My Best Friend Exposed Me On Social Media! | KARAMO

In this episode of The Karamo Show, host Karamo mediates a heated dispute between former friends Dakota (23) and Aria. The conflict began over a jointly‑owned car that they bought together as teenagers. Dakota claims he was supposed to buy the car outright but the transaction never completed, leading to accusations that Aria monopolized the vehicle, refused to share it, and later sabotaged it. Dakota describes a night where a flat tire forced him to confront Aria at a Burger King, resulting in a physical altercation that escalated to the use of a taser and a chase, after which police were involved. Aria counters that Dakota threatened her with a knife and that she called the police when her nephew felt threatened. A witness, Jasmine, is brought in to confirm whether Dakota stabbed a tire. The dispute deepens when Aria admits to posting Dakota’s state ID and intimate sexual videos on Facebook, which remain online. Dakota alleges that Aria also hacked his Snapchat. Karamo attempts to de‑escalate by offering $500 to Aria if she removes the incriminating content. Both parties express lingering resentment but also hint at a long‑standing friendship that began when they were 15. The episode ends with a tentative reconciliation, promises to delete the content, and Karamo’s well‑wishes for their future relationship.
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So Dakota, please tell me, why are you here today?
So basically I'm here because my old friend, her name's Aria, basically we had a lot of falling out. Basically, really realistically, the main thing that we fell out about was a car. Basically we went half on a vehicle and we had a lot of problems that happened with the vehicle and stuff that we had to maintain. And realistically I was supposed to buy the vehicle back from her and those plans failed. It just didn't happen.
So you both shared this car?
Yes.
Okay. And this is after something happened to it or is this how?
No, that's how we bought it.
Okay, you bought it like that.
And we fixed her, yes.
Okay, you fixed her up.
Correct.
Okay, got it. Yeah, they young, they get it. My first car wasn't cute, like they young, they young, okay. Okay, so y'all had that car. The understanding was that you were supposed to buy it back so it could be totally yours.
Correct.
Okay, and what happened?
She would never let me see the car, you get what I'm saying? Basically she, me and her, basically she is like a dictator, you get what I'm saying? It's a dictatorship, it's not a democracy with her.
Okay.
So it's kind of like, It's her go or no go. You get what I'm saying? So it was like, you know, I was working and things, you know, I didn't really need the car. She was at home, she's a couch potato. So me on the other hand, I'm like, okay girl, well go ahead, take the car, you know, ride you and your friend around. Just make sure that when I need to use it or when I need to get from work, let me do that.
Got it.
That never happened. She never came through on her end. So basically when I—
And what would she say when she didn't come through on her end?
Find a way, find a ride. You have Uber, you have Lyft, you work a job.
Interesting. So what happened the night of the car incident?
So basically what happened was I woke up one morning, imagine she had just got done riding all her big-ass friends around in the car. So of course, why wouldn't the car be on flat, okay? So I had went outside, start the car, I pulled off, I'm feeling a flat. I'm like, oh my God. So I gotta go home. I'm like, I can't go to work. Gas station is nowhere near. She got AAA, you get what I'm saying? So if anything, the car gonna be fine. It's a donut in the back, but I don't have time, I gotta go to work. So anyways, I call her, I hit her up like, "Girl, look, girl, I gotta go to work." So she get mad or whatever. She like, "Oh, you probably trying to call off. You trying to go see your boyfriend or something. You just trying to play me over the car." So I'm like, "Girl, catch me at Burger King. I'll see you there." Okay, so anyways, we go to Burg— So I go to Burger King. I'm there like 20 minutes. I had just got done counting my drawer, just got done. I must look up, I see her big ass with her uncles and stuff in my face. So imagine she is being very like provocative towards me, you know? At this point, she's leaning over the counter towards me and stuff. Imagine, she's like 6'7". Babe, I'm 5 foot. My manager literally had to literally come get me because Ari was trying to literally, she was getting ready to grab me over the counter 'cause she was so mad about this car. So imagine she—
But she's mad because you said the tire's flat, come get me? I'm confused.
So she thought that I took the car and I hid it in the parking lot at work. That's what she thought.
Mm, okay.
So basically she rode around looking for the car. She didn't find it because it was at home at my house. So by the time when she did get to my house, I was still at work. So my mom and my uncle was at home and they were like, "Well, we not giving you no key because we seen Dakota pull up with that car and he left the key here, so he the only person that's gonna get the key and move that car." Yeah. So you might as well go on ahead, wait for him. He'd be off in a few hours, just go on ahead, chill out and wait. So she didn't wanna do that. She wanted to be very ignorant, cussing them out, calling them out their name and stuff. I guess she didn't ever think that that was gonna get back to me.
