My Man Won’t Stop Liking Other Women’s Pictures! | KARAMO

When was the last time you think your husband snuck out the house?

September 25th.

Oh, you got the exact day. Come on.

Yep.

And in your opinion, how often does he cheat on you?

Well, over the course of 11 years, we done been through a lot. Like, I've caught him with other women. I can go over here.

Where's she going? Where you going? Oh, you got something on the board?

Oh, okay.

Yeah.

So, okay.

Yeah.

So 26 times.

She came with a timeline. I'm like, where's she going? Okay. All right.

I got it. Yeah, so 2016, I caught him on Instagram. We was together for 2 years then. And then microcheating, it's where you cheat online. You're lusting over women, you're liking their posts, you're showing them that you like what you see. It's the same thing you did with me. So it's disrespectful because I'm not doing it. I'm not showing other men that I like what I see. And then 2017, 4th of July, we were good. He went to work, he drove my car to work. Next morning, He comes home late, oh, da da da, my coworker, I had to take him home. So I check his phone, I find evidence of him and another woman conversating and saying he was gonna come over, he was gonna da da da, and they slept together. I pretended I was him and she admitted that they had sex. Still to this day, he lies to me and tell me that they didn't have intercourse, but I know otherwise 'cause I'm a woman, I have female intuition.

And also, she's saying, and also you saying she admitted to you.

Yeah. Exactly. So 2019, same thing. He admitted to me on the truck, he was driving on trucks for Merchant Foods, and he was looking at women online, watching porn on the truck. Even told me that he was thinking about other women while we were sexually involved. And I appreciated the truth, honestly, because, you know, I appreciate the truth, basically. So 2022, caught him again doing the same old thing, texting, talking to other women, looking at women on Instagram, Facebook. You know, all of that. Okay, so we broke up because not only did I caught him doing that, I caught him asking another woman, oh, can I come over tonight? And she said, not tonight, like as if it had happened previously. So then we got back together and then when we got back together, he started these disappearing walks. Two times I found him at the store, but then it was the third time where I didn't know where he was at for two hours. 2 hours. Oh, I just took a long walk. Where were you? Yeah, where were you? And then 2025, current, this current year, still Instagram, Facebook, liking girls, you know, sending random girls from, 'cause I know you don't know, but you like what you see. That's disrespectful to me. And then to the date that we here basically for, September 25th, he went on another walk. Which I know he was with someone 'cause he didn't answer my calls. I'll be honest, I called like maybe 30 times 'cause I was pissed. You left me in my house with the door unlocked. I'm asleep and you're gone. I wake up and you're gone.

Oh.

And then you come back, "Oh, I just took a long walk down this road." That's bull. I check his phone, I see where he at, and he takes the phone and snatch it and delete it. But before he could delete it, I seen where he was at. And so he's been lying ever since.

Got it, okay. Listen, okay, I appreciate the timeline. So after all of this, why y'all get back together?

I mean, I don't know.

Don't say it, I love him.

Oh, 'cause the good is good. You know, we have a baby together. He met me when my children was 2 and 7 years old. He's been there for me. We've been there for each other. You know, we do love each other.

My producer also told me earlier, you're holding off on getting married.

Yeah.

Why are you holding off on getting married?

Because I'm not gonna be your wife and you're doing all that. I told him I want him to go to counseling and I want him to admit he was wrong.

Okay.

And let's give it one more last go round.

Okay then.

But after that, I'm gone. That's it. I'm dead serious.

Listen, all I need to know is where you're at mentally and what you want, and then I can guide you and help you with that. All right, well, I think it's time to hear Jerome's side of the story. Karamo, please welcome Jerome to the show. Hey Jerome, how you doing?

What's up? What's up, Karamo?

Nice to meet you, sir.

Nice to meet you.

So I gotta ask you, is any of what she said true?

No, it's not true. Can you mind putting the timeline back on?

I'll put it back. Here we go. Okay, y'all put it on. All right, so yeah, what part of this timeline is not true?

Nah.

He can't say.

He can't say.

Nah. If you knew the timeline, what part ain't true? No, you know, it's not true.

Cheating with other women is not right.

What do you mean when you disappeared?

Slept with childhood friend. Well, that was before we even became official.

No, we was official in 2017 and you know it.

No, I didn't sleep with her in 2017.

No, you remember you went to her house in my car.

We didn't do nothing.

I pretended to be you and she admitted. And when she saw me pregnant with [MASKED], she didn't say it, but she looked at me and basically said, "You stupid dumb girl." Because I was pregnant with his baby, so she basically was like, "Oh, you stayed with him even after the fact." But we didn't do nothing though.

We didn't do nothing.

That's not true. You know that's not true.

All right, so let me ask you this real quickly. If your wife is telling you in that moment, or your fiancée is telling you in this moment that this other woman who's your friend has said y'all are doing something, why not get all three of y'all on the phone and just clarify?

Yeah, he wouldn't do that.

I don't know, Karamo. I ain't put no thought into that, but that is a good idea.

Just like he didn't wanna come on the show acting like, oh, this will ruin my rep— First of all, why would this show ruin your reputation? Who is those people? Do those people pay our bills? Do they pay our house payment? Do they do anything for us?

