Never-Ending One Night Stand Leads to Never-Ending Relationship Nightmare | KARAMO

Tell me, do you remember getting butterflies when you were around your childhood crush? Imagining a forever together? Well, my next guest, Jaylen, had his dreams come true when his one-night stand with Tiana never ended. But now, 2 years later, Tiana and her wild nights out are becoming his worst nightmare. Jaylen is here to unlock her phone and find out if Tiana has been cheating on their happily ever after. All right, everyone, please help me welcome Jaylen to the show. Jaylen, how you doing, man?

Good, and you?

Good. Good to meet you. Nice to meet you. All right, Jaylen, I want to know really quickly, how did you end up with your childhood crush? How did y'all get together?

I mean, it was like basically a one-night stand. I seen her for her birthday. I was like, whoa, what?

It was on and popping from the beginning.

Yeah, it was on and popping right there.

I get that.

Yeah.

So young love is a very special thing. You loved her. It worked. What happened next?

I guess we just started getting too comfortable. She started going out with friends she ain't usually go out with and she just started getting ahead of herself. Like she can do this, do this, do that. And I'm like, that's not cool. You feel me? You was all like, you was chilling with me. We was just a happy family with her child. She got a child.

So you were playing father to her child even though that's not your child? Mm-hmm. So are you, yeah, give that up. I think that's great. Do you all live together still?

Yeah, we all stay together.

Okay, you live together?

Mm-hmm.

And while you're living together, what is the relationship like? The dynamics like?

Like, she love that, she love how I am with her child. Like, I show him like all the love I can. Like, I treat him like he mine, you feel me? I ain't got no child. So I see myself, I want to have a child with her.

I want to know, since you two live together, what is it like? Like, what is your daily activities? What does she do? What do you do?

Well, we both work, so I be at work most of the time. Like it'd be chill. Like I either be playing my game or we'll go out, go walk to the park, have a couple walks. We got a dog.

Y'all like a married couple. You go to work, you come home, you play video games, you take care of the kid.

Yeah.

And then you have some time together.

Yeah.

What does she do now?

What does she do now?

Yeah, 'cause you said she goes to work and then what does she do after? Does she go out?

What is— Sometimes she goes out or sometimes she got her child. Say her friends hit her up. And they got moves, she's gonna go out and go with her friends. She gonna find somebody to watch her child and she's gonna go out to have fun with her friends.

So would you say that she goes out one night per week, two nights, three nights?

I'd say like, it'd be like two times.

Two times per week?

Per week, yeah.

Okay. And how often do you go out with her?

See, I'm only 19, so I can't really get into every club it is.

Ooh, got it. When you're not together because she's gone out these nights, she doesn't answer your texts and calls.

Answer my texts or calls or nothing.

Okay, what do you think is going on?

I mean, like you can't really judge a book by a cover, you feel me? But anybody knows if your girl not picking up the phone and she sending you straight to voicemail when you calling her, you gonna think something going on.

So I see this 'cause my producer told me you brought a screen grab because I, I like proof. I wanna see what's happening. You call her your one and only, which is very sweet. That young love, I tell you. I tell you. And I see here that you have like 6 calls where you're calling her and she doesn't pick up at all.

At all.

What does she say why she doesn't pick up her phone?

She'll try to brush it off like, like you tripping. Like I'm tripping on something. Like I'm not tripping. Like if I wanna conversate, you answer your phone.

So I heard that she got a Corvette. Tell me about that.

Yeah, it was, I, So one night, like this, I think that might have been the night I called her like 6 times. I called my cousin, he came and pulled up on me. I got in his car, we tried, we riding around the city, I'm going to go look for her, see where she at. And I seen her in a Corvette, in a blue Corvette right out front of the store. She was just like, she was drunk, so she really wasn't saying nothing. She was trying to hand me the keys, all this, I'm like, I'm just steady like thinking, like contemplating, like, "Whose car is this?" I mean, this is a lot going on. Yeah, she wasn't—

Even for your young love, you know that that's a lot going on.

Yeah, yeah.

And so her response was what? Again, nothing?

Nothing.

The next day she sobered up, what was her response?

She stole somebody's keys from the club. Like, she ain't mean to steal it, but I guess they had collected their keys. She ended up grabbing her keys and grabbing his keys. His kids, you feel me?