Yeah.
It got back to me. By the time I got off, I didn't even call her. I ain't even do nothing. I'm like, I'm gonna let her chill out. You get what I'm saying? I hear her outside yelling my name. So I'm like, oh my God. So I go outside and basically she wants to argue about where's the car key. I had the car key in my pocket, but I didn't tell her that I had the car key. So basically she wants to argue and say like how I'm so fake because I stole a vehicle and how I sabotaged it because I slashed a tire and this, that, and the third. And I'm like, sister, go over there and look at the tire. It's completely flat. There's no slashes, there's nothing wrong with it. It's flat. Why would I slash one tire? Make that make sense.
Yes.
Who does one tire? Okay, and I put money into this. Like, are you serious? Yeah. Okay, so we are arguing and stuff, so it gets very high rated. So I must have probably, you know, came at her weight or something 'cause you know, she's uncomfortable with her size. So basically, you know, I made one of them little comments or whatever, so she got mad.
What comments you been making this entire time? I got you a little shady with this one.
So basically, anyways, so basically I was making the comments, she got mad, so she like jumped at me and I started running. Okay, okay. So, 'cause she did this, 'cause baby, I had to run. And then in the midst of me running, I'm like, you got a taser. So I stopped running and I turned my taser on and I started zapping. She instantly stopped. Somebody said, "Yeah, that's right." She instantly stopped and she got to running herself around the other way. So I'm chasing her. So the police pop up. I went in the house. I ran right in the house. So I'm in the house. So the police talking to my mom. They said, hey, we need you to unlock the door because you have to let us in because we have to arrest him. You'll be going to jail for harboring a fugitive. So my mom like, oh, hell no. You know, my mom's like, OK, well, I'm going to open this door because I ain't got nothing to do with this. So I heard front door open. You know what front door mean. Front door mean, baby, you better hit this window and go on ahead and keep it running.
Yeah.
So what I did was I opened that window real slow. And when I tell you, I just slid right out the window and fell on the rocks so quietly. I ain't have no shoes on or nothing. I fell on the rocks, I hopped over the gate, and I ran to safety.
Got it. So did you get arrested?
No, I didn't get arrested.
Okay. He know how to tell a story, don't he? I was like, it's our time. So since that time, have you spoken to her?
No, I haven't spoken to her. I mean, I probably seen her like once or twice at a gas station, but it's like she's constantly steady like trying to harass me and like come for me about this vehicle.
Do you miss your friend?
Do I miss her?
Yeah.
I don't miss her.
I don't know if I fully believe that.
You don't fully believe that?
No, I don't fully believe that. I don't know if I fully believe that. How long had y'all been friends?
We've been friends since I wanna say I was 15.
How old are you now?
23.
23. Okay, so yeah, it's been some time. 8 years, 9 years, almost a decade. And Aria is the one who called the show, right?
Yes.
Yes. So clearly she wanted to see you even though you saying you didn't wanna see her.
Correct.
Well listen, I think it's time to hear from Aria and see what Aria has to say about all this.
So everyone, welcome Aria to the show.
Do you know the Taser he's talking about?
What Taser?
It was a buck hunting knife. She put a knife on me and my nephew.
I should have pulled a knife.
She pulled a 10-inch blade on me and my—
and how do I know this?
I called them. How do you think they came? What are you talking about?
So you called the police?
Yeah, my nephew was terrified, literally. Big as she is, she don't need to call the police. I can be big. I'm big and beautiful.
Look at you, you a mess. She's overlocked.
You a mess, girl. Look at you. You need to do that foundation better. I know you and them teeth still bad.
Get it together.
Yours yellow.
What do you want?
What do you wanna say, Dakota?
So much, because, okay, so you know how he just tried to sit here and say that, oh, he put his money into that car. You saw how fucked up that car was when we got that car. I put $2,500 of my own money that I make because I'm a boss into that car. He didn't put a dollar in it.
You stole it to get the brakes fixed. You had all your stuff. I don't care if I don't have no brakes, I put a TV in it. The car needed brakes, rotors, and struts. Let's not go there.
So you really think that he sabotaged the car?
