I've Been Sleeping In My Car For TWO WEEKS! | KARAMO

She took my damn keys to the house and got me living in this car for about 2 weeks now. This is ridiculous. I've been living in my car in front of the house that I pay the bills on, all because she thinks I'm cheating, and that's what's not going on. Yeah, I feel— I got— I gotta eat in my car. I gotta live in my car. I have to go to probably one of my sisters' or my mom's house to take a shower. It's annoying. It's frustrating. I could be inside in the heat. I'm freezing my ass off out here. Sometimes I can't even really get a good night's sleep. When I sleep in my car, I gotta lower back the chair. You know, I'm 6'4". This ain't no type of car for a 6'4" type of guy. I take my sheet or my little blanket or whatever and I just lay it over top of me. This is my hoodie that I use for my blanket. Yeah, but this is where I'm sleeping, y'all.

This is it.

This is my space, my safe place for right now. This is no way to live. I need my phone unlocked so that I can get back in the house where I belong so that we can get to a better relationship and I can get back to being a father to my children.

Listen, listen, we'll hear from Kyrie in a moment, but first let's meet his girlfriend Solimar and find out what's going on. Everyone please welcome Solimar to the show. Listen, I'm about 6'2", 6'3". You got that man in that car like that? What happened, girl? That man is struggling.

Listen, it's really messy.

Okay.

But I noticed that he commented on another girl's page talking about, "Smile, it's your birthday." Why is he telling, "Smile, it's your birthday," to another girl? You're in a relationship. I'm sure you wouldn't find that for me to do that. So I asked him, "Do you think it's okay to do that?" It went from there to exploding, belittling me, disrespecting me. Bitch this, bitch that. If I'm the mother of your children, daughters at that, why am I being disrespected? You could've just answered and it would've been over with.

And how long y'all been together?

Going on 7.

7 years?

Yeah.

And in the 7 years, has he ever blown up like this before? Mm-hmm. He has blown up like that before? Yeah, lots of times. And so when you say something that's saying like—

Like it bothers me. He's so used to the past of me accusing him when we first got together that he's just, he's immediately gonna snap regardless of what it is.

My producer told me that you threw away his stuff.

I didn't throw it away. I picked up his shoes, I threw 'em down the steps.

Okay.

I took his clothes and I threw them down the steps and his little favorite fan he sleeps with every night down the steps right along with him. Why be here?

Well, how do you feel about how he's living?

I don't care honestly, 'cause the disrespect is ridiculous. I wouldn't talk to you that way regardless if I'm upset with you, mad, I wouldn't disrespect you.

So why would you disrespect me?

Any of that stuff.

So you're just fed up at this point?

I'm just fed up.

Especially having girls in the house. Do they see him outside in the car?

No, you know, they miss him.

But they don't know what's happening. Tell me about these exes that keep popping up.

The first ex, this was in 2019 when we first got together. He, oh yeah, ex number 1. Okay, okay. Right there, forgot. Well, she—

Everybody in control booth, good on y'all. Y'all be quick with y'all little, y'all graphics now.

I totally forgot about that.

But yeah, the first ex, they were emailing each other. He deleted it, but I accidentally saw it because he was logged into my tablet. So I open it, it's her saying, "When are you coming over? Are you still coming over?" He's telling her, "I love you." Were there more exes that you found? Mm-hmm, second ex. He had her saved under a different name. Oh. But I looked it up and it came up to be his second ex-girlfriend.

Got it. And I see we got space, so there must be a third ex.

'Cause there's another one.

A third ex.

Yes, there is.

Okay.

2024, when I was pregnant with our second daughter, I posted a picture of the ultrasound. And then immediately after I did that, here goes the other ex-girlfriend laughing and reacting to my Facebook post. For what? I messaged her like, why are you laughing at my stuff? Who are you? And then she's like, oh well, me and Kyrie have been talking. He's texting me, he's coming over here on Thursday and stuff like that while he's supposed to be at work. So I just, I don't know if he, if it comes out that he's still talking to these females, I will be the fourth.

You will be the fourth one?

The fourth one.

Oh, so right there.

So I will be right there.

You said, baby, I will be right there. You brought the key to your house, is that true? So if Kyrie is not cheating, you're willing to give him a chance to get back in the house?

Yeah, but he gotta work on himself.

Got it, okay then. It's time to hear what Kyrie has to say about all of this. Everyone please welcome Kyrie to the show.

