.

Yeah.

Okay, so have you confronted her about it? What did she say?

Yeah, I confronted her when we was in bed. I'm like, you got these sexual scratches on you. These ain't just no, you know, these some intimate, you know, something is going on, so.

Have you ever cheated on Jamisha?

Nah, nah, nah. Both of them? Because, because.

You can't give it up.

Nah, because you gotta, 'cause people classify cheating, it could be like so many different type of ways, but not sexually, but I'll be liking pictures. People say that's cheating. I'm keeping it real, Karamo.

So let me, have you had any, have you had sexual intercourse with any other woman?

No, no.

Have you kissed any other woman?

No.

Okay, okay. Does she accuse you?

No.

Jamicia doesn't accuse you?

I don't give her no reason to.

Got it, okay, great. So we went through her phone as well as her best friend's phone. What do you think we'll find proof? Do you think we'll find proof of them cheating?

Might, you just might.

You do?

I think so.

And what do you want to happen here today?

The truth, I just want to know the truth so I can move on with my life and be happy.

Well, lemme be clear with everyone. Allen wants to know if Jamesha and Big Baby have been in a secret relationship and that's your biggest concern, right?

Yes, sir.

Well everyone, let's meet Allen's girlfriend's best friend, Big Baby.

Bitch, what?

Boy, first of all, first of all, first of all, How are you gonna accuse me of having your woman cheat on you? I might as well be a pimp. Like, what? Make it make sense. Like, one minute you say you're a horrible best friend.

How?

One minute you're not there, you're only there for having intercourse with her. I'm there emotionally, I'm there when she got, when serious things are going down, when she needs somebody. You're there for Just having sex with her.

How?

And you talk about you ain't, you weren't cheating. Who is Crystal?

Who is she? That's my friend.

Okay, now we got friends.

Well, who is Crystal?

That's my friend.

That's a friend?

Yeah. Hello.

Okay, hey, how you doing, big baby? Nice to meet you.

Go ahead and sit down.

Yeah, so, okay, so he said a lot of things that, first of all, he's saying that you're not a good friend.

Exactly.

Do you feel like you're a good friend? Do I?

Of course.

Okay, okay. Do you feel like you encourage Jamisha to party and do things that she shouldn't be doing?

I can't possess this woman to do, she got her own mind.

I'm trying to build her up. She has her own mind. That's like he said. You being negative though.

No.

At this point.

'Cause your girl wanna do what she wants to do at the end of the day. But at the end of the day, you're a bad influence.

No.

It's not every weekend because that was the case.

'Cause I barely have a babysitter. I see her every weekend.

Okay, got it, okay. Do you have feelings for Jamesha?

No, I mean, I did once before, but to be in a relationship with a female, I'm just, it's not for me, baby, no.

You didn't want that.

Okay, I understand that. Do you think she is serious about Alan?

At first, I'm gonna be honest 'cause I'm a real, at first, neither one of them was serious. They both was playing. That's why I'm, okay, let's go outside, whatever, you don't care about this woo woo woo woo woo. Whatever, we gonna go kick it, whatever the case may be.

That's not true.

I am real, I don't care how nobody feel about me.

That's not true, you kept trying to take her from me.

No, take her, baby, I can have her.

No, you can't.

What, what are you talking about, take her? Take her, I could take her when we leave here. What are you talking about?

Karamo show, we gonna find out.

Big Baby.

Keep telling the truth.

People be forgetting.

We gonna find out. They be forgetting.

Let me find out.

So Big Baby is Big Pimpin'? You said I can take out my water.

Let me find out this cheatingness over. You can have her.

Either, either.

Well, let's see what Jamisha has to say about all of this. So everyone, please welcome Jamisha to the show.

I'm upset. I'm pissed because he always got something to say about what I do. Like, I'm still young. I'm 24 years old. I can go out and kick it. I'm grown.

Okay.

You know what I'm saying? Like, just because we going out don't mean I ain't trying to elevate. I understand you older than me and you want me to grow.

All right, don't mislead me then. Don't mislead me.

I'm not misleading you.

Karamo misleading you.

I'm on a whole nother page.

