Is My Girlfriend Sleeping With Her Gay Best Friend? | KARAMO

Me and my girlfriend Jordan have been together for 2 years, but our friend Kai is trying to mess our relationship up.

Jordan is a grown woman, so if she wants to hang out with me instead of him, that says a lot about her boyfriend.

I don't want her hanging out with him. Tired of this guy. He got a funny smell to him.

G-Money is a jealous bum, and he needs to mind his business. It happens a lot when I have close girlfriends, and then they start getting, like, boyfriends or get into relationships, they always get jealous. They always, to me it seems like it's an insecurity. You know, they always wanna know like, what are y'all doing? Call every hour on the hour. Lately, like my friend, like we've been friends for 7 years, you know what I'm saying? So she met this guy during the pandemic and I've just seen how it's changed her entire like personality.

[Speaker:KARAMO] So why do you feel like he's not a good guy? Or he isn't good for her?

Yeah, like my friend, she's dope. You know what I'm saying? Like she's always like, she's bubbly, life of the party. And ever since I feel like she's been talking to him, she's gotten very reserved.

Got it.

You know, she's very covered up. You know, now she doesn't go out. It's always an excuse as to why she can't go out.

Okay.

Whenever, you know, we are all around each other, it's toxic. We're always arguing. Little, you know, petty little things are being said.

But my producer told me you even got them a hotel room for them to do a little getaway. Is that true?

No, I got us a hotel room.

Oh, so you got her a hotel room so that she'd get away from him?

Yeah.

And then you just said now that you went with her?

I mean, of course. You know, I'm gonna go see like what's going on, check out the suite. I have to be there to physically check you in 'cause I work for a hotel.

Got it. So let me back up 'cause you said with other friendships, you've had issues where the men have been jealous of you.

Absolutely.

Why do you think that is? I mean, you're an attractive man, but what else are you giving off?

You know how it is when you good looking and my sexuality is A or B or C or D and they don't really know how to take that. You know what I'm saying? Got it.

So you consider yourself fluid?

I would say a little bit.

Okay.

Yeah.

Talk to me about the altercation you had with G-Money.

So it's a few altercations that we have and they're always just petty things. Like you saw in the video, right? He says something, I'll say something. You know, I have a smart mouth. So I was over her house 'cause he doesn't have a house. So I was over at her house, he was there, you know, I like to get—

Still a little shady comments, y'all heard.

I like to get my nails, you know, manicured. I like to be very manicured. I remember, you know, she complimenting me on my nails. Oh, you know, where'd you get your nails done? Who did it?

Da da da da.

Oh, I see you got your nails done again. You should've just went all out, got the like the long tips or whatever, you know, whatever he said. So it's like, where's your house? Like, where— look at your nails, you know what I'm saying? Versus commenting on my nails. So it just kind of starts like we throw little jabs at each other.

But if this is your friend's man, why not just like— I get, I'm not excusing his little jabs, but why not just walk away? Why not just let him have his jabs and say, you know what, y'all in y'all relationship, y'all do you. I don't wanna lose my friendship.

For a few reasons.

Okay, tell me.

One, Like a straight man, like these days, like you're not just gonna get away with talking to me like that.

I respect that, I respect that, yeah. I'm never saying to be disrespected, I never want that, but I'm just saying like, why not just be the bigger person and be like, you know what, I'm not even gonna deal with you. Why you had to come up with a little shady comment though?

'Cause I'm gonna try to be the bigger person. Me being a bigger person looks like me inviting you out, me saying, yeah, your boyfriend can come. You know what I'm saying?

So you think he's into your girl?

Man, I know he's into my girl, man. I'm a guy, man. Be the first to say I don't have no problem with homosexuals at all. We can hang out, kick it, whatever, you feel me? So come at me with it. But when you looking at my girl with hunger in your eyes, like, I know how a heterosexual male is. You turn around, you looking at her butt. Gay dudes ain't tripping off a girl butt, you feel me? What you looking at her butt for, you feel me? All the time, every time you over, you looking at her butt. Hold on, every single time, every time you come over, it's like, you want to linger on her hand and stuff. Like, oh Jordan, I can't look at her, I can't look at anybody's butt. Go get another girl, bro. Like, go get another girlfriend. Like, what's wrong? Why you going around mine so much? Like, why you always with her?

I come around your girl because your girl comes around me talking about you.

Oh, I got it. I mean, I said, y'all friends.

All the time.

How much do they hang out from your point of view?

