My Husband Tried to Bite My Finger Off! | KARAMO

Okay, so what happened the night Taz tried to bite your finger off?

So I was 8 months pregnant with our son.

Yes.

And he had been drinking and normally he only gets aggravated whenever he's drinking. And so we got into a heated argument because his mother's money had come up missing and he thought that I had something to do with it. We kind of split up and then got back together. So during this incident, He was accusing me of being a part of that. And so we had gotten into a little scuffle. I threw a PlayStation at him, he threw it back at me, kept pushing me down to the floor. And so I kept saying, "Taz, please stop, I'm 8 months pregnant." I put my hand up like this right here to kind of stop him from shoving me again. He chomped down on my finger. And I'm saying, "Taz, please let me go," and I'm crying, I'm saying, "Taz, please let me go." And he says, "Shut up, just shut up." He says, "Shut up or else I'll bite the fucking thing off." The police was called out there. During that time, neither one of us pressed charges on each other. A couple months later, I get arrested for domestic violence, second degree. They put it as a second degree because Taza told the officer that I tried to choke him, whenever all I did was try to stop him from shoving me down.

8 months pregnant?

8 months pregnant.

So after that night, let me just be clear, he then, even though y'all didn't press charges that night, he then went back to the police?

No, no. So in the police report, in the police report, he had put that I choked him.

Oh, so when they were reading, the police came back after reading the pull-up.

Right.

Okay. Wow. So when did these issues start between you and Taz?

So Taz and I got together September of 2019. His mother was murdered in March of 2020.

Got it.

So what happened there is Taz started doing drugs and drinking a lot. And his mother had left him a good chump sum of money, and so he was taking that and he was buying whatever he wanted to to try to help him cope with his mother being murdered. The more I tried to help him, the more he resisted.

Got it.

Whenever Taz and I are good, we're good. And so whenever he started doing drugs, I'm not gonna lie, I did a bump every once in a while, you know what I mean? I hit the pipe every once in a while, but it was never a constant thing. He got really, really outta control with it where it continued to be a constant thing to where, you know, he was accusing me of cheating. He grabbed me by my face, shoved me up against the bedroom closet door.

How long does he accuse you of cheating?

How often? All the time.

All the time?

All the time.

And are these violent outbreaks usually accompanied with accusations?

It used to be.

Okay.

It used to be where it would become physical. But I think now as we've matured, Through our marriage, I think that we've kind of learned how to separate ourself. Although there'll be times whenever he tries to entice me to hit him, but I kind of just walk away now instead of, you know, egging it on.

So why do you think Taz has the doubts about this being his baby?

'Cause he always thinks that I'm sneaking around on him or I'm cheating on him or because I've left him so many times that he believes that he's not the father of our son.

Got it. Have you ever cheated on Taz?

No.

Never?

Never.

At all? Okay. In addition to the DNA test, we're also unlocking everyone's phone, correct? 'Cause you told my unlock the, yeah. You told my unlock the phone investigators that you want to know if Taz is talking to other women specifically on TikTok.

Yes.

What's going on there?

So maybe about 8 months ago, I had sent him some money on Cash App. He took my money and he sent it to this girl on TikTok. And the next morning I get up, I get on his TikTok and the girl says, "Good morning, my love." I said, "Hey," I said, "This is Taz's wife." She says, "Well, we can both have him." I said, "I don't get down like that." I got a question for you.

So when she said you can both have him, why didn't you say you can keep him?

Because I love Taz and I keep—

You really love him?

Yeah, and I keep hoping that what we initially had will be that again, which is why I'm here because I need help to salvage my marriage before there's nothing left to salvage.

I understand. So we are also unlocking your phone so you can prove to Taz that you are not cheating.

Right.

Okay then. Well, it's time to hear from Sierra's husband. So everyone, please welcome Taz to the show. Did you really try to bite off Sierra's finger?

Yeah, I gripped ahold of it.

Yes.

But I didn't try to bite it off, honestly.

But you had a tight grip on her finger.

She done scratched my eye up.

Why though? Because you was poking me in my face and I kept saying, "Taz, stop. Taz, stop." So yeah, I reached back up and I did like that and I accidentally jabbed you in your eye.