I'm not misleading you.

If you ain't on the same type of line, you wanna keep kicking it, you can kick your ass on somewhere else.

Okay, but I'll pay.

Oh, you lived your life. Like, you picked up your speed.

I'm not done though. I'm not done, but I know I ain't got time to be playing.

Okay, who's playing? Who's playing?

You playing and she playing.

I might not have took you that serious. Listen, I might not have took you serious in the beginning, but you feel me? I really mess with you now.

You already know, we already done had this talk. I'm trying to build you up and you be like, "Daddy, what you think about?" She ain't your real best friend. All she trying to do, she trying to take you away from, 'cause she, I don't know what she got going on.

Where do you go every weekend when you don't respond to Allen?

I be kicking it with her. We be in the house. Sometimes we go out. We don't go out all the time. She don't always have a babysitter.

She said that.

Everything ain't about party, party, party. He always just think it's about partying. Then of course I'm not gonna answer my phone and ignore your calls because I don't want to, it just be too much for me. It's overwhelming.

Do you have feelings for big baby?

No, not anymore.

Not anymore. First of all, that I know you said she called you daddy, but I think you're taking this daddy thing a little bit too serious. And I think that part of what you need to understand by making the choice to date a younger woman, you have to give that younger woman the ability to be young while also saying, I encourage you to grow. And so if you wanna really be able to have a relationship where you can say, let's inspire each other, you can't be putting these restrictions on her and who she's with. I understand why, The fact that she told you that they slept around is gonna cause insecurities in you. But that's something that, well, I can't say that because we haven't unlocked the phone yet. 'Cause I was gonna say something you're gonna have to deal with, but we don't know if that's actually still stopped or going on or not. So let's get to unlocking these phones. First, we are unlocking Jamecia and Big Baby's phone. So we unlock these phones together because we need to see like what information is the same and what's going on. Y'all ready for this?

Mm-hmm. All right.

All right, Allen, you want to know if Jamesia and Big Baby have been in a secret sexual relationship. My Unlock the Phone investigators searched both women's DMs and found zero sexually explicit messages. My Unlock the Phone investigators searched both women's social media apps and found Zero sexually explicit communication between the two. Now when it comes to texts, my unlock the phone investigator searched both women's texts and found one sexually explicit picture of Jamesha in their text message from last Friday. You wanna see it, right?

That's the weekend, I'm done.

Oh, that's the weekend? Yeah, it was all love.

We cool like that. She gonna see stuff like that. Oh well, it was a cute little picture.

Oh, so you know the picture I'm talking about?

No, no, no.

You just said it was a cute little picture, so you know exactly what I'm talking about. You already know what I'm talking about.

I don't even know nothing about this.

I ain't even know about it.

This is her saying, "Thank you, sis, but I told you don't like this picture of me, girl. Well, I love it." She sent her a naked photo.

I ain't get the memo. I ain't get the memo.

What that was at?

That ain't nothing.

That ain't—

That's not nothing.

That is not nothing?

We do that all the time.

I send her pictures too and be like, Do I look cute or she just like that?

I hear you, I hear you. I think the only thing that would, I think the questioning is because of the fact that there was a sexual relationship between you two. Which then makes that a little bit different.

But I actually had a girl over there that night.

I know, my spidey senses kicked in.

You still didn't find nothing though.

Well now it's time to unlock Allen's phone. Demisha, you wanna know if Allen has been communicating with a girl named Crystal and sending her explicit photos. My unlock the phone investigator searched Allen's texts and found no texts between Allen and the woman in question. My unlock the phone investigator searched Allen's photo and found zero photos between Allen and the woman in question recently. Recently is keyword.

Recently.

Recently is the key word.

That part.

Yes. My Unlock the Phone investigators searched his DMs and found 8 pages of DMs, including video calls and messages between them. Most recently, as of Sunday. She calls him her Facebook boyfriend and refers to her as sweetie pie and honey. Do you know that?

What's your honey?

Nah, we just, she just my friend.

8 pages.

They call each other. How do you feel about that?

Nah, that's just my friend before us, I told you.