They fell out for a couple weeks, which they haven't, he has had, thank God he ain't been around. You feel me? All that shit been cool or whatever.

So the relationship has been better since?

Yeah, for sure. 'Cause most of our arguments about him. Like, why she always with him? And then when she with him, like she don't—

So I'm the problem.

Bro, it seem like it. It seem like when you're gone, when you poofed out the way, there's no problems no more.

Where's your accountability in any, in the whole situation. I've been here for 7 years. You just popped up onto the scene. You the new kid on the block.

It sounds like Jordan comes to Kai and tells him the problems.

I'm pretty sure he not the only friend she comes to talking her problems. I talk to my friends about my issues too. I don't talk to my friends about every little issue, but that's what you do with your friends.

So you and Jordan argue about this a lot? This is the main argument you have?

I mean, we have been in the past. We have, you feel me? But not no more 'cause he's gone, you feel me? Or he has been gone, you feel me?

Have you two ever broken up before? You and Jordan?

I wouldn't say breaking up, but we've had times where we just not talking.

She tries to get away from you.

Hold on, he asked me the question.

She tries to run away.

Does she try to run away?

Run as fast as she can to get away from you.

I don't know what she's telling you.

The things you say to her. You always talking about how she looks or you need to cover up. You need to, why is your shorts so short? Like I said before, like my friend, she's very outgoing. When we go out, we're the life of the party. Everybody comes over. They buy us drinks. They, you know, wanna party with us. And then ever since she's talking to you, she's, "Oh no, you know, oh, I can't." Or, "I'm on the phone," you know, call. Oh yeah.

She has a boyfriend.

It's common sense, bro.

That's not, but G-Money, do you feel like you're controlling her a bit? 'Cause that's what he's describing.

It sounds like controlling. When you have a girlfriend, we have a girlfriend, it would be complimentary to act a certain way. Like, don't have your, she has big breasts. Don't have your boobs all out, you feel me, when you're in public. Don't be having little skirts on. Like, you have a boyfriend.

She had big breasts when you met her.

Exactly.

Like, you was looking at her. Exactly.

Jordan, I need you to tell me, what are the things that you complain to him about? 'Cause I already saw a little bit. I heard him say earlier, G-Money said that he has started to control how you dress, even though you look nice now, that he's asked you to sort of dress a certain way.

Yeah, I mean, I dress, so I be dressing. I mean, as I grow as a woman, I mean, it's out of respect for my man to just have a little, you know.

As long as it's your choice. If you wanna change your fashion, if you wanna be covered up, that's fine. What I was questioning and was scared about is 'cause he was making it seem as if he was dictating it. So it's your choice, you're saying, that you have changed your fashion?

Gee Money can be a little direct at times. Okay.

Direct, that's what she said.

He can be direct at times.

So Gee Money, you came here 'cause you wanted me to unlock both your girlfriend Jordan and her best friend Kai's phones. So let's get to unlocking these phones.

Wait, what?

Gee Money, you wanna know if Kai and Jordan have been communicating? Communicating with each other, but you refuse to unlock your phone, correct?

Absolutely.

Okay.

Okay.

And why do you refuse to unlock your phone?

Because that's not my dude. Like, why am I unlocking my phone for you?

I respect that. All right, for Jordan's phone, G-Money, you want to know if Kai and Jordan have been communicating with each other. So my unlock the phone investigator also again couldn't unlock anything 'cause you refused to unlock your phone.

You refused?

So why did you refuse to unlock your phone?

You refused?

Yes, I refused.

You got something to hide?

No, I don't have nothing to hide. But at the same time, if I'm not gonna let you go through my phone, I'm not letting no one else go through my phone. That's my problem. I still have my dignity. I'm still my own person. I can say no. I can say I'm grown enough to say no.

Well, I would hope so.

I can say no.

And I can accept a no. But still, do y'all got something to tell me?

Spell no. In most cases, I would say, well, the lack of transparency here is gonna cause there to be issues. But in this case, because I'm tracking other things that could be unhealthy and I'm watching the body language, I'm watching things, I think that this is actually a pretty healthy boundary for you to say no to. So in this instance, I actually respect your no of unlocking the phone because the only hesitation he's having is with you and your friend, your best friend, and that's it. So I think in other ways there might be, hold on, we're getting a ping alert.

What's going on, man?

Who's this ping alert from?

What's going on, man?

So I got a ping alert from Jordan. What's a ping? Pings are where we get messages that people, we get somebody to come and share something.

What's going on, Jay Jordan?

