My Man Got Another Woman PREGNANT, What Do I Do? | KARAMO

How are you?

I'm okay.

Well, listen, what happened on your birthday?

I'm gonna tell you what happened.

Yeah, please.

I'm gonna tell you what happened. Okay, on my birthday, so my boyfriend and his brother was going for a ride, right? So they seen this girl outside walking, so he's talking about she needed to jump. She needed to jump all right. He jumped right in her.

Oh!

Yes. And— Came home to—

I can't wait. I can't, so I can't. You gotta be good already.

All right.

I love you already. First of all, I'm not laughing at the situation. I'm laughing at delivery. But because my real reaction to him doing that is I'm gonna cuss you out. Like, how dare you on my birthday do something that disrespectful? Do you think he's still talking to the girl?

I'm not sure.

Okay.

I'm not sure, but I know I came home, I was at work. He left a note on the table talking about, "Bae, I'm going to help my brother. I'll be back." So the whole day went by, no Jalik. The next day, no Jalik. So a week passed, still no Jalik. So my birthday was on that Thursday. So he called that Wednesday talking about, "I'm just calling to tell you happy birth, early birthday. Do you wanna see me?" I said, "No, stay where you at." So he came home. He came home, so we got into it.

Do you think he is still talking to her again?

Probably so, probably so.

Okay then.

Probably so.

Okay.

Probably so.

'Cause one of my producers backstage told me that she's pregnant.

Yeah, so she say she's pregnant. So I get a phone call, right? No caller ID, so I know nobody never calls me private. So I'm looking at him, it gotta be her, it gotta be her. So I answer the phone, I say, hello? She start going off talking her junk, she says, That's why I'm pregnant from your man, something that you cannot have.

Something you can't have. She tried to come get dirty with it.

Yeah, 'cause I was so upset, so he be pillow talking. So he had to tell her that I couldn't have babies, so.

So you know, I'm always, I try to be fair on this show, so I'm gonna wait till I hear his side of the story to judge. But from what you're telling me, the disrespect of not only are you talking to another woman, but as well, you're talking about my intimate personal stuff. Right. Like it's the levels for me.

Right.

Yeah, okay, so you said he's younger. What's the age difference between you two?

He's 23 and I'm 47.

What? No. Y'all remember a year ago when we was like, we just listen, we don't judge? No girl, we all judging that. No girl, we all judging that. We all judging that.

He is so, he was so mature. He's mature for his age though. You would never think he was 23.

A 23-year-old mature for what age? For what age at 47?

The biz.

The biz. I knew it, I knew it. Okay, so tell me, how did you meet Jaleek?

Okay, I met him when I first came back home, 'cause I was originally living in Florida, so I moved back to South Carolina. So he was flirting with me and so—

I bet he was, you fine, girl. Thank you. I know he was.

Vibing, everything was good. So initially he told me that he did have a girlfriend, but— it was rocky 'cause they barely see each other. So I was like, okay, so once y'all break it off meant we could hook up. So he did that, we hooked up, he moved in instantly.

Got it, got it. And how long y'all been together since?

9 months.

9 months.

9 months.

So it's been 9 months. Yeah. So within that 9 months, he broke up with a girl, y'all got together and moved in, then he disrespected you by not being with you on your birthday. And now y'all on the Karamo Show?

Yes. And then I had to wake up.

That's a timeline, okay?

It is.

That's a timeline.

It's a lot. It's a lot.

You said you woke up what?

And then I had to wake up to my tires slashed.

The girl slashed your tires?

Yeah, so apparently when I'm at work busting my butt, paying all these bills, something that he don't do 'cause he just got a job 2 weeks ago. My tire is slashed 'cause he bringing a girl to my house while I'm at work.

Did he confess? Did she confess? How did you find out? You got a Ring cam? What you got? How did you know that she slashed it?

Okay, I need to know.

She finally confessed and said that it was her and that she was gonna pay me back, but never did. And by him living with me, I would think that he would help me get my tires fixed, but he didn't.

And so you say he doesn't contribute to the household at all? At all. At all.

At all. His first check was $200. Guess how much he offered me out of it? You better say $200. $29, y'all. $29.

How you gonna sit around and tell these people all these lies and stuff like that?

Why you think it's something?

How you gonna say I only gave you $29? And when I go out there and I hustle and I make sure that I get money for what you need.

How much did you give her?

I ain't give her no $29.

What you gave me, Jaleek? $50? He gave me $50 after I threw the $29 back.

I'm laughing because you made it seem like you was about to come out with a bigger number.

No, no, no. I mean, the number won't even be big. $200 is not big.

