Karamo explains that ghosting says nothing about your worth. The person who ghosted you likely can't handle difficult conversations, not that you did something wrong. Let the hurt pass, and lean on people who actually show up for you.
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Hey fam, so some of you have been in my DMs asking for advice about ghosting. When we have somebody who ghosts us, we feel like, oh my gosh, we've been abandoned, and we start to internalize like, what's wrong with me? Why did they leave me? Instead of realizing that if somebody is not courageous enough just to sit down and talk to you and say, this is why I feel like we should break this relationship, that's about them. And secondly, We also have to stop assuming that we know the reason why someone ghosted. You don't know. They could be going through something deep and dark, and you actually are being protected from what they're going through. Listen, friends, dating can be difficult. Please know that the hurt you're feeling will pass. You got to reach out to friends, family members, reach into your community and let them be there for you so they know that you are loved and you're supported. You're going to be all right.