My Wife Cheated On Me Twice & Brought Divorce Papers! | KARAMO

In this episode of Karamo’s talk‑show, host Karamo mediates a heated confrontation between married couple William and Raquel after William alleges that Raquel has cheated on him twice. William recounts the first confession, which occurred on his birthday when Raquel abruptly told him she had been unfaithful, and the second incident, where William discovered Raquel with another man in a hotel room he had access to. The couple’s relationship history is explored, revealing early affection, ongoing control and communication issues, and past infidelities. Karamo then initiates a “phone‑unlock” investigation: William’s phone shows no evidence of cheating, while Raquel’s phone reveals two dating apps, multiple direct‑message conversations, and 94 DMs with three men after their marriage. Raquel admits to having kept divorce papers for six months, and both parties express a desire to end the marriage. Karamo offers closing advice, urging William to do personal work before seeking new love and encouraging both to move forward. The episode blends emotional testimony, forensic phone evidence, and host‑driven counseling.
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Tell me about the first time you caught Raquel cheating.
Oh man, what can I say?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
The first time she admitted to me that she was cheating.
Yeah.
It was during my May month, my birthday month, and we went out and had a nice dinner. Yeah. Came back to the car, and before we got in the car, she said, "Baby, I got something to tell you." Yeah. And I'm like, "What?" She said, "I cheated on you." And I'm like—
Not after the birthday dinner.
Can you imagine? You think you about to get a gift or something, you know what I'm saying?
Yeah.
All that, you know what I'm saying? I'm trying to throw a brother for a loop, you know what I mean? So she said, "I just wanted to see, did I love you or not?" That's how you show love? That's how you show love to somebody by cheating on them? I mean, really, you might as well just hit me in the face, you feel what I'm saying? So when we got in the car, we got home, and man, I cried like a baby, man. I cried like a big baby, man, 'cause I love this woman. I wanted to spend my life with this woman. You know what I'm saying?
So what about the second time she cheated? What happened?
That was hilarious. The second time she cheated, I was at work and we go to this hotel. We had this hotel that we go spend our time, quality time with. So the day I got off work, she knew I was coming to the room. So when I got off work, And went straight to the hotel room. I saw her car parked already in the parking lot. So I gets upstairs and I knocks on the door. Just knocking on the door. She ain't opening no door. She ain't answering no door.
And you see her car, so you know she in there.
Yeah, and I'm still knocking on the door. Knocking on the door, knocking on the door. And she still ain't open the door. So me being me, I went downstairs and got me a key.
Yeah, of course.
You know what I mean? I got me a key. I'm sitting there with my clothes all up under my arms and things.
Ain't nothing in there.
So I went up there, got me a key, and clicked the door. And open the door, she laying on the bed. You know how you pull the sheets back? They was pulled back a little bit and he's sitting in the chair like this. You know, I'm standing there in the front door like, what the hell? So she jumps off the bed, just goes off in a rant. Why'd you open up the door? Who told you to come in here?
[Speaker:KARAMO] Hold on, so the hotel that you all normally go to together, that you had scheduled to meet her at, Yeah. She's going to tell you why you open up the door?
Yeah.
When she has another man in the room?
My sentiments exactly, right?
I tell y'all, people play too much. I tell y'all, people play too much.
So all of us walked out the room and walked out the hotel. She down there cussing out the concierge and everything. Why you give him the key? He don't supposed to have no key.
'Cause you know, I'm gonna hear her side of this 'cause I wanna hear everybody's side. But from what you're telling me, she's deflecting the entire time. Talking about everything else, the concierge, you opening the door. But is she addressing at all why there's a man sitting in a chair in the room?
Nothing. I'm leaving. I calls her on the phone. Ain't no answer. I don't know if they went back to the room after I left. I'm not that kind of brother. I'm not a, I don't go all in. If you gonna cheat on me, man, get the hell on.
Yeah, okay.
You feel me? Yeah. Be woman enough to say, "Hey, I don't want this relationship no more.
Go ahead on." Let me back up a little bit because this your wife we talking about.
Right.
So yeah, like this is not some girlfriend, this your wife.
Right.
