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“It’s not your job anymore.” #KaramoShow #motherinlaw #qna #relationship #marriage

29 Nov 2025 · 1 min

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In this clip from the Karamo Show, host Karamo addresses Bree, who is struggling with tension between her and her mother‑in‑law. Karamo tells Bree that she should stop trying to resolve the issue herself and instead have her husband take the lead. He explains that when a spouse fills in the blanks—making assumptions about why the mother‑in‑law is upset—it keeps the couple stuck in confusion. Karamo stresses that the husband, who has pledged to support his wife’s happiness and health, must directly confront the mother‑in‑law, ask for clear answers, and broker a healthier family relationship. The segment emphasizes clear communication, shifting responsibility to the partner, and the importance of marital vows in navigating extended‑family dynamics.

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I have to tell you, it's actually not your job to be texting her anymore. It is now your husband's job, not your boyfriend, your husband's job to say, "Mom, my wife would like a relationship with you and I need to know from you what is the issue so that I can broker this relationship." See what you've been doing right here, which is what I try to teach people all the day, you've been filling in the blanks. You started filling in the blanks saying, "Well, maybe she don't like me because I got serious. Maybe she, things have changed because of this." When we fill in the blanks, we keep ourselves in a cycle of, confusion and not understanding what's going on. So you need to get clear answers, but you've already tried, so it's not your job anymore. You gotta release it. The person whose job it is, is the person who made a vow to support you in happiness and health. It is his job to say, Mom, I need these relationships to be good. I need you to step up and talk to my wife. I need you to tell me what the issue is so that we can work together as a family to make this work better. So I would tell you right now, is your husband in the audience with you?
Yeah, he's here. Where he at? Hold up, don't be trying to— No, Bree, Bree, come over here. No, come on, cousin. Bree, come over here. No, no.