My Husband Is A Cheating Alcoholic with Erectile Dysfunction! | KARAMO

Von drinks way too much.

I caught Twyla cheating at a hotel.

Von does not sexually satisfy me.

I caught her cheating at a friend's house.

He cheated on me with an ex.

She's telling a coworker that she wants to sleep with him.

He's messaging skinnier women on social media, and baby, I'm a BBW.

She put a tractor in the trunk of my car.

He messaged a prostitute.

Girl, what is going on? Okay, y'all, clearly there are some trust issues here that are going on in this relationship. So we're unlocking both of their phones today. Okay, we gonna talk to Vaughn a little later, but first, welcome Twyla to the show.

Hello.

Girl, what is going on?

It is a mess, Karamo.

I see.

A mess, an absolute mess. The alcohol, everything, everything's going on in our marriage, the alcohol, and I cheated because I'm, baby, we can't do nothing. If you out here drinking and you intoxicated and can't get it up, what we supposed to do?

So how long y'all been married?

We've been married 4 years.

4 years? And when did the drinking start?

It always was there. It was a red flag from the beginning, but he told me he quit and he didn't. And then what really like set it over the limit for me, he peed in my bed. Yeah.

Okay, okay. So this is from the beginning that this has all been happening?

Right.

Okay. Did you catch him cheating?

I never technically caught him with another woman, no. But like messages, yeah.

Oh, got it. So what's the first time Nevon caught you cheating? I'm sorry.

At the hotel.

At the hotel?

Yeah, with my baby daddy.

Okay, and did you continue cheating after that?

I did continue cheating after that. I kept talking to him and telling him, "Baby, if you can't get it up, then we can't get down." So he's had this erectile dysfunction since the beginning? Since the very beginning.

Okay. So what happened when you caught COVID?

I was in a coma for about 6 weeks.

Oh my gosh.

And he took care of me. He went through my phone and I gave him the code so he can get in for my kids' things to get school clothes. And my kids' father sent me a video of his penis and he brought the phone to the hospital and he showed me.

While you in a coma, girl?

Like I was just getting better, but I still couldn't do anything for myself. And he showed me the video. Karamo, yes, he showed me the video.

No, girl, not outta a coma, girl. He showing you the video.

Fresh out the coma, Karamo. Fresh out the coma. And you know, I'm teary-eyed, but like, what am I supposed to do?

What you supposed to do right now? Yeah, I hear you.

I couldn't do nothing.

What is the reason in your mind that you keep cheating so much?

His penis. His penis, the drinking, and he swear he's not an alcoholic, but he is.

Got it. When did you first realize Vaughn's drinking problem?

When he peed in my bed. He was standing up telling me he didn't pee in my bed, but who, somebody pour water on it? His pants was wet up and so was my bed. It was a puddle.

And how often is he drinking?

At least 5 days a week.

5 days a week.

Sometimes it's 7.

Is he keeping bottles around the house?

Baby, do he? 'Cause baby, he got his own personal collection. You ain't gotta go nowhere. Everybody can get a drink.

Got it. Y'all got kids together?

We do not have kids together.

Got it. And are you still cheating on Vaughn right now?

Absolutely not.

Got it, okay. So you stopped right now?

I stopped, but if today is just, if we can't fix this, I think it's time for us to, you know, we can end as friends, but there's nothing else we can do. We caused so much hurt on each other.

Yeah, has Vaughn ever cheated on you?

He text that prostitute and he trying to tell me that ain't what the message said, but I can read now. If you telling her you don't need no hour, you just need 30 minutes, Baby, what you, and then you setting up prices and then you was gonna sleep with her at our house if I never came back home. Yeah, so, and then a few weeks ago he was texting people. So I mean, and then he texting women that don't look nothing like me. He's texting a smaller frame woman, baby, I am nothing but hips, hips, dents, curves, and heels. And baby, you gotta know what you getting when you got it.

Yes, okay, I hear you. Well, how do you feel about what was just said?

Oh man. What did you say again?

She said that you're an alcoholic, that you have erectile dysfunction, that you pay for prostitutes. I wasn't trying to be messy. I was just like giving the facts.

You tough. You tough.

That's what you told her she was tough.

Ooh. I like that.

How do you feel about that?

Well, I mean, Some of it's true, you know what I'm saying?

Which ones?

Not all of it.

Which ones?

Not all of it.

Well, what's not true?

The drinking is true.

Oh, okay, yeah.

Yeah, you know, I might get off and then take a little while to get back up.

A little while?

Yeah, a little while, you know.

No, baby, it don't be no little while.

It don't be none of that. I might even go to sleep.

Do you feel like there's issues with your sex life?

No, it's not issues with it, you know.

It's definitely issues with our sex life.

It's issues with our sex life?

It's definitely.

Okay.

How can you not, how can you say that? You don't feel like there's no issue with our sex life at all?

No, none, no. Oh, absolutely.

It's absolutely good.