How was the relationship in the beginning?
Like what? It was great.
It was great in the beginning? That's beautiful, okay.
That's my baby.
Yeah, yeah.
Lord have mercy. Excuse me, excuse me.
No, no, I get it. Oh, sorry. No, you good, you good.
Oh, you good. My first wife cheated on me, man. She brought the home. Excuse me, I ain't mean to say that. She brought the brother home.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
The brother came and said everything.
That's when you know it's real. Like he fell down in the saw, okay?
This dude, let me tell you how big her cojones are, bro. This brother sat at my table, at my table, and brought a 12 box of donuts. I'll never forget the day. And she said that this is who she been cheating with. He came to my house and sat at our dinner table.
So after that, you were like, I'm never gonna do it again, but then you fell in love.
Yeah. I've been done wrong so many times, man. I give my heart, I give my soul to these relationships. And it's like, I don't know, am I doing something wrong? You know what I mean? I mean, I work my ass off. You know, I try to be a provider for her. I try to be that man for her. But sometimes it just feel like it's never enough. I'm not a bad guy. I try to do my best to make my house happy and peaceful. I'm not a confrontational person. I'm not an argumentative person. I'm not a jealous person. I just want you to tell me the truth.
Yeah, how would you describe Raquel?
5 ways.
Oh, we got graphics? Oh, you already told my producers.
Oh yeah. Oh yeah.
Let me tell y'all something. I love when my producers do stuff like this. I can't lie to y'all.
Hey. Oh, here we go. Okay, okay, okay, okay. She's controlling. It got to be her way or no way. She tried to get in your head to make her think, and she cheats.
And she conniving. Okay. This is some way to describe your wife, but I understand. Okay. So you wanna unlock Raquel's phone today?
Oh, for sure, for sure, man. I wanna make sure she ain't dealing with the same guy.
'Cause she told you that she's done.
Yeah.
She's told you that she's done, she's not doing nothing. And if the results come back that she's cheating, what will you do?
Man, I'm done, man. I'm done, man. I'm fed up, dude. I'm here.
Okay.
I've been through enough hell with all these women, man, and I'm just done, bro.
Okay, well I think it's time to hear Raquel's side of the story. So everyone please bring Raquel to the show. How you doing, Raquel?
So good to meet you, Karamo.
You look beautiful. You look beautiful.
Yes, praise God.
Yes.
Can you put that list back up?
We can put that list back up.
Can y'all put that list back up?
OK, she want the list back.
Controlling. So how I be controlling? But you ain't following. Narcissist.
What did that mean?
What did that mean?
You got to control everything. Everything that we do, you got to be in control of. That's just a fact.
Can you stand up and do that though? Can you be accountable?
Yes, I can. If I'm allowed to.
Oh, okay.
If I'm allowed to. But I'm not allowed to if you're manipulative.
How is that? How can I get in your mind when you don't even open up?
'Cause you always point to your brain. You always point to your brain. You always point to your brain.
Yeah, yeah.
I need to be here, I need to be here.
That's right, I need to be mentally strong.
So that's how you manipulate folks.
A cheater, mm.
Yeah.
So when did I cheat on you? Now the story that you just gave That was before we got married and we was only dating for 4 or 5 months.
I said that, so I said before we got married. I said before we got married.
That's right, and I was honest, okay?
Okay.
Coniving, so that means what? Kind of scheme. Hmm, what have I done to you? Evil, conniving.
So let me ask you this. So you're saying that the first time he did admit this, he said he was when y'all beginning, starting to date, but the second time when he knocked on the hotel door, y'all were married at that point, right?
No, we weren't.
You weren't married at that point.
We were not.
Okay then, are you cheating on him now? No. Okay then. So you saw that he cried when you looked at your wedding photo. How did that make you feel knowing that he was crying when he saw your wedding photo?
It made me feel good 'cause I know that the love is there and I know that the love is genuine.
I love you unconditionally, man.
Yeah, you told me the second week you met me.
I do two things. I do work.
The second week we went on a tour. I love you so much. The second week we went on a tour.
That's right, 'cause I knew I found the person I wanted to be with and that I thought in the beginning was gonna be genuine throughout until those incidents.