Hi. Oh, he looking better. I'm not the problem, she the problem.

I'm the problem. Kyrie, nice to meet you, nice to meet you.

You're the problem.

So Kyrie, you literally in front of your house?

Mm-hmm.

Yeah.

Outside in that car.

In the car in front of the house? Trying to just manage right now.

I feel your pain 'cause I'm about 6'2", 6'3", you 6'4". Yeah. So I know you struggling.

And I got a 2013 Chevy Malibu.

Oh, so you ain't got no room. You like this. Okay. She said the kids don't see you, but do you think the kids see you out the window?

Nah, they don't really see me, but I know when I do see 'em, they wonder why I'm not there.

How does that make you feel knowing that they're wondering why you're not there?

It's just frustrating. It's my first, well, my one and two. I never had kids before, so. This is very frustrating.

Yeah. Well, she says you can't let go of your exes.

I already let go of my exes. Okay.

So I'm gonna ask you directly, 'cause I just heard this timeline, 2019, she caught you talking to an ex. Was that true?

That's true.

2020, were you talking to an ex?

2020?

It's 2022.

2022?

Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Okay then. 2020.

No, I didn't. I didn't.

Before, I just want the facts. 2024.

There's context in there.

Yeah, context. I'm gonna get the context in a bit, but 2024, were you talking to an ex? Okay then. Now gimme your context.

All right. The first one, she didn't show her the messages of me telling her I don't wanna be with you. I'm in a relationship, I'm moving on. Oh, move out and I'll move back there and pay the bills. She didn't show her none of that. She just showed her the messages of me saying, all right, when I finally say, all right, I love you, now get off my phone.

Okay.

The 2022 ex, I been had that number in my phone. I forgot about the number being in my phone. I'm dead serious.

How?

So why did you have it underneath a guy's name?

It's not even a, that's her nickname.

Yeah.

That's her nickname. The 2024 thing, me and her broke up. She left my house for like a week or two.

It was—

I don't, it don't matter. You left. There is no timetable on how long I gotta wait for to hit somebody up or to talk to somebody.

I don't know about that. If we together, if we together, y'all got a 2-year-old, 'cause you have a 2-year-old. It was hours after hours. If y'all have gone and then y'all—

We broke up. She broke up. I don't know if she coming back or not.

But a week, you move on that quick?

I don't know if she coming back or not. I'm not saying that I'm moving on, but I'll probably try to fill a void fast.

Okay, then you try to fill a void. Okay then. And now ex number 4. Oh. Take a look at it. Take a look at it.

She ain't gonna be ex number 4 'cause I ain't doing nothing.

Okay then. I'm not doing nothing. So Kyrie, you also wanna unlock her phone?

Yeah.

Why?

Because if 9 times outta 10 when the accuser is doing all that for such long, they're the ones doing something.

They the ones doing shit. I have my reasons.

Okay, well listen, it's time to unlock the phone.

Yeah.

Okay.

Come on.

Solimar, we unlocked your phone.

Okay.

Okay, here we go.

Come on, please, 'cause—

Kyrie, you wanna know if Solimar is communicating with any other men. Solimar says she is not. Mindlocked the phone, investigators searched her texts and found that Solimar is telling the truth.

That's one.

Kyrie, you wanna know if Solimar is direct messaging any other men. Solimar says she is not. My Lock the Phone investigator searched her DMs and found that Solimar is telling the truth. Kyrie, you wanna know if Solimar is on any dating sites? Solimar says she is not. My Lock the Phone investigator searched her apps and found that Solimar is telling the truth. How you feel about that?

I feel good. I feel good about it.

'Cause you were saying she was accusing you because she was doing something, but we searched, we dug through that phone. She's not doing nothing. She busy with kids in that phone. That's all they said was coming out.

All of it. That's it.

How do you feel?

I feel good to know that she ain't doing nothing.

Okay, well Kyrie, we unlocked your phone. Let me sit up for this one. All right, so Solimar wants to know if Kyrie is still communicating with specific exes. He says he is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched his phone and found that Kyrie is telling the truth. Damn. Solimar, you wanna know if Kyrie is meeting up with any of his exes? He says he is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched his GPS and found that Kyrie It's telling the truth. I see them feet going. You nervous about what's coming next? I see them feet going. I see them feet going. Okay.

