Wendy, 45, realizes she's defined herself through her roles as nana, mom, and wife. She wants to step back from men and invest more time with her kids, asking herself who's supporting her after she's poured everything into others.
I don't know Wendy outside of Nana, outside of mom, outside of a wife. I want some time.
Outside of a man.
Correct. I want this time.
Oh no, because you almost omitted that one. You also don't know Wendy outside of a man.
You're right. And you're right. You're right. I want, at 45, I want this stretch of time by myself. I have poured myself into everyone. My God that I have now, he said to me, who's pouring into you? This house that she's talking about she wants to build is going to be with this kid.
With them, it's gonna be with them.
And that's okay. But you said you wanted to— That's not okay. Winnie, let me tell you something.
You gotta spend less time with these men and focus more time on these kids. Honestly, honestly, honestly.