My Dreams Revealed You Cheated On Me! | KARAMO

Karamo mediates between Karlie and Molly, married eight years with two kids. Karlie discovered Molly's affair through a dream in November 2023. When Karamo checks their phones, Karlie's is clean but Molly's shows seven searches for dating sites, raising questions about whether trust can be rebuilt.
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How you caught Molly cheating?
Well, I had a dream. Yes.
Okay, she had a yes, girl.
Martin Luther King, I had a dream. I went through the phone, I checked some messages. He was writing his friend, asking the friend about, I guess, how the girl look or whatever the case may be, like trying to get some pointers. Like, is she, is that it? Is she's it? And a friend was like, "Yeah, she's nice, she's okay," or whatnot.
Yeah. What did Molly say when you confronted him?
Ooh Lord. Got onto that one knee and just was like, "Ah." So he told me like he met her somewhere and it started off like that.
How long y'all been together?
For 8 years.
8 years. And how many kids do y'all have together? 2 kids. Okay then. And at what point in this relationship did he do this?
This just happened.
So this is recent?
Yeah, November 2023.
Oh, 2023. Okay, got it. And how old are your kids?
5 and 7.
5 and 7, okay. Okay, so was this a one-time affair or did you find out that he might be doing more?
This was the first time. We was perfect. The picture-perfect family. Like, we take trips, we are very active with our kids. Like, we're it. We're that family. So for it to happen, like, for that to, it was just like unbelievable. Like, it just was like, just unbelievable. I still can't believe it.
So was the cheating over when you found the messages?
To my extent, yeah. Because he's a like, don't get me wrong, he's a great dad. He's a great person. To me it was like sincere kind of, but I wouldn't know.
But the trust got broken.
Yeah, oh.
And that's why you're here.
Big time, yeah.
That makes sense to me. When did Molly start accusing you of cheating though?
Huh. I'm from New Orleans, so Mardi Gras time. It was like around February. He cheated in November, I found out.
I didn't know she was from New Orleans until she said New Orleans, then you heard the accent, right?
Yeah, baby.
'Cause I love that New Orleans accent.
Straight from New Orleans.
Okay.
It was around Mardi Gras time and that season is like February. So it was a lot going on around that time. So he just took it upon himself and just was like, "Oh, you might be doing something too." Or you might, you know.
So this is a couple months after you've forgiven him.
Yep.
Now he starts accusing you.
Yep.
And my producer told me that he starts following you places.
Karamo. Karamo. It's giving stalker and I know you.
Yeah.
Like, how? And I know you.
I know you.
I can't do anything. Like, I cannot, like, I could be washing her hair, he's right there. I could be using the bathroom, he's around the corner. Like, you know, like he's like insinuating like I'm just, just cheater now. Like, and I'm not. You are actually the cheater. 'Cause you never found anything with me. Like, you get what I'm saying?
Well, let me, I gotta ask you directly. Hold on, we gotta ask directly 'cause I've been gooped on this show where we seen this and all of a sudden we unlock your phone and you got. So I'm gonna ask you directly, have you ever cheated on Molly? Never once?
No.
Okay then. So how has all this affected the children? 'Cause a 5-year-old and a 7-year-old.
It's taken a huge toll on them, Karamo. 'Cause they're so used to mom and dad. They think we rich. They're so used to trips. They're so used to just, they're just so used to everything. And the whole year just been depressing, sad. We didn't do anything. We didn't take no trip. We didn't do anything. And then me with my infidelity, with accusing him and everything, caused him to lose his job.
Why did that cause him to lose his job?
'Cause I was coming to the job, like I was, yeah, I was trying to figure it out. Like, you're accusing me so much, what could you still be doing? You get what I'm saying? Yeah. Like, what is it? And it drove me crazy.
Are you still intimate?
Yeah, we are. It's getting better than it was before. 'Cause you know, I became—
Yeah, you was like, I'm done. Yeah.
Like, it was that, but it's— It's getting better.
So do you still wanna be with him?
Yes, of course. Of course. I've always been in a two-parent household. I believe in that.
You want that. Yeah, you want that. Okay then. Well, it's time to hear what Molly has to say about all this. So everyone please welcome Molly to the show. How you doing? Thanks for being here.