I hope not.

I hope not. Solimar, you wanna know if Kyrie is receiving any nude photos from other women. My Lock the Phone investigator searched his texts. We both did his texts that are here and also his deleted texts. —and found that Kyrie is telling the truth. Solimar, you wanna know if Kyrie is direct messaging any other women. He says he is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched his DMs and found that Kyrie is telling the truth.

Exactly, exactly, exactly, exactly. He's telling the truth.

Look at that.

He's telling the truth. 6 years, going on 6 years. How do you feel?

How do you feel? How do you feel? You happy? You happy?

Am I allowed in the house? Can I get my keys? Hold on.

No, you know what? Because listen, she don't got the key. I got the key. And before I give you this key, we got to get through some things, OK? You notice I put a Karamo keychain on this because I need to remind you of some things. And this is real. I don't know if you noticed my card is full of some stuff 'cause I was drawing some patterns. You broke the foundation in 2019. You broke the foundation in 2022. I don't understand. And you broke the foundation in 2024. And then what happens is that out of your own mouth you said, "This is why we have an issue." But in that you're never acknowledging that the foundation was broken because of you. Yes, her accusations are annoying. I can assure for you because after we know you're not doing nothing, I'm sure you like, "Damn, I'm not even doing nothing. Chill out." But the problem is, is that since you broke the foundation, how can she even trust that anything's been going on? And I think you're expecting her to heal on your terms instead of realizing that her healing is at her own time. She got you in that car not because she doesn't love you, but because she is tired of not feeling secure in this relationship. And then when she tells you, I don't feel secure, she's then met with being berated. She's met with deflection. She's met with words that are killing her. Look, your girl is crying right now. Look at her right now.

I've been saying that for I don't know how long. He just doesn't listen to me.

But it also be times where we get into an argument and I try to leave the situation and then she'll stop and try to keep me in the situation.

So let me tell you this right here because this is the logic sometimes of men. I'm trying to keep the peace by leaving, but when the issue in your relationship is trust and security, leaving only hurts the relationship.

But if I, all right, but what about the times where she had asked me about somebody, I say no, that's not what's happening. I'm not about to keep going for a whole nother hour saying that's not what I'm doing.

Yes, you can. See, so this is where it is. This is why I said the first thing that I said, you broke the foundation, so you can't expect her her to heal at your timeframe. So if she needs you to reassure her for an hour, that's your job to do because you broke it. Because she was tired in 2019. She was tired in 2022. She was tired in 2024. But yet she's still here. So now you can't be tired because in 1 hour she's asking the same question. She has the right because you broke it. So if you broke it, you have to give her the time that she needs to heal it. So walking away, getting aggravated, degrading her is only going to further break the communication and security in this relationship. Does it make sense now? Mm-hmm. Because I know it's frustrating for you. We just went through your phone. I know you're not doing anything. I know you wanna be back in your house with your family. I know you do. And this type of video, of you sitting in front of the house is, as crazy as it sounds, it shows like, listen, I'm here, I'm not gonna do nothing stupid. I'm sitting in front, because last time, 2024, you had a week off and you did something stupid. So this time you're showing her that listen, I'm gonna sit in front of the house, you gonna be able to look out the window and see me. That move right there is why she even has this key available again because she knows, okay, he's trying to rebuild the security, but not when there's gonna be degrading. Can you apologize to your wife? Apologize to your wife about being impatient with her healing.

I could apologize to you about being impatient with your healing. Say to her, I promise you.

I promise you. That I. That I. Will do everything I can.

Will do everything I can. To rebuild security.

To rebuild security. And rebuild the foundation of our home.

And rebuild the foundation of our home.

And if there's ever a moment where you're feeling aggravated and about to come outta your mouth, say something. Flip, remember I broke it. And if you can't remember, you gonna grab this key in your pocket and this is gonna be your reminder. Oh damn, I gotta be patient because I broke it. You see this? Don't take this keychain off. This ain't my name. This is your reminder. You touch this in your pocket, I broke it. I broke it. I broke it, okay? This your signal right here, all right? Okay? You wanna give it to him? Listen, she's letting you back in the house, but she needs that security deposit, okay? And I don't mean money. Security of the heart and mind, all right? All right, I wish y'all the best of luck, all right? You're welcome. All right, good luck to y'all, all right? All right, everyone, stay with us, friends. We'll be right back with more.