I understand, but if you're saying that for you, that, you know, I'm not gonna disrespect your hustle. If that's right now where you're at in your life and that is a lot of money to you, I understand that. I was 23 before, so I get that. You know, take a seat for me, Julie. So, but outside of the money, because I understand, like I said, I can give you the courtesy of saying I'm 23, giving you $50 right now might be the most that I can do while supporting myself, but I can't give you a pass on her birthday from what she said. So give me your perspective.

Okay, so we was, I say 2 weeks prior to her birthday, we was getting in arguments, fussing, nonstop nagging, aggravation. So I left.

Okay.

And when I left, no contact from her. She haven't called me, nothing like that. So you know what I'm saying? Yes, I was with somebody else on her birthday. She knows that. I admitted to that, I own it up to that. I was.

So wouldn't that make sense of why she is feeling the insecurity? Because if you're owning up to being with somebody on her birthday.

But the thing about it is she started all of this. She the one started cheating and stuff, getting cash outs from dudes.

Oh my God, Jaleel.

All this $30 people cash out her, $30 every day. She ain't telling y'all all that, but she want my money and his money.

Oh.

You know what I'm saying? You trying to come up.

Oh, oh, okay then. Are you having a baby with the other girl from what she said?

No, all those are lies. These girls just want me, you know what I'm saying? They just want me.

Everybody want you.

Come on, confidence. Listen, man, come on, confidence. I ain't mad at it, okay?

I'm feeling it.

You feel me? He said they want me. Listen, he got you, so listen, he can't be lying, right? No shade, so.

No shade.

So how you think the relationship is going from your perspective then?

It's rocky. I mean, it could be, it'd be Sometimes it's rocky, sometimes it's stable, but mostly rocky because there's always arguments and stuff. And you know, she calls me names.

Yeah.

Bitches and all that. A man, she call a man, me, a bitch.

Y'all know why I call him that?

Why?

Because he acts like a little bitch. I'm the man in the relationship because I have to pay all the bills, the rent, the car note, the insurance, the light bill. It's like I'm taking care of my child.

Karamo.

Gotta buy your clothes.

Karamo.

Buy clothes.

Hold on, my producers are telling me that you made a list of things that you used to think were good in the relationship. You wrote this?

Yeah.

Oh, okay. Things that she used to do. She used to make me breakfast. She used to smile at me. She used to be nice to me. She used to wash my clothes. She used to bring me what I needed from the store before she came home from work. She never used to leave home that much. She never used to yell at me. She never used to blame me for anything.

See, that's a child. Only a child would write something like that. Only a child.

So do you think she's cheating on you?

Of course.

Will you stay with her if we find anything in her phone?

If y'all find anything?

Yeah, if we find anything in her phone, you gonna stay with her?

If it's red, it's dead. If it's green, it's good.

Okay.

So that mean—

So yeah, I got it. If it's red, it's dead. We understood that one. If it's green, it's good.

If that's the case, you should have been dead. I should have been left your ass. All that shit you been doing to me.

All that shit you been doing to me. You the one started all this shit. You started all this for you.

And how did she start it? One more time. I just want to be clear.

I told you, when we first started talking, she was— Texting other guys, getting cash out some other guys, but taking my last little bit of money 'cause I had a job way before this.

But let me be clear, 'cause you said she started, but what she shared, and I wanna get confirmation from you, is that when you all started talking, you were in another relationship, but you were still trying to get with her.

And I broke that off to get with her.

But you were in one while trying to talk to her.

But I told her that.

But you were in one.

Right.

Okay, just wanted to make sure. Right. All right, it's time to unlock the phone. All right, Jaleel, it's time to unlock Did we unlock your phone? Oh, well we did not unlock your phone because Tasha says you smashed it.

Before we came to the show, because he knew he was cheating. He ain't want y'all to find out.

She smashed my own phone.

So she smashed it?

She smashed it.

Okay.

'Cause, 'cause post a lie?

Okay, why would I smash it?

Have you ever smashed any of his phone before?

Never.

Never. So why do you think she's smashing all these phones? Because if she complaining about money, why should we smash a phone and then buy another one?

Because she don't care, 'cause she ain't gonna have to buy me no phone. She don't really do nothing for me no more.

So then who smashed the phone 2 days ago?

2 days ago? That phone was already broke up. She crazy.

Okay, okay. So we have no evidence to see what you were doing though.

But I don't do nothing for you though, huh? But you live in my house where I pay all the bills at.

You don't pay all the bills.

I pay all the bills. What you pay, Jaleek? Let me tell you. Internet, which is $50. Guess what he do when he get mad?

What?

Take the internet box and leave with his little 2 t-shirts that I bought.