You know how he said, "Oh, it was on a flat." She thinks. He put the tire on a flat in front of me with the same knife he pulled on me and my nephew.
No.
So I don't know, it was never on a flat. He never wanted me to use that car. Yes, I pulled up at Burger King and tried to fight him.
She's delusional.
He was a little too close to the hot grease, so I didn't wanna grab him.
So I waited till he got home because I knew when he got up and I pulled up to his house.
You should've, but you didn't.
So you saw him walk out of the house and stab the tires with this knife you said he had?
Yes, right in front of me and my nephew and her. Where's my friend? 'Cause I know she's here.
And the B of—
please stand up.
Hey, your name is Jasmine, right?
Get her up here, 'cause I ain't gotta lie about nothing.
So Jasmine, you were there. Yes. Did you see Dakota take out a knife and stab the tires?
Yes. I thought it was a single tire.
Is there a possibility, Dakota, that you came out, stabbed one of the tires? You gonna tell me if you stabbed the tires.
I ain't stab no tires. Every single one. Why would I stab the tires? He jumped out the window with a knife. Let me explain this to you. To you? Why would I stab some tires if the vehicle was gonna be mine in 2 days?
Dakota, did Arya post stuff about you on social media?
So Arya did. I'm so glad that you brought that up. So basically my friend called me, my best friend, his name, rest in peace. She like, girl, you need to get—
He's not dead, they just don't talk no more.
Rest in peace. Girl, I'm like, girl, I'm like, what's going on? Like, get on Facebook now, go on Arya's page. So you know, I'm like, okay, gimme a minute. I'm in the drive-through, I'm taking these orders. Hard worker, that's why I'm skinny and small. Anyways, like I was saying, okay, I go on Facebook and my damn socks fell off because I'm seeing my—
You stayed out wearing them either with the church shoes.
I think it's funny.
But girl, you don't even can fit a sock on those.
Girl, my shoes are 7. Anyway, what about you?
Non-factor, this is our show.
Anyway, like I was saying, like I was saying, I proceeded to go on Facebook.
Book, correct? When I got to her page, the first thing that was there was me, my state ID, and sexual videos of me.
And I should have posted social tea.
Sexual videos?
And they're still on her Facebook to this day.
But in my defense, it wasn't like it was him doing something personal. It was him with two boys that had boyfriends, and I exposed him. I didn't post the video on Facebook, but I sent the video to the boys and a lot of people in the community. So yeah, he just got mad 'cause he got exposed to being a whore.
She was jealous that she can't be a whore, she's so big.
What I can't be a whore for? I can be a better whore than you.
Why did you expose him? I mean, like, in all sincerity.
'Cause she was jealous.
Because I was mad about that car, if I'm really being honest with you.
All right, you called the show, why did you call?
I did, because I didn't think he was gonna be about that.
'Cause she hit up her friend.
I did, I did.
She miss her friend.
I did, honestly, I did.
They wanna keep doing me wrong. There you go.
Are you tired of doing him wrong?
Is he tired of doing me wrong?
Who are you about to tip the table? Are you tired of doing her wrong?
I can't do her if I had a machine to do her.
Baby, you could afford to do me.
Look how big she is.
You could never afford to do me. You don't make enough at Burger King.
Girl, salvation. I couldn't even afford you.
And that's where your outfit is from.
Girl, I'm gonna write you off on my taxes. Did you want to repair a friendship?
I thought I did, but I didn't know he was— What is wrong with you? What is all this energy for?
Why don't you wanna repair the friendship?
I don't wanna repair a friendship with her because like I said, it's a dictatorship. It's not a democracy.
So before the fight, what was y'all friendship like?
This is my closest friend in the whole world.
He would never know it. We were like Siamese. We were sisters. So basically, me and her, we really fell into each other. You get what I'm saying? And we became close friends and stuff. So it kind of became more than friends and it kind of turned into like a family ship.
Yeah.
Her family ship and me.
Because for y'all to be able to buy a car together, you have to be—
Correct. I was living with her and everything. This is my other half. So she had to sleep on my bed every night and look how you do simple things.
Did you support each other?
Most definitely, we supported.
We were 50/50. I feel like I supported him way more than he ever supported me.
I have to tell you, regardless of this, I ain't gonna take that much notes on this because I can see this already. This is what breaks my heart here is that this silly moment where of course y'all were too young. If I was around, I would've told y'all too young to go into some type of financial investment together. And so because of the love y'all had, y'all were like, let's figure out how to do something together to support each other because clearly you both needed the car.