But you had a girlfriend when we met, but when we met you was asking for.
Yeah.
With a girlfriend?
That wasn't my girlfriend.
But you just said it was.
That was a one-night stand. Okay.
Well, William turned over his phone because he wanted to unlock his phone. And so, Raquel, you want to know if William has been on any dating sites. You want to know if William has any explicit photos on his phone. Not the pfft. And then if he's communicating with any other women. Raquel, I gotta ask you what's on the line?
Well, you know, he know what time it is. I done told him before, baby, I got the papers. I keep them ready, baby. They stay in the side drawer. You know what I'm saying? I ain't got no kids by him. I don't owe him nothing.
Okay? So I heard you say that earlier. I thought you was joking. You really keep divorce papers in the side?
Yeah, she got a paper. I seen them.
But he said he didn't see what I'm saying.
Hold on.
Why you got divorce papers?
It's as if you're hoping that this would fail.
No, no, no, no, no, no.
I want to know how long she done.
How long have you had them? About six months. 6 months.
6 months.
Uh-huh, about 6 months.
So is that in child marriage or in some marriage?
6 months ago.
Mm-hmm.
Backtrack 6 months, you know, July, December.
What happened at 6 months ago that made you say, "Let me get divorce papers"?
'Cause he always show up bright and loud in front of other people and then he speak his truth.
Like what do you mean? Family, friends? He will talk about your relationship very boastfully or like aggressively?
Yes.
Yes.
And then when he's with you, you don't communicate?
Shut down. Walk past me. I might call Karamo and turn around and he gone.
We don't have a communication. Where you going? Communication.
So why is it that when you're with other people, you're able to communicate about the relationship, but you're not?
'Cause they ain't all down my throat like she is.
Okay. What is he saying?
So he talks about his other woman, you know, that they die, all this stuff together.
He talk about the other woman's ashes. Okay, so it's not that he's talking about your relationship when you're around, when he's out with other people. He talks about things that you find inappropriate.
Yes.
Okay, I understand. Yes.
Quit asking inappropriate questions, then you won't get the answer that you asking. Come on now.
So are you asking, are these Is it unprompted?
Uh-uh.
Okay, so, but when he's home, you're saying there's no communication with you. So what do you mean? Are you asking him about his feelings, what he wants in relationships? What are you asking him at home?
I love to, I love, just what he said, pick his mind. It's not picking his mind, it's just wanting to know what's in there.
So when she asks you about yourself, do you open up?
Sometimes.
Why sometimes?
Because it may not be the answer she looking for.
Okay.
You know what I'm saying? I told her once, I love the person that I am. I love the way I'm built, you know what I'm saying? It may not be the way that you like, but it's the way I like. This is the way I am, this is the way I'm built.
I get that, I get that. And you should love the way you are, who you are, and as you are. But my question is, why are you not able to open up? Because if you're in a relationship, in a marriage, you have to be able to communicate.
Man, I've been down that road, man, to where I done been hurt so many times, man. I just rather be shut off.
Got it.
You know what I mean? They're the reason.
Uh-huh, I get it.
So it sounds like past stuff though. It sounds like he put me with the past and he's not allowing us to live in the future.
That does what it sound like, but we are about to unlock some phones to see if that past is in the future or in the present. So it's time to unlock the phone. William, it's time to unlock your phone. You wanna know if William is on any dating sites. William said he is not. Mindlocked the Phone investigators searched his apps and found he's telling the truth.
Finally, finally.
Finally.
Finally.
One man, please.
Finally.
Man, go ahead on with that, y'all.
Raquel, you wanna know if William has any explicit photos on his phone. William says he does not.
None.
Mindlocked the Phone investigators searched his photos and found that William is zero.
Zero.
Telling the truth. Zero.
You a zero.
All right, Raquel, you wanna know if William is communicating with any other women? William said he did not.
None.
Unlocked the phone, investigators searched his phone and found?
None.
He's telling the truth.
None. I'm that guy. I'm that guy. You know what I mean?
All right, so how do you feel knowing that we didn't find anything in his phone?
Lying.
Uh-huh, lame?
