My Video Vixen Girlfriend Is A Baddie But Is She Wifey Material?! | KARAMO

So tell me about the day you met Shanice.

Well, the day I met Shanice, it was like fireworks, you feel me?

Yeah.

So, you know, we met at a video shoot and I saw her from afar. I was like, damn, who that?

Yeah. So how long y'all been dating now?

It's about to be 2 years now.

2 years? Yeah, it's about to be 2 years. So it's a long-term relationship. About to be 2 years. Okay.

The thing about her job that bothers me the most is that, you know, she's around like celebrities, rappers in these music videos and you know, she's a vixen. Anytime she's out, I can't really trust her 'cause I don't know who's actually going to try to talk to her. And I don't know if, 'cause you know, again, these people are celebrities. And again, I do trust her, but it's like these people could be saying anything to her and I don't even know if she even tells me that she's in a relationship. You feel me? So it's like—

Have you ever asked her if she tells people she's in a relationship?

I tell her, I ask her, but she says she does. But who knows what she really tells people?

Well, she's telling you she does. Why can't you believe her? Why do you think she cheats on you?

Well, the thing about it is that she met me at a video shoot. So the same way I approached her, anybody else could approach her.

So what do you mean when you say she isn't wifey material?

Well, it's like I can't really bring her home to my mother.

Why?

'Cause my mom, she's really conservative, right? She's a real Christian woman. She doesn't even wear pants. So if I bring her to my mother, right, I need to like actually pick an outfit for her because the way she typically dresses, I can't bring her to my mama like that.

So you like that she looks this part for you.

Of course.

But you're ashamed that she looks this part for your mother.

It's not just my mother, it's for everyone too. 'Cause I feel like as my girl, you should be dressed like that for me.

So you don't want her to be only.

Exactly.

Okay, but you met her out in the world dressing as she likes to dress.

Of course, you're right, you're right, you're right.

I'm just trying to cast a picture.

You're right, you're right.

Does Shanice know you feel this way?

I tell her this all the time.

You tell her all the time?

Yeah.

Okay, and what is her response?

Her response is, "Yo, this is how you met me." I'm like, "I feel you, but that's when you were single. Now you in a relationship, things have changed a little bit." Has she met any of your friends or family? She met like 2 of my cousins before.

And what was their response when they met her?

Their response was, "Okay, cuz, all right.

Cool, cuz." They said she looked beautiful, is that translating to? Or was it shady and sarcastic?

Yeah, being sarcastic, like, "She's a little much." basically was saying.

Mm, okay.

And the way that she was dressed.

Are you embarrassed of your girlfriend?

No, not at all. But it's the only thing about it is that when we go out, I feel like I'm about to get into an altercation all the time because people gawk, they even try to talk, they make hissing noises. So it's like every day I go outside, I never know what I'm about to partake myself into because you know how people are. You can never trust anyone.

Do you ever tell her how to dress?

Yeah, I do.

And what does she do when you tell her that?

And she says no.

She says no. It's time to meet Lonnie's girlfriend. Please welcome Shanice to the show.

You know what? You deadass full of it right now. You full of it. How the fuck you gonna sit there and say that I wouldn't be able to be introduced to your mother? And this is why. Wait, wait, hold on, hold on, hold on. Before you start, how you gonna say I'm not gonna be able to reintroduce your mother because of how I dressed? I'm not. Oh, my God, I'm not. No, no, no.

Hold on, wait, hold on, hold on.

No, no, no, I don't want to hear it.

I'm just saying.

How you gonna say that I can't be introduced to your mother? Are you serious? Oh, you better sit your ass down.

I just said what I said. I just said what I said.

Sit down.

I just said what I said. I just said what I said.

How I'm dressed.

Now, can I put you in the. You actually got clothes on. You actually. You actually doing good today. I'm not gonna lie. You're doing good today. You're doing good today.

But what is this? What you saying?

I'll tell you this. You look fly from head to toe.

You look great.

She look good.

She looks great.

You see that?

All that. He looks great.

All of this, all of this, all of this gets booked. It gets booked and it makes money.

Exactly.

All right then, so what you mean exactly?

You met me like this and you had a problem. That's at work though.

Okay, but that's a problem.

But guess what?

Every single time.

Every single time. No, stop.

No, I'm not gonna stop. I'm not gonna stop.

Why don't you trust me?

'Cause you wrong.

Honestly, because I dress, that's the only reason. But I feel like he doesn't trust me because of insecurities, because obviously, you know, I am very voluptuous or whatever. Other than that, I don't, you know.

You look good, girl.

Thank you.

No, you do though, you do though. You look beautiful. You look beautiful. You look beautiful.

Don't be trying to soften it up, baby.

You look beautiful, baby.