How you doing?
Yeah, good. Take a seat for me. Oh, nice to meet you, sir. So how do you feel about what was just said?
It's a lot.
Yeah.
It's a lot.
Yeah.
Yes. Coming from her, it's my partner that I want to marry. Like, my life partner.
This your life partner?
Yes. Okay.
So, well, if it's your life partner, you made a choice. It was a bad choice. Tell me about the time you cheated on her.
Yeah, we was going through a lot. We wasn't having sex, we wasn't doing anything. It was like a big turn from what I was used to from our 8 years that we've been together, our 2 kids.
'Cause I'm doing the math right here. Y'all been together for 8 years, so y'all got together when you were 19?
Yeah.
Yeah, so 19 years old, you get together and then you immediately have a kid. A 7-year-old, and then you get another one who's a 5-year-old. So you have toddlers in the house. So I'm sure you were overwhelmed.
Yes.
Yeah. So during that time when she was overwhelmed, you felt neglected?
Yes.
So why did you end things with the other woman? Is it only because she caught you or just 'cause you just knew?
No, it was just me. It was like, you seeing another woman. I've been with her for 8 years, so I know all her tendencies.
Yeah.
Figuring someone else out is hard for a man.
That's what they say.
It is.
Why are you accusing her of cheating? Do you have any proof of that? Or what is it that's making you think she's cheating?
It was guys. I was seeing numbers I was finding and I was texting the guys.
Boy, you is lying.
And I would ask her and it would be a whole different story. She'd cut everything off.
Got it.
Like she doesn't wanna talk about it or anything.
So did you have other guys' numbers in your phone?
No, I mean, no. If it is other guys' numbers in my phone, it's only, I take 'em down and like, that's it. Like, that's it. And I don't even really, see, I'm a pretty girl, so I don't believe I'm just gonna bite at everything or anything that bites at me. No, if it's potential, maybe, or if not, that's it.
So you have been entertaining guys who hit on you?
No, I don't entertain guys that hit on me. I mean, He says other guys' numbers in her phone. There have been instances where he's seen other guys' number, but it's been no more than that.
Got it. So were the numbers there before he cheated or were these numbers, did you collect these guys' numbers after he cheated?
After.
After.
Yeah, girl. I mean, like, I ain't doing that.
Okay, so that gives context. So after this happened, it's like you said y'all were in a dark place and so you would get a number, but you never entertained one of them.
Never entertained them.
And now that's why you also want her phone unlocked because you wanna know what's going on with these dudes.
Exactly.
Unlock it. Okay. Exactly, exactly.
You the cheater.
Okay, well, you told our unlock the phone investigators that you want to know if Karlie is talking to any of her exes, if Karlie is messing with any guys on social media, and if Karlie is badmouthing you to other people.
Yes.
Well, I think it's time to unlock the phone. All right, so Karlie, we unlocked your phone. Here we go. Molly, you wanna know if Karlie is talking to any of her exes. Karlie says she is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched her texts and found Karlie is telling the truth. There was no text between Karlie and any of the ex that you told us about. Told you. Molly, you wanna know if Karlie is messaging any guys on social media. Karlie says she is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched her DMs and found Karlie is telling the truth. She has not messaged any males on social media. All right, Molly, you wanna know if Karlie is badmouthing you to any other people. Karlie says she is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched her phone and found Karlie's still telling the truth. We did not find any messages of her We did not find any messages, both in the contact and deleted, of her badmouthing you.
No badmouth. I would never, 'cause you're a great dad.
You're a great dad. Actually, there was a lot of that, talking about you're a great father. How does it make you feel knowing that she's not doing nothing?
Kinda happy.
Kinda happy?
Well, I am happy, but you know how I am. I am.
Does he know me? He knows. He knows my character. He knows my— I love you very much. That's why I'm just so confused on as to why are you accusing me? 'Cause what could you be doing?
Well, we unlocked your phone. Molly, we unlocked your phone. All right, Karlie, you wanna know if Molly is still in contact with the woman he cheated with. Molly says he is not. My Unlock the Phone investigators searched the texts and found that Molly is telling the truth.
Oh! You already know.