All right, so let's go ahead and watch this ping.

That me and Kai, had sex right around the time that me and G-Money got together. And that kind of happened around the wedding that I told you I went to by myself. We decided to take that to the grave. And there's another thing that even Kai does not know. I was pregnant and I wasn't, and I'm not sure who the father was. It could be G-Money or it could be Kai. I'm not sure. I just got an abortion and just kept it pushing. And I'm so sorry. I'm not pregnant right now.

She said she got an abortion.

Wait, what?

Wow. She said she got an abortion because she didn't know which one of y'all two was.

Wow. Wow.

Yeah, it makes sense.

Wow.

Watch when we get back to the bay. For sure. All right, bro, you're weird. Both y'all weird. What the hell? But this weirdo—

Like, you're hella nice to me.

Weird as shit. Bro, bro, get the fuck out of here.

This is about your sunbreaker.

This is about your sunbreaker. You're weird. Straight up.

Oh, weird.

Once we get back to the bay, bro, you're done.

What are you talking about? I'm gone. Straight up.

Everybody, y'all done.

It has happened. We were on a cruise ship and we got lost at sea and it happened. And I'm sorry, I did not tell you. It was a lot. And I think that's what really made me distant 'cause I didn't know what to say or how to say it or do. Just weird. I didn't know.

So how do you feel about the fact that she could have been pregnant with your child and that she had an abortion?

Tell me though, bro. Why you ain't tell me, bro? Why you ain't tell me, bro? Why you send me here to tell me all this, bro? I'll talk to you about it. Why I send you all the way down here to tell me this? Why you ain't tell me?

I don't wanna talk about it.

Why you ain't tell me? Look at her, look at her. —been done with all this, bruh. Weird as fuck, bro.

I don't want no woman. I don't want no woman.

Are you weird too, bro? Professional.

Professional.

Are you fake gay too? Fake gay, nigga. Are you in love with her?

I'm not in love with my best friend.

Would you want to be in a relationship with her?

I don't actually like women like that. You know, it was just a—

So you like them sexually but not emotionally? We was intimate real quick. Have y'all been more intimate than more than that time? It's coming out now. You might as well say yeah. I would take that as a yes. How many times have y'all been intimate?

I mentioned her once, twice. 3 times, 4 times. It was really like twice. It was twice. It was twice. It was twice. Yeah. Okay. It was twice.

I can't excuse G-Money's behavior and we're gonna get to that because there's a lot of stuff that's going on. But at the end of the day, his concern was that you would be doing something he didn't want.

But he didn't know.

He didn't know that. Well, that even makes it worse. He didn't know. So you were the trifling friend he was worried about. You was sleeping with his girl.

He didn't have to worry 'cause it wasn't like that.

But it happened.

It happened twice. Twice. It happened twice. But it wasn't like a continual thing. Like I'm not trying to pursue you.

I understand, but his concern was, did you sleep with my girl?

His concern should be, can I provide for my girl? Can I treat my girl better? Can I talk to my girl differently?

No, listen, I said I'm gonna get to that. But with you, the concern was, did you sleep with my girl? And you did, you slept with this girl twice.

Okay. Like it was twice.

No, but you gotta take accountability for that. You talk about you out here.

I take full accountability We, of accountability, we slept together 2 times.

Jordan, do you have feelings for Kai? No, that's my best friend. What happened was just something that happened. Kai is my best friend. I love him no matter what 'cause he has been in my life and will continue to be in my life because I want Kai in my life. Okay. But I do want, I don't know about now.

Well, the thing is that if I get, okay, 'Cause there's so many things going on here. First of all, I'm glad that you got off your chest because it needed to come off. But this entire thing needs to be exposed because from what I'm tracking, it sounds like you're in a very unhealthy relationship with G-Money. And I'm not sure why you're staying for these 2 years. Can you express to me why you're staying? Because from what I'm hearing from his own words, he's an entrepreneur, he's not financially stable, he's been verbally abusive, he's been physically abusive. There have been so many things that have shown that he's clearly not someone of value in your life. You even said you're not growing in a healthy way. So why keep staying with him?

I think because of the love that he gives me and the way he makes me feel as, as I'm important. 'Cause I didn't have a father. Got it. When I was growing up. So I do need a strong man and him being direct and, you know.

But you do understand a strong man doesn't have to come with someone who's gonna be abusive, who's going to treat you these certain ways. You can find a man who's strong, who's going to treat you right.

I understand that. I do understand that.