So my producer told me you were very upset when you saw that he He didn't have photos of you in his, in—

Oh yes, okay, so we were supposed to send photos. My phone had broke not that long ago and I had to get a new phone. So I called him like, babe, like, you know, send some of my photos. He said, I don't have none of our photos. I'm like, how you don't have none of our photos? He said, oh, it's not that important. On top of that, we had an incident where he was going to the bathroom. He came back out to grab his phone and went back in the bathroom. I'm like, what you grabbing your phone for? He's like, "Oh." You know, being very suspicious. So I'm like, "Let me see your phone." He ain't wanna let me see his phone. I'm like, "Give me your phone." I'm not gonna lie, I was immature and I snatched his phone and I ran. And then he ran after me and he snatched the phone to the point that he almost dead broke his phone. So in my mind it's like, "Okay, you're hiding something." Maybe there's a reason why you're sitting up there accusing me of things because maybe you're doing shit that you probably ain't got no business doing.

[Speaker] Do you feel like he's, 'cause you said you feel like he's hiding something, do you feel like he's hiding you?

Yes, I do. He don't post me. He doesn't wanna, obviously he doesn't want the pictures of me. Like he don't want me going through his phone for I don't know what. But even other than that, he don't post me. He don't want me to go to his mama even though I could. It's just clothes. Like I'm a mother myself, so I don't understand why you would think that I can't change for your mom. And I feel like it's bigger than that. I love him because he spoils me. Don't get me wrong, he spoils me. We have amazing, Yes. Intimacy time, but like, I just don't like the verbal communication. He verbally abuses me and I cannot stand that. It hurts me. It hurts me real bad.

Well, listen, one of the things that you both came here for is you both wanted me to unlock each other's phones, correct? Yes.

Oh, wow.

Well, you wanted me to unlock the phones and it's, I think it's time that we see what we discovered. Okay, it's time to unlock the phone. Shanice. So you told my investigators you wanted to know if he was speaking to any other females. You wanted to search his DMs, his messages, his texts, and his apps. And so we were trying to unlock the truth in your phone and Lonnie, you refused.

The reason I didn't wanna unlock my phone because I sent her pictures of, you know. No, why didn't you wanna unlock your phone for real?

We only go for what you ask us for.

See, I didn't know.

So if you're saying I'm looking for photos to see if he sent this to another woman, then we'd be looking for that.

Oh, but I don't got none of that though. I'm good.

Well, we would never know. You're lying. 'Cause you didn't unlock your phone. So Lonnie, you told my investigators you want to know if Shanice had been talking to other men. You want us to search her texts, her messages, and her photos. That is what you want, correct?

Yeah, I definitely want that.

Okay, well Shanice, we unlocked your phone. Well, actually we didn't because you refused for us to unlock your phone.

So why would you refuse?

Why did you? I have a reason why I didn't unlock it.

Okay.

'Cause you're being suspect, that's why.

No, no, no, no, I'm not being suspect.

No, that's what it is.

Hold on, can I speak?

Well, Shanice, you did say we talked earlier. When I first got into work, my producer told me immediately that Shanice was distraught in her dressing room. And then she had a confession for me and we recorded it. I'm gonna show it now. So my producer said you needed to talk to me before the show.

All right, um, I'm not gonna lie to you, I'm so nervous. Like, I have a confession to make to Lonnie.

Okay.

I don't know how to tell him. Like, my heart is beating so fast right now.

It's okay, love.

It's a safe space. I got you.

Okay. So I gotta tell him I have an OnlyFans.

Okay.

I don't know how he's gonna react though. Like he already be cussing me out and he already be like spazzing when I go ahead and come out the door provocative for my whole like, you know, video vixen life and all this stuff. So I don't know how he's gonna react when he finds out I have an OnlyFans.

Don't worry, I can help you with that. That I can help you with. So your confession is that you have an OnlyFans. Lonnie, what is your reaction to that confession?

I'm thinking about that, right? I already knew, my boy told me. So that's why I was always suspect about you. Like how you have an OnlyFans and not gonna tell your man?

Because it makes sense.

Like we could have been together on OnlyFans doing stuff, but like, but like you gonna have an OnlyFans, so how can I really trust you? I don't even know, I didn't even wanna look at your OnlyFans 'cause I don't know what type of content you have on your OnlyFans.

First of all, I would've may have considered you my OnlyFans, but because you are so insecure and you be giving me so much with your vulgar views.

Insecure?

Yes!

What do you mean?

Yes!

You have an OnlyFans! Yes!

You have an OnlyFans, bro.

Come on.

Like, seriously. So I'm asking you, you have an OnlyFans, bro.

Yes, yes, yes. Come on. But if you already knew, why didn't you talk to her about it?

'Cause I was waiting for her to tell me, 'cause I'm like, yo, this is my girl.