But that ain't right though.

I mean me and you, not them. I could care less.

Yeah, but still, that's not right though. I mean you can't accuse me of cheating all the time.

Micro cheating is a real thing. Yes it is. When you liking another girl's post, oh, and telling them that you want.

What, really?

Who do you say that with?

No.

Who do you say that to?

No, no, no. You can say, you can listen. You ain't gotta apologize.

No, that's not right.

Say it. You're apologizing.

I'm trying not to.

No, no, no.

That's ridiculous.

Who did you say that to?

I ain't say that to nobody.

Man, I ain't got no reason to lie.

So what else is not true? What happened on July 4th, 2017?

July 4th.

That's when he drove my car.

And then that's when—

He went to work that night. He worked third shift, so his car was in the shop.

Yeah, I didn't do that. So he drove my car to work. But I didn't do anything.

And I had a very important appointment the next day.

He comes home late. Well, I would say I did.

You did.

No, I hadn't.

Why would you go to your ex's house? Why would you go to your ex's house though? What was the need for you to be there?

And for a whole—

Oh no, no, no, I forgot he lied to me for a whole month. Finally he admitted, said, okay, I was lying. Went to her house.

I did.

Finally.

Yeah.

Okay, so let me ask you, where you going on the walks?

I just go walk, go to get me some cigarettes or a beer or something.

Two times, two times I found him at the store, but then the third time he was two hours. I was like, where the hell you been?

I call my peoples and vent to them and tell them what happened and why I'm taking—

Oh, they say it's okay for him to talk to other women? They tell him that it's good?

No, they mean about friends, 'cause I got a lot of female friends. I do. I have a lot of female friends. I was popular We were back in high school, so.

But that's high school. We are adults now.

But still though, I have a reputation that I have to keep.

No, it's a difference between— Are you sleeping with any of your coworkers? You don't need to be friends with no females.

Are you sleeping with any of your coworkers?

No.

None.

Okay. He talking to them.

Because I love my job.

He talking to them.

Talking to them, man, it's work related.

Nah.

Do you feel like she is emotionally abusive?

Get this, they'll speak to me.

How do you feel that she verbally abuses you?

Look at them. Look how she doing now. Damn right, no problem.

What did she say to you?

You don't say things to me.

What did she say to you?

I mean, I don't say things to defend myself, of course. I'm a man, of course I'm gonna defend myself.

Mainly we get in arguments why?

Because of you.

Because of what you're doing to me.

What type of names does she call you?

Oh, shit. She call me any, every name under the sun.

I wasn't gonna go there, but you wanna go there? You call me names too. We call each other names, you know it.

Yeah, we do, when we argue.

But I admit, I call him the B word first and then he'll defend himself, but he won't keep berailing me. He never called me hoe or slut. Only thing he'll do is when I call him B's like 30 times, he'll finally say it back. And then he'll go out, 'cause he don't really like to argue.

Yeah, that's why I walk off.

Sometimes he'll give me the silent treatment.

That's why I walk off.

But I get mad because I'm in the heat of it, I'm in passion, and I'm not saying that's excusable, but when I put my heart in something, I'm a Sagittarius, I love hard. I give you my heart, I love you. I pray for you, I take you to church.

When you sick, I'm there.

When you don't got nothing, I'm there. When you got something, I'm there. I've been there through the good and the bad. I've been by your side through it all.

Did you ever say that you wish he was dead?

Yep.

You did say that.

I sure did. I'm tired of it. I'm tired of it. If you don't love me, if you wanna be with other females, go be with them. Leave me be.

Put it like this, Karamo. I do love this woman. Mm-hmm. But—

Are you still intimate?

Yeah.

Yes.

Okay, then great.

Yes.

Well, ain't that wrong right there?

Okay. What will happen if she keeps accusing you?

Eventually walk off and walk away from it.

Yeah, eventually I'm gonna walk away 'cause I know what you're doing.

I'm done with it. No, Karamo, as a man, I work hard. I work hard 12 hours.

I don't got time to be with a lot of people changing up.

I don't have time to be with a woman either. I work 12 hours a day.

Where was you at September 25th? I work 12 hours a day.

Where was you at in 2019?

2022 when you walked out the third time.

I walked to the store and back.

Well, listen, it is time to unlock the phone.

Yes, please. Yes.

All right, Kiara, we unlocked your phone. Okay, Jerome, you want to know if Kiara is messaging other men on social media. She says she is not. My Lock the Phone investigator searched her DMs and found that Kiara is telling the truth. Jerome, you want to know if Kiara is texting other men. She said she is not. My locked-up phone investigator searched her texts and found that Kiara is telling the truth.

Right, exactly.

Okay. All right.

Jerome, you want to know if Kiara is talking with other men. She says she is not. My locked-up phone investigator searched her phone and found that Kiara is telling the truth.

Boom.

Okay. All right, okay. Told you. All right. My apologies.

So why did you want Kiara to unlock her phone?

I mean, because—

It's because of psychology, narcissism. A narcissist, that's what they do.