I mean, you right when you're the one getting everything, right?

You right, okay. You right.

So when you're getting everything and I'm getting nothing, you right. It's absolutely good in your eyes, but in my eyes it's not.

You right, you right, you right, you right.

So I'm gonna ask you this. Why are you still married to a woman who cheats on you so much?

Well, I love her and I would like to see the relationship last, you know what I'm saying?

So tell me about the messages that you found on Twyla's phone last month.

Wow. Yeah, so you know, she's wanting to sex a gentleman's mind first and then sex his body.

That's—

So—

Okay.

Yeah, explain that.

With all regards to that message, I did say that, but I didn't word it correctly. You texting and I said, he was asking me something, but I was like, no baby, I'm not saying that's what I want to do to him. I was just saying, no baby, first you gotta, first you gotta set your mind. And you know what I'm saying? Then that part comes later.

Oh, so you intended to just tell him to get himself right first?

I wasn't saying get himself right. I'm just saying.

What'd you just say?

I'm saying in general, it's not about you going to have sex with somebody. Sometimes you gotta stimulate they mind to get to that point. That's what I was trying to say. But you took it as if I'm trying to meet him next week, we at the job doing stuff. None of that. The man ain't got no legs for one. It was not even like that.

Okay, okay.

It wasn't even like that.

Okay, okay.

It wasn't like that. It was just, and then he like the sugar daddy of the warehouse. You know he wanna talk, make people feel good.

Hold on.

You know, I wanna make, you know, we just kept conversating.

Come on, come on out.

Okay, let me ask you this, and this is all sincerity because I understand the dysfunction when it comes to sex in your relationship, but I think there's a bigger issue that y'all have here. Do you believe you have a drinking problem?

No.

Okay, I'm gonna ask you again. Do you think you have a drinking problem?

Honestly, no.

Okay, because the reason I'm saying this, because my producers are telling me there's a video that they need me to see that you brought.

Fine. It's lush, it's beautiful, and it's infused with coconut oil right out the middle.

Fine. All y'all want it, man. Fine.

Y'all put all that money.

You done dropped all that food on the floor.

You don't be having no money for your rent.

Excuse you.

How many of you done went to sleep with a plate in your hand and just dropped the plate? You know?

How many of you, how many of you probably drunk a whole bottle of liquor and then have the plate in your lap and you drop it and then somebody telling you to get up, you got food all over my good rug. Baby.

Okay.

You have a drinking problem, that's my biggest thing.

So I wonder how much or how often do you drink?

On the weekend?

A lot now.

On the weekends, I might—

It's definitely not on no weekend. Quit that line.

What do you mean? Per day, do you have one bottle?

No, no, no, no, no, no.

Half a bottle?

No, no, no.

A fourth of a bottle?

I'll probably drink a beer and a shot or two.

But you just was finna say the weekend now.

Yeah, but the weekend.

Okay, okay.

But it's not every day that, you know that?

What do you do on the weekend?

Oh, I enjoy myself.

Oh, he get ratchet.

Yeah. Like what do you do? How much? A bottle?

Nah, it don't be a bottle. It'd probably be like a half.

Half a bottle.

Yeah. Amongst others.

No. Yeah. Absolutely not. Absolutely not. You not gonna tell that lie.

All right.

You would drink a whole bottle of liquor and everybody else might got they own or you might give a shot or two away out that bottle. But baby, you definitely killing that whole bottle. You definitely killing that whole bottle and you drink, and you drinking beer.

You honestly gonna? Agree to that, that I'm gonna drink the whole bottle.

You will drink the whole bottle if you are not stopped.

Okay.

Twyla, do you ever drink with him?

Very rare.

Yeah.

Very rare. I'll take a shot, but baby, this much right here get me through. So I can't even, his type of fun, I can't have his type of fun.

Well listen, clearly y'all came each other here because y'all both have some issues and you wanted to get each other's phones. So I think it's time to unlock the phone. Von, we unlocked your phone.

Okay.

Are you ready for this?

I am.

All right, Twyla, you want to know if Von was visiting an ex when he was out of town.

Visiting an ex.

Von says he was not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched his GPS and found that Von Von is telling the truth. He did not visit his ex's house while he was away. All right, Twyla, you also wanna know if Von has been communicating with any other woman. Von says he has not. My unlock the phone investigator searched his texts and found that Von is telling the truth. We weren't able to find any inappropriate texts. Now this is outside the ones you know about, by the way. These are outside the ones you know about.

Okay.

Yes, these are not, and we saw all of those things, but you're asking for new women, if there's any new women that he's communicating with, and that's what we're finding here. Twyla, you want to know if Von has been buying sex pills outside the time you saw it. Von says he is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched his emails and found, he's telling the truth, that Von is telling the truth. He has no recent orders for sex pills, although, He did have an active subscription.

Oh.

Okay. But there was no place or no place. All right, so how do you feel about that?

I feel good about it.