But there's a bit of manipulation in that. It's like, oh, I know I got something over you, but I'm gonna hold it till you tell me. And while I'm not, I'm holding this information. It's manipulative.

It's a good tactic.

Exactly.

And I said this.

I don't take it like that.

He's a grand manipulator at 1,000. And guess what? I still came out.

How long have you had the OnlyFans page?

I started OnlyFans in February.

She's only had it since February. You've been together for 2 years, you told me. So what happened that first year and a half where you were doing things, you were calling her out, you were accusing her, you were doing this controlling behavior. And then now to hear this. So I understand why she would not wanna tell you if there's a year and 3 months, if there's a year and 3 months where my man has made me feel bad.

Insecure. Insecure. Insecure.

Okay. Beside the dance, she right. There is a bit of insecurity there. The first thing I wrote here on my card was insecurities and controlling behavior. This is the thing. Why it's insecurities is because if you didn't want a woman who dressed like this, then you should've never gotten in a relationship with her.

No, no, I can't even.

But to get into a relationship with a woman who dresses a certain way.

No, no, I can't even answer that.

And it ends Sunday.

I agree with that, 'cause again, I love that when I met her it was like that, right? But again, but then as you're noticing—

Like I wrote down, it then goes from insecurity to controlling. Because for you to say, but then I like it when she dresses like this, but then when she's with me, you can't be that way. Now you're trying to control your woman.

Lonnie.

When you say things like she needs to dress only like that for me, I write down your words, okay? I like to fact check, okay? It's facts over feelings over here, okay? And so the fact that you say that, it just blows my mind. All right, so we took a social media poll. If your man said you're not wifey material, would you stay with him or would you walk away? And 92% of people on our social media said, if you ever told me I'm not wifey material, I'd walk away.

Well, I don't agree with that. I don't agree with that. I don't agree with that.

So why wouldn't you walk away? Because you clearly said, when I was back there, you said that I wasn't wifey material. I'm not gonna lie, that actually really hurt my feelings because I feel like at this point you're just playing games with me. And you're stringing me along. So what the fuck is the point of having me around if you don't want me?

But I love you though.

Honestly, I will tell you this. There are insecurities that Lonnie has unfortunately, because Lonnie, I think this could be a beautiful relationship. Even when you just made that comment about we could do the OnlyFans together, like I'm all about people in relationships making choices that work for them. It might not be the choice that we would agree with, but if you two wanna establish a relationship where you both could be working together in that capacity, That's for your choice. But the fact that you've ruined it by manipulating and having these insecurities and controlling behavior, it's lost it. And so until you do some work on yourself, I mean like you told your girl of 2 years that you wouldn't want her to meet your mom. That is so contradictory of saying you're my future. She's not your future. She's your right now because if she was your future, she would've already met your mom and you would've stood up to your mother as a man and said, Mom, this is my woman. How she dresses is how she dresses. And that's just the truth. But Shanice, the real thing now is that as a young woman, 'cause I know there's a 10-year age gap or 9-year age gap, it's for you to choose. This is your choice. This man has told you that you're not wifey material. This man has told you that he wants to control how you dress. This man has told you that he doesn't trust you.

You know, my thing is I have hope that maybe that might change.

You've spent 2 years in a relationship where yes, the sex is good, Yes, he's charming. Yes, I give you all of that. And it sounds like he's also a good provider for you. But do you really wanna be in a relationship for another 2 years where he's trying to tell you where you can't meet his mother, where you can't meet family members?

I mean, that's why we came here in the first place.

Yeah.

'Cause at this point it's like, it's getting me to my breaking point that this is not—

So do you think you can work on your controlling behavior?

I can.

Ultimatum, you either gonna show me to your mother or I'm gone.

Boom.

You're not going nowhere.

You gotta stay strong in this because if you start to bend boundaries now in the beginning of your relationship, you're gonna be bending boundaries for the rest of your life. My mother told me from the beginning, she told me and my sisters, you show a man how to treat you, all right? You keep putting up with this, you're gonna show him you're okay with him treating you like this, all right? Show him that you got boundaries, that you have self-worth and you're not gonna allow this. You one week for him to teach, meet you to your mom, I'm gonna check up on you. Literally, let's make a note. We're doing a checkup. You got one week and I'm calling your phone and we gonna put you on that video screen right now. And if you ain't met his mama.

She don't be my mama. She don't be my mom.

All right, well listen, I wish y'all the best of luck. You got a beautiful woman here with a lot of energy, a hustler. You got a beautiful woman here. Respect her and trust her. I got you. Okay, respect her and trust her. I wish y'all the best of luck, all right? Yeah. Want more unlocked phones, DNA reveals, and family drama? Then make sure you're subscribed to the Karamo Show YouTube.