Married After 3 Months But I Lied About Having My Tubes Tied! | KARAMO
In this episode of the Karamo show, host Karamo mediates a heated confrontation between newly‑married couple LaToya and Doug, who have been together for nine months and married for three months. LaToya claims she was asked to unlock her phone because Doug suspects infidelity; Doug also wants to see her phone. Karamo conducts an on‑air "Unlock the Phone" investigation, searching both devices. The investigation reveals: • Doug has two sexual videos on his phone, contradicting his claim of no explicit content. • LaToya has 116 inappropriate text exchanges with three men (including her child's father) dating from January, and a Tinder app logged in three months ago, despite her denial. • LaToya also possesses two sexual videos with an ex from February. • LaToya reveals her tubes were tied in 2018, a fact Doug was unaware of, leading to confusion about future family plans. Throughout the episode, both partners express distrust, accusations of secrecy, and claims of sacrifice. Karamo repeatedly asks probing questions, highlights the evidence, and ultimately advises Doug to prioritize his own well‑being, consider counseling, and possibly leave the relationship, while urging LaToya to be honest about her actions. The episode blends confrontational dialogue, on‑air forensic phone checks, and relationship advice.
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So I heard you were upset when you were asked to unlock your phone.
Yes.
Okay, why?
Exactly. I haven't did anything. There's no reason for him to question me.
Okay. So you just thought you were coming here for some help?
Yes.
You ain't know that he was coming here to unlock that phone?
No.
Got it. Okay.
No.
And you two have kids?
Well, I have 4 kids.
And he helps you raise them?
Yes.
Okay then, if y'all married, that's his kids too. So how long y'all been married?
We've been married since March.
March. March of what year?
This year.
Oh, this year?
Yes.
Oh, hold on. So y'all got— Do that math real quick. So, 'cause it said that y'all got together in the first 3 months. Y'all got married in the first 3 months. So you've only been with, known this man 9 months?
Yes.
Okay. And y'all already married?
Yes.
Was that enough time to build a foundation?
No.
That makes sense why y'all on the Karamo Show. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. Okay. So do you feel like he is insecure about your relationship with your kids' father?
He is.
Okay, why do you think that?
Anytime they call to check on the kids or anything, he has an attitude. And he thinks I'm still in love with my youngest child's father.
Got it. Is this why he wants to go through your phone?
No, 'cause he's the one that had a girl calling him that he would never answer when I'm around. That's his best friend. Come to find out they used to sleep together. And I caught him talking crap about my kids to her.
Oh yeah, we don't play with the babies. So I can understand how that upset you.
Not at all.
Yeah. Does he have any other reason to go through your phone?
No.
None at all. What about him and his phone?
Exactly.
Okay, you said exactly.
I need to see his phone.
My producers say a specific female kept popping up on his phone. Is that the one you were talking about?
Yes.
And so every time she pops up, every time this specific female pops up, he walks out the room. What happens? Give me some tea.
He'll never answer it. He'll let it ring, but then you wait till I'm at work and you wanna call her back.
Mm.
Yeah.
So are you curious to see if they're still talking?
Yes.
Okay then. Well, Latoya, you wanna know if Doug has been texting with other women. If Doug has DMs with any other women, and if Doug has any explicit videos on his phone. Those are the questions. All right, well listen, I wanna hear what Doug's side of this story. So everyone please welcome Doug to the show. Hey Doug, nice to meet you. How you doing? Nice to meet you. Thanks for being here.
Yes, sir.
How do you feel about what was just said?
I mean, she knows it's more than that.
Uh-huh. So what don't you trust exactly?
Well, I don't like when people will be calling her phone or whatever when she's at work, but they won't necessarily call when she's at home.
Who?
Burger Boy and that old man.
My baby daddy.
Yeah, I don't, man, but they don't call, it's not pertaining to the child. So what they calling about? And then they're calling. It's always about the kid. They're calling, no. And then they're calling on your specific lunchtimes. And then when it's coming at home, they'll talk on the phone for like 2 seconds with their kids, but they'll have long-ass conversations with you During your lunch?
About the kids.
Man, come here now, come on, quit playing.
About the kids.
Every day.
Have you gone through her phone before?
Unfortunately, yes.
Uh-huh. All the time.
And how upset did that make you?
Livid.
Why?
Because some certain stuff that she's discussing with them, I don't feel that she should put our family's business or what's going on in our relationship to talk to them about.
Oh, so she shares your personal stuff with her exes?
Yes.
Is that true?
No.
Okay, uh-huh.
So we gonna play ball like that, right? I got the stuff about employment, I got the stuff about things that are going on in our house, stuff about food, stuff about every little thing that they don't even need to know about what's going on with—
So do you tell your exes about like his job status, like the things, how y'all dealing with finances?
