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Like mother like daughter #karamoshow

18 Dec 2024 · 1 min

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In this segment of the Karamo Show, the hosts discuss a woman's relationship with an older partner who is 21 years older. The conversation centers on the symbolism of both partners trying to unlock each other's phones, which is framed as a sign of control and toxicity. The woman reflects on how she has inherited traits from her mother and from her partner, Gerald, and worries about the possibility that her daughter might emulate the same unhealthy dynamics. She explicitly states she does not want her children to repeat these patterns, expressing a desire to break the cycle despite acknowledging the influence of what they observe.

Christiana, let me ask you this. How you feel about the fact that we're unlocking their phones?
Ooh, I mean, that's very messy. Don't get me wrong, I've been around my mom, so I really know that she was not necessarily talking to a variety of men.
But I mean more so the fact that you know how toxic these two are together and they still trying to unlock each other's phone. How you feel about that?
Like he said, I am with an older man. We do have a 21-year age gap. We have been through a lot and I do feel like I've picked up some traits from my mom and Gerald and I do always, I always tell my mom, I always see me and her as the same and him and Gerald as the same in different ways though. But like unlocking the phone.
Do you really want your daughter to be going through the same relationship you're going through right now?
No.
Okay. I'm gonna ask you too. Do you want her to be going through the same relationship y'all going through?
I don't want none of my kids to mimic what they see. I actually strive for that. But you know they are.
You just heard it outta her mouth.
Yes. Okay.