My Girlfriend Destroyed My Car & Thinks I'm Cheating! | KARAMO

My guest Greg has been with Gabby for 3 years and he says the trust is gone. She is constantly accusing him of cheating, destroyed 2 of his computers and did this to his car, my producer said. Roll the tape, y'all.

Stupid ass.

Oh, oh, oh, oh, we got a lot to unpack. But first, we're unlocking folds today to get to the truth. So everyone, please welcome Greg to the show to hear his side of the story. What's up, Greg? How you doing, man?

All right, how are you?

Nice to meet you.

I'm acting like a fella, you too.

So that was your car?

Yes.

Oh Jesus.

Yes.

Okay, so what happened with the car? I gotta start with that.

Well, basically she was trying to get it. She had found out, seen some stuff on the internet that she didn't like. I was outta town, I was in Chicago visiting my brother. She seen an old post on my Instagram story and she just went off. So when I came back, she came back to my house banging on the door. She had already been sending me text messages.

Yeah.

So I was like, I'm not about to get into all of the drama like right now. Yeah, yeah, all of that.

You told me the old post. Don't skip over that.

The old, the old post was my ex.

Okay.

And you know how on Facebook, you know, on Facebook they see like something that's old, like from 2 or 3 years ago, if you want to reshare. So it got reshared. It— I reshared it, but it wasn't no like Send the middle thing.

Well, now you know you being messy. Why you reshared it if you with your girl?

Why you reshared it? Yeah, so it was—

This is not to excuse, hold on, that's not to excuse her doing that to your car.

No, no, but this is why she did it and I wouldn't let her come in the house. So I ain't let her come in the house in order to argue with it. So she like, oh, you ain't gonna come out? All right, I'm about to go handle your car.

Okay, let me take it back then. So how did y'all meet?

I met her in Miami.

And I wanna know what do you love about her?

The way that she make me feel, like, you know, as a woman, like her personality, when it comes, she got great qualities about herself. You know what I mean? As far as my previous relationship, it was different by dealing with her. So she helped me overcome my previous situation by the mental health that we was having. We used to, you know, go on walks. She wanna know how my day was going. She was checking on me. She was checking on more or less of a mental health thing versus just trying to figure out you know what I mean, me or the, you know what I mean, the negative stuff from getting to know me. Okay, she's sincere. On the different type of levels, she was trying to get to know me for me.

Get to know you for you, for you. How much did it cost you, by the way, to get that car cleaned up?

Oh, it was a lot.

Yeah, I can imagine, 'cause she did it on the inside and out.

Yeah, on the inside, and she soaked it all around, poured it in the heater, in the AC, and all of that.

When did she start accusing you of cheating?

She started accusing me of cheating when I went back to Ohio. I went to Ohio 'cause I had a show out there. Because I'm a celebrity DJ. So I got booked out in Ohio. So when that happened, that's when things kind of went left.

So what do you think the problem is in the relationship then?

Jealousy. Jealousy. You know what I mean? Jealousy of like my career, things of what I do that I have no control of. I don't have control over women sliding in my DM. I don't have no control over these women telling me, "Oh, you look good." So when these women are sliding into your DM, do you respond? A lot of times I don't.

So why not just not open any of 'em and that way she knows like there's nothing? And I'm just asking.

I mean, she's still going to, regardless of the fact if I open 'em or respond back, she still gonna have something to say.

Got it, okay. Have you cheated?

In the past.

In the past.

In the past.

How long have y'all been together?

3 years.

And in those 3 years, how many times did you cheat?

It was just one, but it was with the same situation I was dealing with while I was dealing with her.

Is that, could that be the ex that you reshared?

Yes.

Oh, so you was— See how we all had to connect them dots together? Okay.

Yeah.

I heard she also destroyed your computer. Is that true?

Yes, two of 'em.

Two computers?

Yes, two computers. I was outta town doing a show. Another post, this was a post ain't have nothing to do pertaining with nobody I've slept with, dealt with, or anything. I do business with a lot of models. A lot of celebrities, so they'll send me stuff, so I post it. So she automatically think, 'cause she bad or the chick look good, "Oh yeah, you sleeping with her? She doing this and that. Oh, this your little side thing?" No, just because you walked into a situation with me as a side chick and I was dealing with somebody and you knew, that don't mean that I'm out here doing the side thing, side chick things too at the same time. So no, I wasn't, it wasn't that. When I met her— Did you just call your girl a side chick? At the time she was. At the time she was, so you gotta rectify, I was in the situation when I got with her.