Quit playing. I don't know what you're talking about.
No.
Okay.
You stuck, right?
Okay. So why don't you trust her with her exes?
Why are they steady trying to pursue what my happiness is and everything when they fumbled the ball? They dropped the ball, I picked it up and I'm winning.
Okay.
So I'm up.
So what will you do if you find, what will you do if you find things on her phone?
I mean, I told her, like, I used the analogy, I look at our relationships like employment. You're full-time, part-time, or seasonal. This is full-time. I'm not finna have no part-time, no seasonal stuff. So unless you gonna bounce that stuff out there and ex-nay all that stuff, whatever, then, hey, we gonna have to get some counseling or something.
So if there is something on the phone, you don't wanna leave the relationship, but you want some counseling?
Yeah, I'm truly in love with my wife. I'm 10 toes on my wife.
Do you feel like she's truly in love with you?
She's made many, many sacrifices for me. And I've made sacrifices as well. I left my beautiful home in Central West End in St. Louis. I have career opportunities there. I have a lot of family there to move down to 2 hours down the road to a city that I can't get a job that suffices for the needs for my family. I don't know anyone. I'm just like a prisoner in the home. This is my only happiness and those 4 little kiddos.
Have you asked her to get rid of her social media?
Yes, I did ask her to get rid of her social media. Then she bounced it back on saying that she just wants to check something real quick. And then when she checked it and everything like that, she's erased it again. But then I think a lot. So I think when she's at work, she'll re-add the app or whatever just to check stuff or whatever. And then when she gets home or whatever, Deleted or something like that.
Has she been acting differently though?
Yeah, she's been acting real distant and it's bothering me and it's making me like, do you really wanna do this? What do you mean by how? Man, like in the beginning, whatever, we sleep next to each other, close as a mug, you know? Spooning, everything like that, hug, everything good, right? For the past like month and a half or whatever, maybe even a little longer, you've been sleeping on that side of the bed. I've been sleeping in the middle of the bed.
So you feel like the intimacy, you're having some intimacy issues?
Yes, and I'm trying to give her that thang. I'm trying to, I want a baby.
You feel me?
I'm trying to get busy for real.
Well, Judge, you wanna know if LaToya has been texting with any other men, if LaToya has been on dating apps on her phone, and if LaToya has any explicit videos on her phone.
Yeah, I did want to know that, yeah.
Okay.
Okay, well, I want to know what you doing.
Uh, well, we're gonna find out now because it's time to unlock the phone. Doug, we unlocked your phone first. All right, here we go. Latoya, you want to know if Doug has been texting with any other women. Doug says he is not. My Unlock the Phone investigators searched his texts and found that Doug is telling the truth. Latoya, you wanna know if Doug has DMs with any other women. Doug says he does not. My Unlock the Phone investigators searched his DMs and found that Doug is telling the truth. Latoya, you wanna know if Doug has any explicit pictures explicit videos on his phone. Doug says he does not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched his videos and found that Doug is not telling the truth. He has 2 videos of sexual nature with 2 separate females. No, we're serious.
Oh, these better be old.
It better be old. They gotta be old. Gotta be old.
Okay, well, we about to open it right now.
Oh, they better be old.
You know what's up. Well, my producer told me the thing that you had the question with is that you want him to delete the things outta his phone. Is that correct?
Yes.
Is that correct?
That's correct.
So these were not deleted.
What you holding on to 'em for?
Man, this stuff gotta be old. I got like 4,000 pictures in my phone. I'm not finna skim to 2016. Come on now, the iCloud is deep.
You said you wanted him to delete any sexual videos before you were married and these were not deleted. So the question is not about—
Old as a mug, right?
Okay.
Quit playing.
Okay, I deleted all my stuff I had. Yeah, and that stuff is gone. I could have kept my stuff.
No, you can't.
'Cause y'all weren't together on September 9th, 2023, right? No.
No.
Okay, good. So these are— So this ain't that old. You talking about you couldn't go 6,000 months. This ain't that old. You could have clicked back. I could easily get to 2023 in my photos. —and videos.
Exactly.
So that's all we found. He does have these still on his phone. Is that an issue for you?
I just wanna know why you ain't delete it. I mean, babe, I went back and deleted as much as I could.
You deleted what you wanted to.
No, babe, that ain't the case. I'm not suggesting, no, I didn't selectively just save those photos or those videos or anything like that.
Well, Atoya, we unlocked your phone as well. All right, well, Doug, you want to know if LaToya has been texting with any other men. LaToya says she is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched her texts and found that LaToya is not telling the truth. She has 116 inappropriate text exchanges between her and 3 different men from January. One of them was her child's father. Can I see the evidence back? Yeah.
That look like a baby book, babe.