No, no, no.
You're both trying to do something.
No, I had a whole lot of money. Negative, negative, negative. I didn't need a car at all. She told me that she needed me.
Okay, so you said you needed—
I needed you for $1,000.
She says she needed you.
And she used the same money.
You look like you need the money, if anything.
Regardless of if you needed the car or not, you then still made it a financial decision when you were young and you weren't able to handle the implications and how to actually go deal with that. And what has happened here, what breaks my heart is that there was a true friendship. For friends to come together and say, I'm gonna support you whether you need it or not, for you to say, let me help you, out, let me be there for you. Especially in our community, we come for each other, we help each other, we gotta support each other when nobody else is there. And it breaks my heart a little bit because I'm like, I see through all the little shady comments, I see through all that. It's like you lost your sister, you lost your sister. And you can make all the shady comments, y'all make shady comments to each other all the time. I get there's a bit of joke, it's unhealthy, but I get it. But at the end of the day, there had to been true love there. There had to been true love there. And a year, don't take that true love away. Especially when what broke y'all wasn't something like that's really hurtful. It wasn't, it was a car.
It's materialistic.
Materialistic.
Well.
Would you really wanna go another 20 years because of a car? Not being able to find out how your sister's doing, see what's going on?
I have love for my sister. If my sister, if anything was to happen to her, I'll be at her funeral, but right now there's nothing to say to each other. That's so shady. There's nothing.
Why is there nothing to say?
Can I tell you why?
There's just nothing to say.
'Cause I know why. I know why.
But I have an assumption because he just said that on your Facebook page still to this day is the things that broke him, which was his ID and these videos. Yeah.
Yeah.
So you need to commit to being respectful.
And to this day he's still not paying my money I put back into that car either. So my feelings and my pockets are broken. Like I'm not gonna lie to you.
So you're not willing to take down those videos?
Okay, let me be clear. I never posted the videos. I posted the screenshot of a video. Like you could see them.
Are you willing to take down all the stuff?
To delete his ID?
Everything that you have.
And everything. And she hacked my Snapchat. I'm so sorry to interject. She posted those on my Snapchat.
I did.
I did.
Yeah. Mm-hmm. You gotta delete it.
If we bring your phone out right now, will you delete all this stuff?
No, 'cause I ain't got no data. Y'all got Wi-Fi?
Yeah, we got Wi-Fi.
So low class.
Do I feel like being nice? Okay, I'll put my best foot forward. I will, I will.
You'll delete it?
I will, I'll do it, I'll do it, I'll do it. But he making it seem like it's for nothing and I don't like that.
You took a step further and I'm not gonna lie, that would've hurt the hell outta me if you would've posted my sexual intimate photos, my ID online. And the fact that they've still been up, I understand why he's upset. I understand that, I get that. And so you taking a step to delete this, we're getting your phone right now, I think is a big step. Step, but this is bigger than that.
It wasn't necessarily, like I said, just about the car. It was the fact that, like I said, I put all that money into it and then he didn't even take it or whatnot to keep the car. He junked it for $500 like a crackhead. What is wrong with you?
I'm gonna give you $500 when you leave here.
Don't tell me that.
I'm gonna give you, no, no, I'm gonna give you $500. I'm serious.
Really?
Because I understand that the $500, 'cause you said it's about the money. So if you gonna delete this, I'm gonna give you the money for him. $500, I'm gonna give it to you. All right? And so now you have that.
Thank you.
So now the narrative you have in your mind, because Both of your lives are worth more and the friendship and the family you have is worth more than any of this. So I'll give you the $500. So now you have your money. You about to delete his stuff off of your page. Now with that, you back at square one. Can you look at your sister? Can you look at your brother and tell him you love each other?
I never lost love for you. For real.
You so fake. You so fake. Sister.
Yeah.
I do love you.
Uh-huh.
I will try to fix everything with you and work on a better relationship with you from now on. Can we hug it out?
You better thank me. All right, listen, we gonna make sure, 'cause I'm gonna come back there, we gonna make sure you come back there and you delete the stuff off of Facebook.
I got you.
All right?
So I wish y'all the best of luck, all right? I really do. I wish y'all the best of luck.
I'm being sincere. Like, I understand what I did was wrong. And I hope me taking this step can make it right. I got you, like, okay, it's all gone.
We hooked, sister. I love you, Priya. It's okay, sister.
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