After an affair, Speaker A tells Speaker B that one mistake doesn't define who you are. B wants to move past the pain and eventually build a family, while A emphasizes that B shouldn't live in torment over what happened.
On a scale of 0 to 10, 10 being the most amazing, where's your self-esteem? Probably pretty low right now. Like what? Like a 1, 2, 3?
Yeah.
I'm sorry. I really am. Hopefully we'll get through it. Because unfortunately, I don't think this is fair to you. I know you made a mistake by cheating, but you shouldn't live a life of torment for the mistake you made and your self-esteem shouldn't be broken down.
I just was very hurt in the relationship.
Eric, what's going through your mind right now? I just want it to be over, move on and have a family and a relationship.