Okay, okay.

Like, really?

Okay.

I do everything for you.

Whatever.

All right, well listen, we understand now that we can't see what you've done in your phone, so there's no transparency on that side. We only have to go off the history, which is that you've cheated in the past, you've admitted to it. There's possibly a woman who has gotten pregnant and also the fact that you said this woman slashed her tires.

There is no woman that's pregnant.

I know, we said potentially. Okay. Yeah, but okay. So I'm just stating the facts 'cause we couldn't unlock your phone, so I don't have transparency. But Tasha, we unlocked your phone. Yeah. All right. Jalik, you wanna know if Tasha has any photos of other men. Tasha says she does not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched her photos and found that Tasha is telling the truth.

That's one.

Jaleek, you wanna know if Tasha has been sending or receiving money from men through apps on her phone. Tasha says she's not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched her apps and found that Tasha is not telling the truth.

See, see, see what I'm talking about?

Tasha has 86 Transaction with another man receiving a total of $2,180.

Okay, that's who he talking about.

That's who he talking about.

But that's old. But look though, you want my money and his money.

That's old.

You get what I'm saying though? Look at all that money this man done sent you.

That's old.

Look at all this money this man done sent you.

Okay, but you know about that. That's old.

Yeah, it's old, but still though, look.

Okay, that's old. When was the last transaction? How old?

Probably last week.

He sent me $20 'cause I needed gas. That was like, uh.

Okay, so my investigator is telling me right now the last transaction was August 31st. August 31st.

Yeah, no, that's not true.

That's true. Yeah, August 31st was the last text. We don't make stuff up on here, so we always gotta make sure you know.

So how much was it, $20?

I don't know the amount.

Yeah, that's probably when, yeah, yeah, that's it. He know about that shit. That's nobody.

All right, well, Jalik, you wanna know Tasha has been texting other men. Tasha says she is not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched the text and found that Tasha is not telling the truth. My investigator found a delete text from another man from 2 days ago, including a video she took from the airport last month.

No, he did that. He deleted it.

No, I didn't.

Yes, you did delete it.

I never even seen these text messages right here.

He said, catching a flight.

And then she wanted me to post this.

I love when people say, oh, and they smile. You didn't know we was gonna catch that one.

I know who, that's nothing.

But you didn't know that we was gonna catch that one. Hold on, the money ain't nothing, that ain't nothing.

That's nothing.

It's a lot of nothing. So you was in the bathroom, airport bathroom, just trying to show? What are you showing?

Okay, ask him, has I ever slept with anybody since I've been with him though? No, the answer is no.

No.

But you sitting right here entertaining, you wanna entertain?

Okay. So what we know is clear is that you two are unhappy. There is 9 months, and no, you cannot say y'all not unhappy. Don't even sit here and look and think. There is not enough that measures out in this relationship for 9 months that where the happiness outweighs the stress, the disrespect, and the fact that neither of you are compatible. Y'all got together because you saw she was attracted, you wanted a lung, your cute little piece to have fun with, and all of a sudden y'all turned into something bigger than it should have been. This relationship should have stayed where it was that night. And I'll be real with you because at this point right now, there's things that you need to learn about relationships. And that's why I was trying to point out what you were doing with the other woman. Because if she was sitting on this stage, she would have the same complaints about you that you're having about her. She would feel disrespected. She'd feel like maybe he didn't do stuff for me. So I want you to challenge yourself as a young man to know that you can be better as a man. You can get into relationships where you actually can provide, you can help, where you can communicate honestly about what you want. I don't think you're there yet. And for you, Tasha, let's be real. You need to be someone's baby and not someone's babysitter. [APPLAUSE] So go ahead, just go ahead, break this out. And allow yourselves to have some type of respect and friendship by being honest and saying, "We don't belong together." Y'all wanna start that right here? You don't wanna tell her? You just said if we find something in the phone, it's dead. Man is dead. So you wanna say to her, "Hey, we don't belong together." We don't belong together. But I wish you the best of luck.

I wish you the best in life and everything.

And what I'm gonna say to you is, "Hey, it was fun." Come on, it was fun.

It was fun.

It was fun. Yeah, y'all caught that, right? You don't wanna let it go. Okay, well I'm gonna try it with you. You said it's fun?

It was fun.

It was fun, but you need time to grow.

Yeah, but you need time to grow.

There we go. Girl, take my advice, okay?

Okay.

Please, please. I do this for a living for a reason. I really want to help you to have the best life possible, all right?

Okay.

I wish y'all both the best of luck, all right? Everyone at home, stay with us, friends. We'll be right back with more.