A 39-year-old man with a 24-year-old partner needs to create emotional safety for her and model proper behavior for their kids. The speaker says it starts with him taking responsibility for the health of his relationship and family.
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She's a young woman who's trying to figure out how to work on herself and she doesn't know how because she has a partner who's not working on himself. You know that, right? Yeah. At the end of the day, you have a choice to make for your son, for those other children that she's helping to take care of, is can you start to create a space and an environment where your woman can be vulnerable, where your woman can feel safe, and where your kids can see you model the proper behavior. Because this choice is going to start with you. I'm telling you that. This starts and ends with you. Can you do that? Yeah. I pray you can. And I'm sorry, I'm sure you thought like I was gonna hear this and think like, oh, she's bad, she's bad, she's bad. This is a 24-year-old woman and you are a 39, 39-year-old, 40-year-old man who knows better. We the same age. We know better.