In this YouTube segment, host Karamo engages the live audience in a candid, humorous discussion about mismatched sexual desire in relationships. Karamo asks whether anyone feels their partner wants sex too often—citing a claim of five times a day—and invites audience members to share. Speaker B describes feeling exhausted from daily responsibilities (children, work, chores) and being tired of frequent sexual advances, likening the situation to being starved for water after a month. Speaker C adds a perspective on long‑distance dynamics, using a water‑thirst metaphor to explain how distance can heighten sexual cravings. Both speakers discuss the tension between desire and consent, with B noting that his partner pulls away yet still wants to be available whenever the desire arises. Throughout, Karamo and the audience use humor—laughing at phrases like “bust down”—to keep the conversation light while exploring the challenges of negotiating frequency, fatigue, and boundaries in intimate relationships.
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How many of you feel like your partner wants to have sex too much? You do? You feel like your partner wants to have sex too much? I wanna get your opinion. Come over here. Because he said every day, 5 times a day. Listen, like, I can be a freak myself, but when I heard that stat, I'm like, damn.
It's like, damn.
Dang, 5 days. My gosh. So what happens with you and your partner when y'all wanna have sex?
Well, my partner's right there. Oh, okay.
And he— Oh, you want to— Come on down. Come on down.
Let's talk about it.
So hold on. So you, he wants to have sex all the time?
At all times.
And how do you feel about that?
I'm tired. I mean, I can relate to her because it's like, I gotta, you know, you gotta take care of your kids, you gotta work, you gotta, you know, clean, cook.
And so do you not understand that? Do you not feel that?
No, I understand that, but I relate to my man right here. I understand she tired. I be tired too. Well, when I'm tired, I still could go. Right, my brother? My brother know what time it is.
Is that the same with you even though when you're tired? Thank y'all for sharing, I appreciate it. Is that the same for you? Even when you're tired, you can still go?
So I can relate to him because see, it's almost like a setup. It's like almost by default a setup. So because if we wouldn't have started off that way, then I would've had different expectations. But she was meeting my match, right?
Every— Once a month though.
But wait though, because see what happened was you was attacking me.
So you was— Yeah, it's like starving. It's like if you don't get water for a whole month, when you finally get some, you're gonna just be guzzling it down, right? Right? So I wasn't seeing you for a month.
I'm still thirsty every day. I want a gallon of alkaline water. So at the end of the day, I get it. I get the fact that the distance does make you wanna have sex a lot more than if you're in a setting every single day. It just didn't change my mind.
My biggest issue is what it's caused is you to you pull away from me and you don't not come on to me, because I'm not going to turn you down. Like, anytime you want it, I'ma bust down.
It just can't be every day.
Just not every day.
Y'all had me laughing out there, my eyes watering up. When you said bust down, I said okay.