He lame. I mean—
You want him to show you something?
Lame? Absolutely not.
Then what do you mean?
He's not giving me anything.
So you're saying even the bad would be something for you because you feel like it would give you some type of energy.
To work in, to work through. Yes, yes.
It's misguided, but I understand what you're saying. Okay, thank you. It's misguided, but I do understand what you're saying. Well, Raquel, it's time to unlock your phone.
Yeah. Yeah.
Well, William, you wanna know if Raquel's communicating with any other men. Raquel said she is not. My locked phone investigator searched her texts and found that Raquel is not telling the truth.
What?
Get the fuck outta here. Investigator found two conversations with a man named Baby.
Who the fuck is Baby? Ooh, excuse me. Who the hell is Baby, man?
So one of them says Baby, it says, when are you free again? "I can get out now, boo.
You ready to see me again, baby?" So that's what you be doing in the car then?
Okay.
So this, this.
So this one says, "Call me on this number. I'm out and about. Call me when you get a moment, all right?" Ain't this a bitch? Okay.
All right, I think I know exactly who the hell that is, man.
Will you wanna know if Raquel is on any dating apps? Raquel says she is not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched her apps and found that Raquel is not telling the truth. Raquel has two dating apps, Singles and Kendra G Singles Dating, downloaded on her phone as recently as August of 2024.
Why you married, man? Why be married, man? Real talk. Why be married, cuz? I don't do nothing to you. Nothing. I don't do nothing to you, bro.
That's the problem. You do nothing. You do nothing.
You know what?
You're mundane, you're mute. You know what?
You can have all that noise, man. You can have all that noise, man.
Okay, period.
You can have all that noise. William, you wanna know if Raquel has been direct messaging with any other men. Raquel says she is not. My Lock the Phone investigator searched her DMs and found she's not telling the truth.
94? Damn, player.
My investigator found 94 DMs between Raquel and 3 different men. And these were after you were married as recently as a year. Love you, you're looking sexy. So this one was in January 2024. Yeah, ma'am, so you ain't gotta get.
Man, get the fuck outta here, bro.
Let this warm you up.
Really?
Uh-huh. Meet me at blank oyster and food here. So we have the messages.
That's how we living?
So these are all.
We living vile like a bitch, bro. Excuse my language, man.
No, you're fine. You just found out your wife is not being faithful, so I understand it. So these are all the messages that we found.
4 years, dog. 4 years. 3, 3, 2, 1, whatever.
Right, zero.
It's going down.
It's going down in the DMs.
But Raquel, it's interesting because I've been tracking what you've been saying and you're saying, I'm gonna give you these to look at backstage. You're saying that you want him to fight for you, but your actions have proved this relationship isn't worth fighting for.
Come on, man.
But this is the last year, all this within this year.
I think when I asked you the question earlier if you are in love, you said you're not in love anymore. You even brought divorce papers here.
Mm-hmm.
So you brought divorce papers here?
The same ones he told me that I never had.
Yeah, so the fact that you brought 'em here and you know you're a very intelligent woman, And so you knew we were gonna find something in your phone. And so this was sort of the last nail you needed in that coffin to say, "I'm done." Absolutely. Because you know he's done now too.
Mm-hmm.
It's not a problem.
William, what do you have to say to Raquel?
I ain't got shit, bro.
Once again, he got nothing.
It was a pleasure meeting you. You're out of this relationship. I hope that you actually take those divorce papers, y'all end this relationship. Relationship and y'all move forward and you find what you need in life. I really do wish you the best of luck.
Thank you.
I'm gonna ask you to leave the stage so I can have a moment with Woody.
Thank you.
Thank you so much. I'm glad you got your answers. I think you already had your answers in you before.
I have given my all to women. I should be living my best life by myself, but I choose to be in a relationship.
So hear me out and this is what I need you to know. I do believe there's a woman out there that's going to value you. But before you find that woman, you gotta do some work on yourself. And that work does not start with shutting down. It starts with opening up. Okay? I don't want you alone and I don't want you shut down. Okay? You deserve love and you deserve happiness, but you gotta do the work to get there. All right? That's what I'm saying.
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