You still do. So you, she still does it now to this day. You know what I mean? And instead of getting physical, I say my little words and—

You walk away.

Emotionally. But it's not just little words. Like he'll call me a thot, he'll call me a bitch, he'll tell me I'm stank.

So what makes you think that Sierra's been unfaithful though?

I can go to the bathroom for 5 minutes and she'll be on the phone before I leave the room and she'll have a little smirk as soon as she know I'm there, put her phone down and then that's the end of that. And then she'll walk off to finish what she was doing in the room now that I'm in that room.

Got it.

But that's not even true. That's not even true.

It is. It is.

What's the truth then?

Half the time, Tas has my phone. I have no password on my phone whatsoever. At any point in time—

She just recently started that.

At any point in time, Taz could go through my phone.

Did your relationship change after the death of your mother, in your opinion?

Yes, yeah.

In what ways?

I don't look at people or the world the same. Everything is basically here and it can get gone at any moment, so I don't try to hold on to it as much as I used to.

So do you think this baby was yours at first, correct?

Yes, at first, yes. Yeah, 'cause like before my mother and my grandmama died, they were like, you need to settle down and have a child 'cause you just moving around too much to say you gonna settle down one day. So then when I heard that she was pregnant, you know, I already took care of her two other kids since they was little. So, you know what I mean? I got one of my own now finally. So that's something I could, you know what I mean? They brought to me.

Yeah.

But yet you deny him because his characteristics changed.

Yeah, I deny him because the characteristics changed because going back to the stuff you do.

And whenever you talk to your family members, you'll be like, oh, well, he's the mailman's baby. This is why I say it's all in his head because we'd be riding down the road and I'll look over in somebody's yard and there just so happens to be somebody outside. He'll be like, do you wanna go back there?

Okay, okay.

It'll be dudes.

Yeah.

But I don't even know these people, Taz. I don't even know these people.

So why you staring if you don't know 'em?

Are you close to your son? Potential son?

Yeah.

I love him.

I love him. He's a great father.

So you love him?

You love him?

I love him.

You love him a lot? Have you been faithful to Sierra?

Yeah.

You have been?

Other than TikTok.

Other than TikTok.

Okay. What happened there?

Well, when it came to her, we was talking for a little bit. We ain't been nothing serious like that. She sent me some money, so I sent her money using her money 'cause I didn't have nothing.

Why did she send you money? It's not, 'cause I know a lot of people who do financial interactions through social media like TikTok or anything else, and normally it's never a girl sending a guy money. That's never a case that I've heard. It's very rare. So I'm confused of why she decided to send you money.

Lunch.

Got it. So are you still talking to this girl on TikTok at all? Okay.

I don't talk to no females on TikTok now.

None. Okay, before we get into the DNA outcome, Taz, you want the phones unlocked? So I think we should get to unlocking the phones first. Okay. All right, Taz, you told the Unlock the Phone investigator that you want to know if Sierra is speaking to any other men. In this envelope is the answers. And Sierra, you told my Unlock the Phone investigator that you want to know if Taz is speaking to other women on TikTok. We're gonna lock your phone first, Sierra. So Taz, you want to know if Sierra is speaking to any other men. She says she's not. My unlock the phone investigator searched her texts, her DMs, and her phone, and she found nothing. Is telling the truth. We didn't find anything anywhere on her phone of her talking to anyone at all.

I wouldn't cheat on you.

How do you feel about that?

I'm happy.

Good.

I'm real happy.

Good. So you know that this relationship is real and you know that she's not doing anything. So you at least have clarity on that and you've been calling her names and accusing her. Do you feel like you owe her an apology?

Yeah, I'm sorry, baby.

Listen, listen. This is why I love, this is why I love my crew here, okay? This is why I love it. Who said that? Shut, y'all, I see you. Because let me tell you, what was about to come outta my mouth was the same exact thing. That was the apology. She deserves a lot more than that because we've searched, we searched, searched, searched. She deserves a lot more of an apology there. All right, well listen, it's time to unlock the truth again. Taz, it's time to unlock your phone. All right, so Sierra, you want to know if Taz is speaking to any other women specifically on TikTok. He says he is not. My unlock the phone investigators searched his apps and he is telling the truth.