Okay.

And I let her know like what was going on and she chose to continue to stick around and deal with me while I dealt with that. But I told her I was in the process of closing that chapter.

And but she still stayed around.

And she still stuck around.

But do you think she's with other men?

Yes.

Why?

Because she moved to Atlanta. You know how it work and how Atlanta rock, you know what I mean? The nightlife, all of that, so. Me and her, she moved to Atlanta and we wasn't communicating when she moved down there. So I don't know what you was doing, you know what I mean, since you've been down there. So that's why I like, yeah, I wanna unlock your phone and see what's going on. I wanna know if you been having sex with any of these dudes, going on dates with anybody. I don't wanna look crazy, you come out with me. If you gonna be dealing with somebody, stay over there with that, baby. I can go on with my life this way.

[Speaker:KARAMO] Got it, okay. So is that why y'all took a break earlier this year?

[Speaker] Yes, that was one of the main reasons why we took a break. It was just too toxic.

When did you reconcile?

I wanna say about a month ago.

A month ago?

Yeah, about a month ago.

And at that time, what happened?

You said, "Let's try to make this work." Well, we had a conversation when she found out that I was officially moved to Atlanta. I said, "I think that we should reconnect and reunite as friends to get to know—" That's something. "To know what we going on before we proceed forward." Good job, Karamo. "And I wanna know like what you've been doing or who you've been involved with. You can't like make me look stupid." You can't walk this path with me if I don't know that you really for me. Got it. All right.

Well, I think it's time to hear Gabby's side of the story. So everyone, please welcome Gabby to the show. Hello. Hey, Gabby.

Hi. I'm sorry you had to listen to all those lies, Karamo. That is nothing compared to what happened. Okay. That is not the truth.

Okay, okay.

He popped up to my house a few months ago and told me, you better not be dating anybody in Atlanta. If I find out you're dating somebody in Atlanta, it's gonna be me and him, okay? I did not come to him. I did not chase him. It's not true?

Nah, you definitely was chasing me. How am I getting screenshots of the shit that I'm doing and I'm not dealing with you? Why are you sending me screenshots of screenshots?

I sent him screenshots because he's messaging me. Oh, I miss you. I wanna get back together. What are you doing? I wanna see you. So if you're messaging me, I wanna see you, then why are you posting other naked females on your story?

These girls ain't naked. So I screenshot and sent it to him. These people that work for you, These people that want me to promote their page or promote their business, I can't help that these girls look good. Or if they're attracted to me, I can't help this shit.

Lies. At all. That's your own infidelity.

That's your own insecurity. My own insecurity? Yeah, if I tell you that I love you or if I wanna be with you or if I wanna fuck with you, my other girls ain't got nothing to do with nothing. You know what I mean? You can stop.

Let me ask you this though. And I'm with you. Let me ask you this though. All that aside, why did you vandalize his car?

Because he was playing with me. He said he was going to Chicago and he, I don't know if he did or not. He said his brother was sick and he went to go see. He definitely did. Okay. But then when I went to go check to see if he did go to Chicago, he went with his ex.

So it wasn't just about a post.

It was definitely about a post. It was a question.

Well, no, she said you also travel with your ex.

Never did I travel with her ex. She got posted, so she automatically assumed that the girl was there and the girl and I in fact traveled to Chicago.

You tagged Chicago. I'm in Chicago. The DJ says to me, welcome to Chicago. Hello? So what does that mean?

And that's where she lives? Well, how do you know he went with her? They posted pictures together. Oh. Yes. Old pictures. Old pictures. So while in Chicago, you then posted old photos of you and your ex. I reshared. You reshared old photos. Shared, reshared, right?

Yes. Reshared, okay.

I mean, it do sound a little fishy.

But at the same time, it was not about really about being fishy. I posted it being petty. Because we had prior argument prior to that.

Well, thank you for owning that.

Okay, that's what, okay. So I was actually, it wasn't no thing about, oh, I like to—

So he was trying to trigger you.