We did not find any contact between him and this other woman. Karlie, you wanna know if Molly is messaging any other women. Molly says he is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched his DMs and found that Molly is telling the truth. We did not find any messages between him and any other women.
I know, I know for sure.
Carly, you wanna know if Molly is being unfaithful at all. Molly says he is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched his apps and found that Molly is not telling the truth. We found 7 searches on his phone for dating websites. And this is the thing that I found most disturbing reading this is that you also have been Googling tips on how to cheat on your girlfriend.
What?
What? That's what, why you looking at her saying what? You Googled that. We go through Google searches too.
Man, you thought it would've been how not to cheat.
It's how to cheat on your girlfriend. So why did you Google how to cheat on your girlfriend?
It probably was a—
Probably was a what?
An error?
Yeah.
No.
I was trying to—
Trying to—
How do women cheat?
Oh, okay.
I was trying to put how do women cheat.
How do you know your woman is cheating?
He flaked too much. How you gonna get where a woman cheat from? How do you cheat on your girlfriend to how do women cheat? Like the things that are in that sentence are not in the same. Like, okay, no, this is serious. This is serious now because you're not in contact with any women, but clearly there's something that is still going on with you where you have a desire to figure out if you wanna be with another woman. You gotta talk honestly right now because you have a woman here that is faithful, that is loving, that has been with you since she was in her teens.
After the cheating, I changed everything.
Yeah.
But it made it worse.
But that's not my fault that it made it worse.
It is.
I tried.
The responsibility also, the responsibility, let me help you out. Okay. Responsibility starts and ends with you in this situation because as we've seen, she's not done anything. And before this matter, she was trying to do her best to maintain, be the best mother and girlfriend to you that she could be. All of this was in a desire to build a great family. Family for you and you broke that. I want you to imagine like if you're sitting somewhere and you have a house and somebody come and you build the house up and then they knocked it down, that's their fault. And so even though the other person now is saying, okay, I'm gonna be with you while you rebuild it, there's still gonna be some things 'cause they don't like the memories in this house are not the same anymore. You did that.
Thank you. Yes.
And the thing is it takes time for that to heal.
To heal.
And the thing that makes that heal is not accusations, not following her, not saying that you're doing something. What makes that heal is saying to her, I'm gonna show up for you. I'm gonna show you how much I love you. I'm gonna have actions to be there for you. But you're doing the opposite of that because what you're expecting is for her to be on your timeline of healing. You're expecting her to be on your time. No, truth be told, it is. But that's not gonna happen. 'Cause you have to change more. You have to show up for her. I know you changed your actions, but you have to show up for her.
You did it to me.
You did it to her. You see that?
And it's hurting our kids in the midst of everything. Like, you know, we love them. Like, you know, they everything. Like, we're super mom, we're super dad. Like, it can't go on.
What is it that you feel that you need?
I really don't know. Like, I just need, Support.
But see, that's such a blanket statement. And to somebody who's already overwhelmed with kids, life, and also a man that cheated on her, you can't just say, I need support. I'm gonna tell you this. You have a woman here who has a discernment of love and faith and so much greatness in her. If you really want this to work, you should figure out what is it that you need. Because this is a woman who's gonna say, I can figure out for us to be able to figure that out. But as you're figuring that out, you need to really ask her what she needs. I want you to turn to your lady right now and say, I commit.
I commit.
To asking you.
To asking you.
What you need. What you need. To rebuild this trust. To rebuild this trust.
We'll see.
Does that work for you?
Yeah. We'll see.
Yeah. I mean, at least you know that he's not doing anything.
Right.
At least you know that. I mean, Google search, don't do that stupid shit yet, okay? Like.
You're a man, you have to figure out what's up.
You ain't gotta figure out how to cheat on your girlfriend. No, no, you have to ask questions. Different questions. That ain't the question to ask in Google, OK? I'm letting you know that is not the question to ask Google. But listen, I wish y'all the best of luck, all right? Instead of doing all this internet searching, you need to do some soul searching, all right? All right, there you go. All right, I wish y'all the best of luck, all right? Y'all going to be all right. I want y'all family to work out. I really do. All right, friends, stay with us. We'll be right back with more.
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