She be saying this too. She be like, oh yeah, I'm gonna be with this man, or this my boyfriend.

She don't do it 'cause I wanna hurt you. I like hurting him 'cause I like, if I go out here and have sex with another man, you ain't gonna like it. 'Cause what a man don't like when a woman do what the hell he do to you.

All right, well Jerome, Jerome, we unlocked your phone.

Okay. Yeah.

Let's see.

Karamo, you wanna know if Jerome is talking to other women. He said he is not.

Mm-hmm.

When I unlocked the phone, investigators searched his phone and found that Jerome is telling the truth.

Told you.

No, he messed with that phone.

No, told you. No.

I believe because his pictures was gone and he had me thinking that it was you guys that deleted the message. It wasn't. It was him.

No, no, no, no.

Karamo, you want to know Jerome was messaging women on social media.

Mm-hmm.

He said he is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched his apps and found that Jerome is telling the truth.

No.

Thank you. No. Thank you. No. So you don't?

No.

You see what I'm saying?

Well, actually, my investigator also did tell me you removed the app from your phone.

Yeah.

When did you remove it?

Yeah.

That was months ago. That was like January. No, I got Facebook. Facebook is there.

Instagram.

Now Instagram, yeah, I probably got rid of that one.

'Cause what he'll do, he'll delete it and then he know how to get back into it. But I know how to retrieve it too 'cause he was shocked when I found it. But he was like trying to deny that it wasn't him. It was somebody else that took his phone.

No, 'cause it's something about her, she don't like me to have Instagram, y'all. That ain't even right. What man can't have Instagram? Come on.

Why are you on there though? To tell a woman you wanna be sexually active? Karamo.

You wanna know if Jerome is texting other women. He says he is not. My locked-up phone investigator searched his texts and found that Jerome is telling the truth.

Thank you. Thank you. See though?

Oh, that's a lie.

See what I'm saying?

No.

Nah. He gonna be up positive though.

I don't believe that he did something to his phone before he came.

So I'm gonna let you sit down for a minute. I'm gonna tell you this because I'm reading these to you, but the main note here is my investigator did tell me that your phone was tampered with.

Yeah. Oh, come on.

And the first indication of this was yesterday when we opened your phone, there was only one picture on it that was taken in Stamford, Connecticut. So why don't you have any photos on your phone? And we're just gonna start there.

And he made me think it was y'all.

So this is the thing right here. One of the things that my investigator did say is that you very are active on social media. Oh, yes. And you go to a lot of women's pages. Hold on, let me do this because I wanna make sure we establish things. Okay. You do go and like a lot of women's stuff.

Yeah, most of my female friends.

Oh, shit.

I don't need the excuses right now. I just need you to hear me. Okay. I need you to hear me because if you truly are in love with this woman, this woman is telling you that the interactions you're having with other women is making me uncomfortable. Her exact words were, "I feel embarrassed." Mm-hmm.

Okay.

And she is right. If she was making you feel embarrassed, Okay. If I told you that we have secret footage of her backstage talking to another man right now that we're about to show you, and what she was doing with that man was telling him how sexy he was and that she was feeling on him.

Really?

So it's funny how when I tell you that we don't have that footage—

He's not even telling you the truth. He just going, he giving you an example.

What if?

See how mad you was going to get? Yeah.

So look, so look, you just proved my point. Good point. But yet you have the audacity to continue to go on social media and like these other women's photos when she's telling you it is embarrassing. You're showing her that you don't have no respect.

Okay, Karamo.

Hold on, hear me out.

Okay.

'Cause hear me out, 'cause I've heard you out. Now you are 42 years old, so we not that far in age. You getting up there. And I'm gonna tell you this, these little girls you liking on Instagram, these people, these female friends you have might be good and great, But when things really start to hit your ass in life, the person that's gonna be next to you is this woman.

Yeah. No cap. Yeah.

No cap today. And I know y'all sitting there wondering why I've stuck by him because we do have a family together. We have a child together. I do love the good moments we have. He stuck by me through the bad. But dang, I didn't meet up with no man. I didn't have nobody to call 'cause I put my eggs in this basket.

If you want my opinion, I understand your self-esteem and where you're at. I could give you some tools on how to do that, but in actuality, you're doing a pretty good job. By not taking the step of getting married, you're showing a boundary that is very clear. Yeah. That I can't trust you because there's no security to it. Right. If you want my opinion on what I've witnessed on this stage, is that I do believe there's an addiction.

It is.

And that addiction is to porn.

I told him that.

That addiction is to porn, to the women you're seeing on this thing.

Yeah.

Which a lot of men unfortunately suffer from that addiction. Yeah. They're not really facing it. And so the fact that it's not affecting your intimacy is a good thing, but soon it will bleed into other parts of your life. And once it start doing that, you will end up, I've seen many men in your position with this ego and this addiction who end up alone, lonely, and scared.

I tell 'em that all the time. Yeah.

So I would tell you pay less attention to the woman in your feed and pay more attention to the woman who's giving you what you want.

You need, 'cause the grass ain't always green on the other side. That's right.

You know what I'm saying?

Yes, sir.