Exactly.

So that's why he got the yum yum sauce, okay? Okay. And he gonna get soy sauce too next. Oh, okay.

Do you believe he put a tracking device on your car?

I do, I do. Okay, did you put a tracking device?

I had to, I don't know her. I'm in Miami. I'm in Miami, I'm just not meeting somebody. I got stuff going on. Why wouldn't I know, wanna know where you is? At all times or what the fuck that you're next to. Girls lie though. Girls lie. How many of these rappers or other Black Americans go out here dating these girls and then you come back, take her to the crib, and she got 3, 4 other niggas busting in, killing you, or this or that because you not knowing what's going on. No, I'm never not gonna know what's going on or who I'm there dealing with.

Don't put me and the rest of the Black folks in that category. I don't know what you talking about there.

I don't know what you talking about. I'm out, okay? But you ain't dating in Miami though. You ain't dating in Miami though.

Okay, okay. Let me ask you this. Do you feel like he still lies to you?

Obviously, of course, every day.

I understand, okay. Not at all, not at all.

That's over, that was days ago.

So why do you think he's cheating then? 'Cause he told me why he thinks you're cheating.

Well, number one is how we met. Like I said, we met in Miami. He was dealing with somebody. They were taking a break at the time when me and him met. Got it.

Atlanta too. And why do you think he's accusing you?

Because he's the one with the insecurities. He's projecting it on me.

So you wanna lock his phone as well. If we find something, what are you gonna do?

I'm done. What's the point? It's been 3 years. Got it.

Well, it's time to unlock the phone.

Unlock, unlock, unlock, unlock, unlock, unlock.

Gabby, we unlocked your phone. Okay. Gabby, you refuse for us to look at your phone. I refuse.

That's crazy as shit though. But you all down my neck about it, but you won't unlock your shit though. That's crazy though.

So if you're looking for transparency, if this was his way of showing you that he's gonna do by unlocking his, why don't you do the same for him?

Because she hiding shit. She got hoes.

I'm not hiding anything.

How would he know that? How would he know that?

He reached out to me. He wants to know. About me, right? So I want to know if this is serious between me and you. We've done this for 3 years. Like I said, you had somebody when I came into the picture. So I wanna make sure I'm the only picture.

To make sure that there was, before we flip it, to make sure that it's like, hey, we're gonna start on the same page. I unlock mine, you unlock yours, we can move forward with answers and clarity. But now, you know, there's always gonna be a shred of doubt in his mind.

Yes. Yeah, and then right now at this point, it's not like, it's the perfect time to open, unlock your phone. 'cause it ain't like we together, so none of this shit gonna count anyway. I don't care about it, I just wanna know what's going on.

Okay. I hear him. Well, Greg, we unlocked your phone. Unlock, unlock, unlock. My note, my unlock the phone investigator has a note here that he wanted me to make sure. He noticed that when we unlocked Greg's phone, that you have 40,109 contacts in your phone and between text now apps. That's probably one of the most amount of contacts we have ever found. Yeah. You can't be texting that many people. Like, that's a lot of contacts. All right, well listen, but let's get to it. Gabby, you want to know if Greg is messaging any other women. Greg says he's not. My unlocked phone investigator searched his texts and found that Greg is not telling the truth. He has 2,900 deleted texts. Uh-huh. 2,628 deleted texts with a woman named [MASKED]. Oh, okay. And he also found 272 deleted interactions with a woman named [MASKED]. Mm. Now obviously you know what these texts are about with these women.

Exactly, exactly, exactly.

Yeah, why would you wanna know?

Before nothing. Before her. Nothing. It wasn't before nothing. Mm-hmm, okay.

Gabi, you want to know if Greg has any sexually explicit photos in his phone. Greg says he does not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched his photos and found he is not telling the truth. We found 6 sexually explicit photos in his hidden videos. Oh. Before you.

No. No. Before you. It wasn't before me.

Before you. That's a new phone.

So you know where all of this is just all during the time y'all were together.

Yes. That's a new phone, Karamo. I'm aware.

And during the time that that you're asking that y'all been separated. Right, right. Exactly. So you can't use excuse.

