Geneva and another person are stuck in conflict because they both experienced abandonment, and now they make protective choices that hurt each other. Understanding why you both react this way doesn't fix it, but it helps you stop blaming and start seeing each other.
All I'm still hearing is the abandonment from Roger that y'all two are taking out on each other. Because the thing is, is that at the end of the day, I need you two to understand that this is about two people who were both abandoned. You both were hurting and yet you're both looking at each other and saying, why didn't you make a better decision and be there for me? Why wasn't I picked up? Why weren't you there for me? You're saying like, I'm not your sister, we talked. You're saying this. But the thing is, is that She's just telling you right now, Geneva, that she didn't know how to be there because she was abandoned. But when people have felt abandoned, they make choices from that abandonment. Just the same way you're making choices and your choices are not wrong, Geneva, and your choices weren't wrong either. You are making choices to try to protect yourself.
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