So, so— That look like a book. I mean, there's one that my producer want me to point out right here. My investigator, this is one that my investigator wants me to point out. It says, "Good morning, I've been good. How you been doing? I'll be single as soon as I drop this clown back in Memphis." You don't even know who Playboy is?
That was about my ex.
That wasn't about you. Okay, since January? Yeah. He was living with me. Since January, all these, January. They keep going on. Right on. Between, you know, as well? Yeah, that's Bugger Boy. Okay, she's been texting with in February.
In February?
Uh-huh. Sorry, in February. Were y'all together in February? Yeah. Okay, it says, sorry for putting that 'on you,' 'baby, you supposed to,' 'I love it when you,' and you can go. That's February.
I don't remember.
You don't remember? You got amnesia now, right?
When you go through it, it keeps going all the way through of saying, talking about their sex. I guess they also talked about having another baby.
Having another baby with this Burger Boy?
He sends a photo of you to, of a child, so he wants to have another baby together. Let's see. Doug, have you two been trying? 'Cause I know you said y'all don't have any kids. Have y'all been trying to have a baby together?
Man, I've been trying to get busy. I love the woman. I love this woman. Yeah, okay. Wholeheartedly. Okay.
Well, let's continue on with this unlocking the phone. Doug, you want to know if LaToya has any dating apps on her phone. LaToya says she does not. My unlock the phone investigator searched her apps and found that LaToya is not telling the truth. She has Tinder on her phone that she just logged into 3 months ago. No, I don't.
No, I don't. I don't have no Tinder on my damn phone.
Yeah, we don't make up stuff here. No, I don't. Yeah, we don't make up things here. LaToya, is there any reason that you don't want to have a baby? Is there any reason you don't want to have a baby?
My tubes are tied. What? Oh.
Yo, tubes tied?
Did you know that her tubes were tied?
So you got a chastity belt on the moo shu?
So you did not know that her tubes were tied? So you thought that when you got married, y'all were gonna be able to have a family?
Okay. For real, Toya? So I'm thinking that something's wrong with me, right? And I'm saving up money or whatever to try to get me together or whatever, do stuff for you, right? And make our marriage whole. So how long you had your tubes tied?
Since 2018, after 2018.
So I'm thinking I'm shooting blanks or whatever and it ain't me, huh?
Okay. Doug, we got one more. You wanna know if LaToya has any explicit videos on her phone? LaToya says she does not. Am I unlocked the phone investigator searched her videos and found that LaToya Well, we got a pattern here is not telling the truth. She has two sexual videos she made with her ex in February. Okay. So I asked you a very specific question if you thought you got into this marriage too quickly. You said the communication has been the best it's ever been. And clearly you know that you might have been communicating, but she has not. The communication has been one-sided, has not been honest. You didn't know each other when you got together and you clearly still don't. And I think at this point right now, what I heard is a man that made a lot of sacrifices that has been putting himself second because you fell in love with a woman. And I think, and this is the same advice I'd give to a woman, I think it's time that you start putting yourself first. It's time that you start figuring out your life and how to feel whole and feel supported I know you love this woman and I know that you wanted this to work, but unfortunately in 9 months we've already seen her talking to somebody else. She's lied about the family you could build and then she's also had sex with her ex. So at this point I understand that information hurts, but you don't deserve to be in a situation in 9 months that is going to have you in a place where you can't be communicated with honestly. Do you wanna stay in this relationship? Relationship? You gotta start to lose. See, lemme tell you something.
There's things that are not displayed on here, whatever, that she's forgiven me for that doesn't have to deal with that. So I believe I could forgive her, but we're gonna have to talk about that trust deal because—
I'm gonna tell you this. Here we go. I'm gonna tell you this. I appreciate you saying that. It's funny because your socks say game over and that's what should have been happening right now. Because, and it's the real, this is the real. Mr. Real, let me tell you something. And this is the thing, the same way that I see women stay in relationships because they're like, oh, well, he did a little good thing for me and he did this for me and he stuck with me through my bad times, does not mean that you have to start sacrificing. You just said on this stage that you started questioning your own health. See, you don't understand, those things play into your mental health as well. These things play into your value, your worth. It starts to play into it. And what will happen a year in, 2 years in, you will find yourself feeling You just saw how she was talking to her ex, the same ex that you asked her not to have these type of conversations or relationships with. I plead with you that you walk off this stage and you figure out and choose yourself.
He was living with me. We wasn't even married.
What's gonna be different?
I don't even talk to him.
Listen, all right, I'm gonna let y'all have this conversation. I'm gonna leave you one last thing. Just because you stuck with her during the rough times doesn't mean we have to be stuck up with her, okay? So I'm trying to give you the same questions. I pray and I wish you the best of luck. I wish you the best of luck.
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