No, no, it's fine. But we weren't together. Ain't no excuse. We weren't together. That's what I'm telling you guys. We ain't together. So we admitted, we putting everything on the line of what the hell I got going on right now currently before we even step into something. So it is what it is. Gabby, you know what I got going on?

No, I don't. Now I do.

Now I do. Gabby, you want to know if Greg is messaging other women. Greg says, He is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched his apps and found that he is not telling the truth. He has conversation going on with 34 women on IG that start out, are you single?

Oh.

So what about those? Ralph, can I see?

Are you single?

And just let you know, my investigator is just let our producers know this has only been the last 2 months. The videos in the hidden folder and this. So the things we're actually giving you in the last 2 months.

Yeah, right.

So if you're trying to rebuild the relationship, that was a time when you were saying you want transparency. Exactly.

And that's them 2 months you was out doing your thing.

No, I wasn't. Yeah, them 2 months.

It's just constant girls, yo, you single? Good morning, you single? You single? Why am I here?

Hey, the client put it there to show you to put everything on the line. What you do, you copy and paste this? Yes, probably. You single.

But these are all girls you work with, right? You single. These are all people that DM you pictures. I don't see no DMs from pictures from them asking you to promote. Yeah, none of that. These just regular chicks.

I don't see that. These is regular chicks.

I don't see people asking you to promote shit. These is regular chicks. I don't see that. But none of this is in your business. I don't see no art videos.

Yeah, but none of this is in your business. That's none of my business. Yeah, because we wasn't together. Well, how's it none of the business? Because we wasn't together.

You said you trying to get together. We trying to get together, right? He popped up at my house a few months ago saying that he wants to get back together. So what's the point of this then?

Hey, like I said, you weren't being truthful to me, so I— Truthful to you?

For what? Look at this. 40,000, 3,000, 6 photos, 34 apps. That's a lot of applications to go through.

I mean, I know a lot of people. I mean, I'm not— Hold on.

That's a lot of apps to go through.

Hold on one second, 'cause my producers are telling me right now that they have, let me, am I reading this correctly? You have security footage of Gabby from yesterday that y'all want me to look at? Okay, let me see. What is this? What is the security footage?

No, he has it blocked. So I have this, shh, don't tell 'em, this is from a fake page that I have following you. That's a fake page right there. Like, you could go on this Facebook and see right now talking about some, I'm single, let's fuck, I'm gonna make my complex.

Oh, so did you know that she was creating fake pages just to track your behavior?

Yeah, hell yeah. She been having fake pages since I met her.

And this is why I follow you. I'm blocking regular shit.

I'm blocking everything else. When we're separated, when we ain't got shit going on and she going her way, going her way, why do you need to be stalking her, being on my page or worried about what I'm doing? So tell them about that, bro. And she come up with the lies.

But when you first come into those pages, does he engage with the fake pages? Does he engage? No, 'cause I don't engage.

Got it. I'm not engaging.

She just used that just to stalk, Karamo. I'm not stalking. That's her stalking. So putting a tracking device on me is not stalking? I had to figure out what's going on with you. Oh, okay.

Really? You had to figure out what's going on? But listen, after all of this, you don't have to worry about no yum yum sauce no more, no duck sauce, no yolk, no, none of that. No, that's it. You ain't gotta worry about me no more.

It's the best thing 'cause at the end of the day, there's no transparency and there's no foundation here. From the beginning, you came in and the trust was broken. The best thing y'all can do for each other is leave each other alone and work on yourselves individually. And the thing is that, how old are you again? [Speaker] 36. [Speaker] 36. Time is gonna get you really quickly. You think it's cool right now, you DJing, you doing all this stuff, everybody whoop-de-whoop coming around you, but guess what? That's gonna slow down. And when you're not the DJ, when you don't have what you have now, when things are, these ladies is gone. And then you're gonna be looking for someone who can see you. And I think when she first met her, the words outta your mouth is that she saw me. She didn't want anything else. So I know there's some piece of you that wants that connection, that wants somebody who's gonna value you as a man, but you gotta value that woman equally as well.

Yes, sir.

But again, not to reiterate, work on your self-esteem because something about your self-worth is bringing you back to a man who you know is not going to do right. And this is a big one. No man who truly loves you ever gonna put you in a situation where you're the side chick in the beginning.