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Love vs Trauma #KaramoShow #siblings #dna

21 Nov 2025 · 0 min

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The video presents three personal testimonies about each speaker's relationship with their father and their emotional reactions to his recent death. Speaker A describes a loving, supportive bond and expresses deep heartbreak at his passing. Speaker B recounts a childhood marked by abuse, removal by social services, and a detached response to the news of his father's death, indicating lingering resentment. Speaker C shares a complex story of late reconnection, betrayal when the father rekindles a relationship with the mother, abandonment during a violent incident, and a lack of grief upon learning of his death. Collectively, the segment explores themes of love, trauma, abandonment, betrayal, and the varied ways individuals process paternal loss.

I grew up with my dad. He was in and out a lot, but at the end of the day, I was 100% daddy's girl. When he passed away a few weeks ago, I was heartbroken.
When I was younger, I was kind of all over the place. Around the age of 4, living with different family members and different group homes. My dad was doing some inappropriate things to me. Social Services came and took me away from the family, and in 30 years, I didn't even question his whereabouts. When I got the call, my sister Kisha told me that he had passed away, and I responded with, "That's your dad, not mine." I'm not upset he passed.
Growing up, I always knew who my dad was. My mom has always been honest with me about who my father was. Only thing was, she never had a way to contact him. When I was 32, I got in contact with him. He came to stay with me and my mom. I'm thinking we were gonna rekindle things, but instead he rekindled things with my mom. And I definitely felt a certain way about that. He was supposed to be here to get to know me, not my mom. So not only that, but on our way walking one day, I was approached by a group of teenagers that tried to attack us. And he fled. He ran like a coward and left me high and dry. After that, I was like, he's no dad of mine. A dad is supposed to protect his daughter. When Keisha called me to tell me that my dad had passed, I didn't feel any kind of way. I wasn't upset.