Are you ready to end this relationship with G-Money? You have to.

I don't know how. I don't know how.

Just be strong. All you gotta do is say no.

Does he live with you? He does. He lives with you. Okay, so there's an issue of getting him outta your house. Yeah. I don't know him fully. He was right about his questions about you, so I'm gonna give him full, he was, he was. You were sleeping with his girl.

I mean, that was before, like he didn't, you know, like—

No, I don't know.

You not gonna let me, you not gonna get me on your side with this.

You not gonna get me on your side with this. I mean, you two are consenting adults. His concern was, are you sleeping with my girl? And you did twice. I'm not. What I'm saying is his concerns were correct there, but outside of that, the behavior is wrong. So why saying, because there was a 7-year friendship here besides the sex. And you've both been clear that you don't want a romantic relationship. So we'll chalk it up to y'all in y'all 20s, y'all had a little moment, you did whatever, but you need a safe haven to be able to get out this relationship. And he doesn't seem like the person that's going to leave quietly. He doesn't seem like the person who's going to let go of you because he knows he's getting something from you. Very much not easily. Yeah. Is there some way that we can, when you leave this stage, you can fly back and go to his place? Would those be action steps that you could use to get out of this relationship? 'Cause this relationship is unhealthy.

Hold on one second though. Because it's like before you invite somebody to your house, I don't wanna be in a situation where it's like I'm listening to you do the same merry-go-round. You know, that's tiring.

These moments are critical because you're saying that you wanna leave and you're ready to be done with this relationship. And this is where now, true friendship and support comes in. It's one thing to be on the phone and there's one thing to be like, I'm hearing your problem, I'm exhausted by hearing your problems. But there's another thing when your friend is saying, I do want an escape plan.

Do you really wanna leave him though? Like that's what I wanna know.

Yeah, I'm tired of being a caged bird. Good, good.

All right. 'Cause she's telling me she wants to leave him. And at the end of the day, even if G-Money did stay with her, if he did stay with her, he's gonna only make your life a living hell from this point on. And so your friend is telling you she needs support now. She's tired of being a caged bird, her own words. So this is where it says, I gotta show up for you.

Yeah, like I got you. You already know I got you. So I'm here. I love you.

The thing that he asked and said that you're doing, you did. And so y'all, we can't give you a pass and laugh this off because you were right. You were disrespected 100% by them lying to you and saying they weren't sleeping together. So your intuition was right, you knew what was going on. And I'm sad that you had to find out that way, you know what I mean? You came to unlock the phone, but she just confessed. So what's going on in your mind?

Man, I don't know what to think right now, man. My head messed up, man. It's just the simple fact that, damn, with that guy, like, that's crazy. Crazy. Like, anybody else, like, I ain't like that, but damn, with him though, like, I get it.

I understand it's not like you want her to cheat, but the fact that it was with him after you had said repeatedly, are y'all doing something?

Is there something that's going on? They playing this little charade game. Like, I don't understand that. Weird.

So she said that she wants to end the relationship?

Good, good. For sure. She already know what's up. Yeah, over with. Like, for real, over with. You know, had sex with some fake gay dude. Like, is he gay? Like, what the fuck? Like, that's weird. I don't care. Like, you've been playing this whole straight, like, I'm cool, cool. I ain't dipping in that pot. That's over with. Yeah, it's over with. She said that you two live together, so how would you— I'm gone. I'm about to pack my shit out of there. We can figure all the rest out later, you feel me? I go somewhere ASAP. As soon as we touch down, I'm gone, packing my stuff. Okay. She gonna grab hers or whatever. She can have the house, whatever. I don't care. I'm gone. Like, she can move in with him, or he could— I don't care. He could have her. As much as he want now, you feel me? I don't know what this is, you feel me? But I don't want to be a part of it no more. You feel me? I'm done.

Like, I don't want to do that. Well, at the end of the day, at least you got your answers and you were validated knowing what you were feeling.

It's like a weight off my shoulders now. You feel me? I can like go forward in life, you feel me? Pick my best move. My next move will be my best move.

Got it. Well, I wish you the best of luck. Seriously, man. Sorry you had to find out that way. Yeah, seriously. Good luck, brother. Yeah, good luck, man. Seriously.

If it wasn't for you, I'd never found out nothing.

I'm glad I could help you that way, man. Alice in Wonderland. Yeah, okay. Thank you, brother. Take care now, brother. Want more unlocked phones, DNA reveals, and family drama? Then make sure you're subscribed to the Karamo Show YouTube.