Yes, I love you.

Okay, I'll tell you this. He follows a lot of women on TikTok.

Yes, he does.

He follows a lot of women on TikTok, but there is no communication at all. So then my unlock the phone investigators searched his DMs and he is telling the truth.

You being faithful?

Now you want to know if Taz is speaking to any other women. He said he is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched his texts and found 2 suspicious pictures. Now, I have an evidence bag. These are 2 explicit photos from 2 separate women that were texted to him within this year. They were deleted. So now let me tell you, one of the things when we, 'cause we're able to find things that are deleted on this show. So if you delete it, well, the problem is when phones, when things, messages are deleted, it separates his reply and the message. So we see the message, but we don't see see exactly what the reply is. So I can't confirm if he replied to these or not, but these are the two women and I just wanna confirm, are these you?

You say this, yeah.

Are these you?

Mm-mm.

Okay.

Oh. No, that's on something different.

Not show the photos.

You don't do that.

Let me find out the crew freaky too. Y'all freaky too?

Yeah, but who are these from? I've never even seen these girls before.

Me neither.

Did I?

If it was deleted, then you've definitely seen it.

I mean, I looked at it 'cause it got sent to me, but it ain't from no female.

Got it, okay, okay, got it.

You know what? I think he's telling the truth.

Okay, okay.

Because I do remember a while back in his gamer text messages, they were sending photos like this to each other.

Okay, okay.

So you might be telling the truth, 'cause I do remember this one.

Usually I would be like, you're naive here, but I don't have, listen, I snoop, I snoop. I get real nosy, I start looking, but I couldn't find it. So that's the only reason right now I can't give you, I'm sure you surprised that you found it.

I got a group, my group, that's what.

Yeah, and they send stuff like that.

I wanna know, are you surprised I even found these?

Yeah.

You are.

I'm telling y'all, if y'all need me to unlock somebody's phone, y'all better come on the show. I will find it, all right?

Like when you say this shit, huh?

So listen, I'm just happy you now know there's a solid relationship here. You have it, she's not cheating, he's not cheating. So at least you have some clarity here. And I'm hoping that can give you a little bit of a foundation to know at least something solid. But now we have still this DNA outcome. You're questioning if this is your child.

Right.

You have said that you felt like she was cheating, like she was doing things. You know now she wasn't, but does that give you clarity on what could be in this envelope?

Yeah, kinda.

Okay. Yeah. Okay, here you go.

Read it out loud because I told you.

Taz is Taz's Jr.'s biological father.

I told you. So now, do you feel better about everything? Do you feel as if this has helped us a lot?

I love you.

I hope so, 'cause I don't like constantly defending myself. Love you, baby. Love you too. You're here to cause my makeup to smear.

Yeah, I know, I'm mean to you.

Again, you now have something more solid as well.

Yes, sir.

You have a child. Thank you, miss. That's yours, that's yours. But at least now you know you have a woman who's standing by your side and y'all have done the work. I've been tracking it. Y'all are doing the work slowly but surely to be healthier, which is what it's about in a relationship. Are you talking? Are you trying to figure out how we can grow to be better? And y'all are doing that for each other. My advice to both of you right now is that I'm really happy that the abuse has stopped and that y'all are out of that. Obviously there's still a lot of trauma that has happened from your mother being murdered, and I'm so sorry about that, that is affecting the way you see the world and affecting your relationships. You know, when you started talking about that, it started to break my heart because I can see, and I think you already know, that there is still pain lingering there because you just said you feel like anything that comes to you can be taken away at any moment. So if you feel that way, why would I care about a relationship? Why would I care about anything at all? So hopefully this can be the starting point fully where you could say, I got real stuff in my life. I got family, I got people who love me, who are gonna be there for me, who are gonna rock with me, who are not going anywhere. And y'all can start building together in the healthiest way. Yes, sir. I wish y'all the best of luck.

Oh, thank you.

Thank you.