My Boyfriend Catfished Me! 🐱🐠🕵| KARAMO

This phone that you gave us to unlock was just activated on January 29th. Mm-hmm. So we weren't able to find any other information because this is a brand new, completely new phone. But since January, when it came to text messages, we found 2 suspicious text messages since January. Kayla received suspicious texts from 2 different men. One text asking if she was working, the other text was asking if she was outside.

And come to find out, This was him. That was him. Because I went on a field trip with my daughter and I got messages from these numbers. I came in to tell him about it and he said, oh, that was me. I wanted to see what you were gonna do in that situation and if you were gonna tell me. He was testing me.

Hold on, so—

So I didn't even do anything. It was him.

So you were catfishing her?

Yes.

Yes.

Yes.

Okay, hold on because I have these text messages. Can you show me these? Thank you so much, my friend. Hold on, so I asked them to print these text messages because I thought this was interesting. And so you're telling me that these conversations are you, you're saying things like, "Hey, what you doing today? You got a boyfriend?" And you're like, "Yes, I have a boyfriend." But you're asking her if you have a boyfriend and that was you?

Yeah, that was me.

Right. And you kept pressuring her in these texts saying, "Let's go out, let's do stuff." And she's like, "But I have a boyfriend." So I'm not chilling with you. I mean, one of the things I will say to this though is first, why did you even start to catfish her?

Well, 'cause I wanted to see if she was gonna be honest. You know what I'm saying? By getting these phone different texts and stuff from people that she knows, like coworkers and stuff like that. And I just wanted to see if she was gonna keep going on with the situation. And I told her, you should have just ended that 'cause I was tired of it. She should have just ended it. I'm tired of it too. She should have just ended the conversation.

And she did say she had a man.

Yes, but she should have ended the conversation.

Well, that would be my second point. Why, if you got text messages, 'cause I see at the top of these, you're like, you now say, "This is Jay," and you say, "Jay who?" And you don't really respond. You just kind of go into these other parts. Why didn't you just end it right there and say delete?

Exactly.

If you don't know who it is, why did you continue to engage?

'Cause I didn't know who was texting me.

Then when you say get off the phone.

'Cause I just got that number.

Then you say, "What? Stop texting me." But then you hit me back twice back to back saying, "Who is this? Who is this?" Brand new. So you're making me feel like you're curious about—

Were you curious about who these guys are or thinking you could know them?

No, I didn't care about the guys. I just wanted to know who had my number.

Can I be honest with you both? You're both in your 30s. You're both in your 30s. And these are games that children play.

Exactly.

The behavior's childish in every single way of the form. Since y'all been together for 7 months and from my count, There have been other people involved in your relationship, 3 from your part, 1 we know about from your part that have been involved in your relationship. So I don't understand why are y'all staying together when this is clearly toxic and clearly you 2 don't have the respect for each other that you need in a relationship.

Right.

I know you keep saying to me, Karamo, I love him, that's why I'm staying. Karamo, I love her, that's why I'm staying.

I do, I do love her, Karamo.

And I believe you do, but guess what you don't do? You don't respect her. And you don't respect him. Hold up, hold up. Where are you going? I know you wanna watch more Karamo, so click here to subscribe and click here to watch more so we can keep talking and growing, friends. I love you.