Is My Husband's Ex Pregnant With His Baby? | KARAMO

So how did you first find out that Elijah might have cheated on you with his ex or cheated on you with his ex?

So I actually had went through his phone while he was sleeping.

Okay.

And I had seen a text message to the ex.

Okay.

And the text message said, "Can we do something like we did a few weeks ago and I'll give you $30." I'll give you $30?

That's what he said to her or she said to him?

Yeah, that's what he said to her.

Oh wow.

It really hurt me. I finally got him to admit the truth. That he actually went over to her house on a day that we were arguing and he fucked her and he fucked her.

And he admitted that to you?

Yeah, it didn't take long to get out of him. It took maybe about 7 to 10 minutes because the proof was right there in that text message.

Yeah, of course. What happened between you and Elijah the night he cheated?

So we had been arguing all day, Karamo. When I came home from work, he pretty much told me he wasn't gonna be there. And when I got outta the shower, he was actually standing in my kitchen. So he came in and somehow we just started arguing again and it was just kept going.

It just got worse and worse. Yeah, it got worse. Did it get physical?

Yeah, it did get physical.

Did it get physical?

Both ways.

Oh my gosh. With both of us. Oh my gosh. So how soon after that did you and Elijah get married?

We got married about 2 months after he cheated on me. Now we moved fast in general.

How long y'all been together?

Not even 2 years.

Not even 2 years.

So we got together, Within 2 weeks, we was moved in together. And then a month later, we was engaged. So we moved very fast.

Got it, got it. And what was it about him that made you feel like you wanted to move fast?

I don't know, honestly. We had this connection. I felt like I had found my soulmate. I had been in a very, very bad relationship beforehand. So meeting Elijah was like a dream come true to me.

Okay then, got it. So what happened the next few times you and Elijah had a heated argument?

He'll leave me for either hours, sometimes it's days. He'll shut his location off. He'll block me, but I'll call you blocked.

Yeah.

I will download text apps to get in touch with you.

Yeah.

So.

Got it. She talking about, I know that's right, I heard you. I heard you. So what happened when you confronted Elijah X about all this?

She tried to message me and ask me first, like ask if I had recorded the conversation we had and then tried to tell me that she was late on her period and that she might be pregnant.

Wow. All right, we have a text between you and Elijah's ex that my producer want me to see. Bitch, learn how to get a life. I have a life. Learn how to get your own man and not someone's husband and whatever you think you can change, good luck trying. Haha, I don't need to try. "He didn't even talk to you. You have no contact on him, with him. Okay, good luck trying. Sure, what you can think, bye bitch. Believe what you want." Okay. And you call her Oompa Loompa?

Yeah.

Is that the name you have?

That's how she's saved in my phone, yes.

That's how she's saved in your phone. Do you think your husband Elijah still wants to be with his ex?

I don't necessarily think he wants to be with her. I feel like that when we're arguing, he don't really have nowhere else to go and she's a convenience.

Mm, okay.

And what happened on Christmas?

The Friday before Christmas, I had found out that his ex was actually gonna be at his family's Christmas.

Mm-hmm.

So I was mad and we was already arguing, so I had called him and confronted him and I had told him like, "I'm not comfortable with you going over there." Of course. Especially like, I'm not gonna be there.

Yeah.

He still went there and he stayed there all day.

All day. All right, well, you told my Unlock the Phone investigator you want to know one thing. Is Elijah cheating on you with his ex?

Yes.

That's the only thing we're going through the phone to search. All right, well, I think it's time to hear what Elijah has to say about this. So everyone please welcome Elijah to the show. Hey Elijah, thanks for being here. Take a seat for me. So how do you feel about what was just said?

It's a lot to take in.

Yeah.

Some of it was true, some of it I don't think was necessarily.

Okay, well let's start with the ex. What's going on with you and your ex?

Nothing's going on with her right now. Only thing I have towards her is like hostility because I feel like she's doing everything in her power to try to ruin my marriage and she's gonna say whatever she wants to try to do that.

Okay, got it. And what's happening the night you cheated on her? Because you just said you think she's trying to ruin the marriage. But you also did admit to going over there and cheating on your wife.

Well, initially, the first time I went over and cheated, I didn't admit to it initially. Katrina actually found a text message and confronted me about it, and it took me a little bit to come out about it, but I did eventually tell her what happened. And I did go over there, and it had been a few days since me and Katrina were intimate, so I was in a really, bad mood and we've been arguing all day and I was like, you know what? What's the best way to piss her off than going over to my ex's house? So that's what I did. And I went over there and one thing led to another and then I went back and didn't tell her still about what happened.

So it's repeat.

And that's what gets me is you just, you didn't tell me, like, you know what I mean? Like you looked at me, you looked me in my eye and you knew what you did but you couldn't tell me.

Got it. Okay, have you ever cheated on Katrina outside of this? Outside of that?

Outside of this? No, I have not cheated on her.

Okay, and why do you turn your location off?

Oh, that's just to piss Katrina off, 'cause I know that as soon as I turn it off, she's gonna be using her power to try to find out where I am, 'cause she'll send me like, 'cause we both have iPhones, so she'll send me like a thing trying to find my phone.

Got it.

And, okay.

Sorry, I take notes on this show. So we have some messages between you and your ex. So which one is you? Are you in the pink? Yeah, about to look on some of these sites. Maybe I'll get lucky, so I'm not going to hold you, but glad you're doing well yourself. Good luck. If you're truly done with her, good, we will all be happy.

So what happened with the messages is that was on Christmas. And on Christmas I had spent the day alone, pretty intoxicated just because I was really depressed at the time.

Makes sense.