Uh-huh, okay, okay.

I was wrong, but baby, you is sneakier than a snake, baby. You slide left, you will come back right. I don't know.

Twyla, we unlocked your phone. Vaughn wants to know if Twyla has been cheating on him with any other men. Twyla, you said you have not. My unlock the phone investigator searched your phone and found that you were not telling the truth. You were texting with another man this month. These texts were deleted 20 minutes before she handed her phone over to our investigator. You know the phone, you know the messages that you deleted?

Yeah.

Okay, you know the message. All right, Vaughn, you want to know if Twyla is cheating on you 'with any other men?' Twyla says she's not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched her DMs and found that Twyla is not telling the truth. She's been communicating with 7 other men who have sent her X-rated photos.

Oh, it ain't back there. Oh, okay.

All right, all right. Vaughn, you wanna know if Twyla's cheating on you with any other men? Twyla says she's not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched her texts and found that Twyla Is not telling the truth. We found 843 texts between her and a man negotiating the prices that she charges for sex.

Oh no.

That wasn't what that was?

No. So what was it then?

Explain it. We have that in the evidence bag. You know what this is?

Yeah, let me see.

I'll show you this.

How can you explain that?

I'm open to see.

No, no, no, no, no, no, no. Let's explain the fact that you still communicating with other guys.

So here it goes right here.

Okay, I was communicating 'cause you was communicating.

So all the ones of you in green, Brooklet, it says, okay, where you're at, $70.

Ooh.

No, damn, I ain't even there, gonna lie. I want that, keeping it all good with the best. Thanks, $70. How much?

No, don't look surprised. Don't look surprised.

Oh, I'm not surprised.

How much? Let me slut you out there.

So these is true though, right?

No boundaries.

No, they're definitely not true, but—

What are they?

Because I'm not gonna tell on my friend.

Your friend?

It's a friend's phone.

Oh, so ain't no, I'm sorry.

Yeah.

A damn friend? It's a friend?

Yeah, I had something to do with it. I was playing with the joke, but it ain't, it's not like that.

Now we're back joking.

Okay, we can call 'em.

We're back joking.

Well, 'cause these are from your phone.

Where's all these damn jokes coming from?

This is from the past while it's phone mobile. And then these are some of the men.

Oh no, that's definitely, oh, we wasn't even together.

Okay. But the other messages—

Yeah, we wasn't together.

These other messages were now.

Yeah, we wasn't together.

But we are together.

Hold on, but this says, these messages say 2023. This says January 2024.

Yeah, we wasn't together in the beginning of January 2024.

2024 we were.

No, we were not together.

We were messing heavily. What are you talking about?

How are we messing heavily? You didn't even spend my birthday with me.

Twyla, stop it, stop it, stop it, stop it, stop it.

Jevon, how was we, we didn't get back together until about March.

Okay.

March or April when we moved to there and to get our house.

It was August 18th, 2024, the soliciting sex/text messages. Yes.

Yeah, that, yeah, that I know what that's about, but that other stuff, that's old.

Okay, so you know about the soliciting sex messages?

Yeah, I know about those.

Okay.

But that was at the end of the day.

We was not together, honey.

But we are together now.

At the end of the day. Yes, and now. So you're claiming that's your friend? Let's just be clear. That's your friend, that's not you? Yeah. Okay, so you let your friend use your phone?

So someone is using your phone?

Yeah, somebody used my phone.

She's lying.

You've already had evidence of this for years.

Right.

We've already had evidence of her cheating on you. You've already been aware. She's been very vocal about the fact that she is unhappy with her sexual relationship and unhappy with your drinking.

Right.

So the question I have for you is, are you willing to get help with your drinking for yourself and then secondly for this relationship?

I am.

You are.

I am.

So can you commit to helping him as well if we gotta help him as well?

Yeah.

Okay, great. Now if that is able to work, the next thing I would say is that you need to have some counseling so that you could talk about really the new boundaries of your relationship because clearly you are not leaving each other. And so I'd be a fool right now to tell you I'd leave each other. Y'all clearly are committed in this relationship for some reason. For some reason. So if you're gonna be committed in this, then y'all need to set new boundaries of what's appropriate or not. Y'all are two consenting adults who have made a decision to stay in a relationship and y'all get to do what y'all want in y'all relationship. The reason y'all are not able to have those open communications is because you've never been able to admit that you had a problem with alcohol. So that's shut down all willingness to have communication and trust.

It does.

But now that you got that, and if you're willing to actually take the steps to get help, then some counseling, and real communication about an open relationship or what y'all want, I think could be healthy. Tell the truth.

Yeah.

Thank you. You as well.

Yeah, I wanna bite her though, but it's all good.

I'm sure, I'm sure, I'm sure. Y'all could soar. Again, I can't be here to judge y'all and tell y'all what to do, but I can tell y'all how to move forward to try to be healthier. All right? Best of luck to y'all. I really do.

Thank you.