Oh, nah, you tripping, man. I knew it was something about that crystal girl. No, that wasn't no before, she said Sunday.

Sunday. Sunday.

But she be calling me. Okay, where? Where was I at? You was in the bed with me, she called me. Okay, I'm not.

So I can understand if you're saying it's the past. Why are you giving her a pet name then?

Whatever, exactly.

I ain't giving her no pet name.

You call her sweetie pie.

Why you did you?

Why you did you? So I'm a good judge of character and I actually decided after I saw these things that I saw, I can read between lines. So big baby, I'm gonna come to you because you seem like you're the most transparent out of all these individuals. Big baby. Why is this you? Because I actually do want to help these two individuals. I'm gonna ask you this really clearly. When was the last time you two had sex?

Me and her? Probably like 4 months ago.

It can't be that long 'cause I read 2 months.

Probably 2.

It was, yeah. It can't be that long. No, it really was 2 months, probably like 1 or 2 months ago.

1 month ago.

1 month ago.

Okay, thank you for the honesty. 'Cause it went from 4 to 2, it's probably about 1 month ago. So 1 month ago you two had sex. How long have y'all been together?

We've been together a little.

6 months. Okay, great, okay. I'm not judging it. So we gonna get some honesty. This is where the truth is gonna come out. We on the Karamo Show of Truth, don't come out here. So one month ago y'all had sex.

Yeah.

And let's be real, you still doing stuff with Crystal.

Exactly.

Something's going on.

I ain't did nothing with Crystal, I never even met her.

You're trying to get it.

I ain't hit her. I ain't hit her.

So if I brought Crystal out right now, she's not gonna tell me that you said that y'all were together? Well everybody, that's the truth.

In the past, in the past, in the past, yeah. In the past, yeah. In the past, yeah. In the past, yeah. In the past year. I ain't gonna lie, in the past year. So like I said. In the past year.

Like I said.

You just be trying to paint it like you just this perfect guy though.

I'm saying in the past year.

That was me, me being messy. I was being messy last year.

Messy, messy Karamo.

So what we know now is that you have tried to have sex with other women, another woman, and you two have had engaged in sex. I think if y'all wanna have real communication and growth, y'all gotta be honest. So is there a boundary of where y'all can have open communication about an open relationship?

No, hell no. I don't agree to that.

You know what I love when people cheat but then don't wanna have open relationship.

Unless it's gonna be protected, like—

I'm down for an open relationship. I've always been down for an open relationship. We can do that, but try that.

If she would've caught me on the phone—

Okay, so hold on, we're getting somewhere. Look at the progress. Not with big baby. Not with big baby, yeah, not with big baby. What she's saying right now, You just said if it was protected.

I used to do poly though. I mean, this was before. That's what I'm saying. I told you that. That's what, that was before you.

I'm saying we can do that.

So y'all are, so what I'm trying to establish here.

That's when I was young though.

What I'm establishing here though is that instead of cheating and instead of having these insecurities about trust issues, if y'all just have open communication about what y'all want, I think that that would allow y'all to start to rebuild the foundation that y'all have broken. And so y'all can figure out, Y'all in 6 months. So y'all still at the beginning of your relationship. So anything that's gonna happen from here on out can actually be healthy if you start to be honest about your communication. None of this arguments no more. Don't bring up Big Baby no more. This ain't about Big Baby. This is about what's going on between you two. And it's easy to look at Big Baby as the symptom of it, but it's not. The real symptoms that is causing destruction in your relationship is the communication, the listening, and not being honest about your sexual desires. Okay? Work on that. Can y'all do that?

Oh, we gonna work on it 'cause we staying together.

Can I say something to you?

Sure.

You is a fine man. You are a fine man. You are a fine man.

I gave y'all advice. Hold on, y'all gave y'all the advice. Come here, come here, big baby. Let me talk to you real quick. Can you scoot down real quick for me? I'm sorry. Hey, big baby. How you doing?

Good.

Meet big baby, girl. Big baby, don't play with me. Listen, y'all, we gonna work on this. We're gonna be right back, and I may be back with a new date. All right, hit me, baby. Y'all stay with us.