And Christmas night I had actually to make him mad because he didn't spend Christmas with me, I had posted an ad on an escorting website. And I did that 'cause I knew he would see it. And then he did that in retaliation.

Got it, okay. And so why did you spend Christmas with your ex and not Katrina?

So initially I didn't even know my ex was gonna be there, but my family invited her to come spend time there. It was only supposed to be for 2 hours, but she ended up staying the whole day 'cause I was there essentially.

Got it.

But I was there at 7 o'clock in the morning 'cause me and Katrina were still fighting. So I was like, all right, let me go up there at 7 o'clock in the morning. And I kept telling Katrina, I'm gonna come, I'm gonna come. And I was trying to wait till the food was done because she was like, she was hungry. And I was like, "All right, I'm gonna wait till the food's done and I'll come see you later." But to me that's just an excuse 'cause we could've got food from anywhere.

I had asked you to meet me at 2 o'clock.

And you're the wife.

And I'm supposed to be there too.

And it's Christmas Day. Do you still have feelings for your ex? Huh? Do you still have feelings for your ex?

No, I have no feelings for her. Only feelings I have towards her is anger and hate.

Okay, okay, well listen, I think you came here 'cause you wanted me to unlock his phone and find out if he is still communicating with his ex in any way. And so I think it's time to unlock your phone.

All right.

Before I unlock your phone, Elijah, is there anything in this that you're worried about that I'm gonna find?

I'm not worried about anything. I have not been communicating with her.

Got it. Okay, well let's unlock your phone. All right, Katrina, you want to know if Elijah is cheating on you with his ex. Elijah says he is not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched his texts and found that Elijah is telling the truth. There was no text between Elijah and his ex. Katrina, you wanna know if Elijah is cheating on you with his ex. Elijah again says he's not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched his apps and found that Elijah is not telling the truth. Elijah recently Snapchatted his ex.

[AUDIENCE] What? I don't even use Snapchat.

Well, there was a Snapchat, we found it. All right, Katrina, you also wanna know if Elijah is cheating on you with his ex. Elijah says he is not, so my unlock the phone investigator searched his calls and found that he is not telling the truth. Elijah called his ex on Christmas.

But she knew about that.

Yes. Let's go ahead and see what this ping says. Every time Elijah has fight with Katrina, he comes running back to me. We slept together in September and he even tried to pay me to have sex with him on Christmas.

I have no idea what that's about 'cause I have not communicated with her.

Your ex told my producers that you actually called her on Christmas Day and offered to pay her for sex on that day.

That was the only time I ever did anything in my life like that.

Okay, so for less than 2 years, This relationship is extremely unhealthy. You are still attached to your ex. Whether you say that you're angry with her or disgusted, that is not the truth. You are still attached to her. You still want her in your life. And the unfortunate part is, is that you found a woman who had just been out of a bad relationship. And you knew that the same way you're doing this with your ex, And Katrina, you did say this and this is true. You said he keeps making excuses about his ex and she keeps taking him back because of convenience. And I want you to know he's doing the same thing with you. When I heard you say you were outta a bad relationship, I know what that feeling is like to be outta something where it's bad, I don't feel valued, I don't feel like I'm worthy. And then you find someone who's charming and loving. And so your own words, I found my soulmate. But I'm gonna ask you this. Does a soulmate physically abuse you? No. Does a soulmate argue with you back and forth? No. Doesn't, no? Does a soulmate abandon you for sometimes 3 days at a time? No. Does a soulmate block you? No. Does a soulmate turn off their location or do things to try to piss you off?

No.

All things out of your own mouth, by the way. Okay. So let me just say to you right now, you didn't find your soulmate. You found a different version of the abusive relationship you were in before.

[APPLAUSE] But I'm not abusive. We've only had one physical altercation.

Okay, there's more than just physical abuse. There's emotional and mental abuse.

But it's both ways though.

Listen. I was gonna get to you. But what we're here doing is talking about you with your ex. I'm not saying that you weren't in a bad relationship that maybe might have, there's something that clearly turned you into this man because we all just don't turn that way. Everything, every single one of us, we're human beings that are children and things happen to us and then we start looking at life and reacting life a certain way. But in this choice, you decided to get into a relationship with a woman while still having feelings and being in communication with your ex. That is a decision you did make and you're still making all the way up until just past Christmas. Not only are you deciding to be in communication with this woman, you actually are still engaging in sex or trying to pay for sex with this woman. So in this moment right now, as much as I would like to have empathy for you, the empathy for me has to be channeled to where it's most important. And where it's most important is the fact that this woman thought she met her soulmate and she did not. She met a version, another version of the toxic relationship she was in before. This relationship is toxic. I just asked you what a soulmate is and you told me clearly, you know that's not what a soulmate is. If that's not even a partner, for you to have to spend Christmas alone knowing your man is at his family's house with his ex, come on, at some point you have to wake up and smell the coffee. And the truth of the matter is, if he doesn't even wanna be with you on Christmas Day, girl, what's gonna happen on a day when you sick, when you down and out? He's already shown you who he is. What I would encourage you, because I know you're married, I would encourage you to write down what a soulmate really is. And then I want you just to watch for a week, just a week, and see if he checks off what that is. Listen, you know all the answers. You just gotta start asking yourself the right questions. All right?

Okay.

I want you to turn to him right now and say, this is unfair and unhealthy.

This is unfair and it's unhealthy.

And you know it's true. You know it's true. And you know she doesn't deserve this. You deserve to be in a healthy relationship and you deserve to grow as a man, but it ain't working right here. You hear me? Yeah. I wish y'all both the best of luck. I'm gonna check up on you, all right?