Okay, you know, I don't wanna judge yet because I wanna hear her story. All right everyone, let's please welcome Tiana to the stage. Oh, I see how you walking out. There's something you are not okay with. How are you doing?

I'm doing good.

Good, nice to meet you.

Nice to meet you.

So you heard everything that he said backstage, Tiana. Tell me your side of this story.

Just basically from, let's start with the cheating at the beginning of the relationship. I didn't really feel like we were together just simply because he was coming out of a relationship and it ended real nasty. But after the one night stand, he was like basically pressing for the relationship to be an actual relationship. And I just wasn't, I was coming outta a relationship with my son's father, so I wasn't ready for anything like that.

And that's really what I was saying.

You were wanting to have some fun? Yeah, that's all I kept telling him is was I wasn't ready for anything serious like that.

I will be honest 'cause I just saw the screen grab. There's been times that he calls you, calls you, texts you and you don't respond. So why don't you?

I don't because for one, I tell you who I'm going with. I invite you to come out, you don't wanna come. We share locations, we have iPhones, so you see my location, you know where I am. So for you to say—

Do you see her location?

Yeah, I see her location, but it's not— Yeah, I see it, I see it. You still supposed to be answering your phone, you feel me? You go out anywhere, you supposed to answer your phone. I'm trying to check on you. I could be going through something.

Son. That's true. So you said that he doesn't go out with you, but he's not 21 yet.

But we—

you decided to— hold on, 'cause I want to make sure you decided to date a younger man, okay?

Yes.

If you, if you going to play cougar, you got to respect the games of the jungle, okay? I'm just going to say it. He, he, he can't go out, so why are you mad at him for not being able to go out with you?

The things I do, it doesn't— it's not an age limit on it.

Okay, like what?

If I'm just basically like, if I'm going out and I'm going like, we going out to like a restaurant or something like that, you can come to the restaurant.

It's not that I don't want to go with her, it's just so fat.

You have to work and you get off at 2:00 AM.

Yes, I work every day.

So we have some videos of you at the club.

Uh-huh.

That I want to see. My producer said we gotta check these out. Well, girl, you cute when you go out. I'll tell you that. So it looks like you're out solo. It doesn't look like you're out with anyone.

That was around the time that I was, you know, just got out of a 3-year relationship and really kind of finding myself again.

Understandable.

Yeah.

Okay. But now there's something that I don't understand, which is that Corvette.

Corvette.

Corvette. Where did Corvette come from?

The Corvette, the real story about the Corvette was—

Hold on, y'all heard that? The real story.

The real story.

The real story. Okay, we about to get the real story.

Well, we went out to the club. It was me and my cousin. And we had, guy had invited us out to a section. We went to the section, we all were like, you know, just partying, got really, really, really drunk. And his keys was on top of my jacket 'cause he was all in the section. So when I gathered up his stuff—

So you not gonna give me the real story?

You really gonna give me the fake story? No, no, that's the real story. No, I mean, that's the story though. It's a fake story?

That story don't make no sense. So okay, if you grabbed your keys and his keys— I gathered up his keys. Grabbed his keys and walked out. Why you didn't get in your car? Why you didn't get in your car?

That's the story, y'all, listen.

Look at this.

But I'm gonna ask a question. If you grabbed his keys.

He got his keys and we were outside of the club.

And your keys, why didn't you get in your car?

I couldn't find my car where we had parked. I could not find my car. I could not find my car. And after I seen that Corvette, I didn't wanna find my car.

Listen, I'm not mad at you, girl. If somebody was gonna let me get into a Corvette that looked like that, I'm gonna take a drive too. But producers also told me that you were at a hotel.

Mm-hmm, yeah, we had went back, me and my cousin. Yeah, we went back to the hotel. He had a friend and he, the dude that was with me, we all chilled and stuff like that. And then around that time it was like 4, 5 o'clock.

I ain't never knew this.

And we was all in the room and I had to let her know that I had to get back 'cause my car was still at the club. So we took the Corvette, I dropped her off and then I went back home 'cause by that time.

Now this is the real story.

Yeah.

This is where you start to practice Being honest and being communicative.

It gotta be more to that story though. It gotta be.

Do you think?

It gotta be more.

Whatever.

What are you feeling? Because clearly you think that there's something more that's going on. Talk to her.

If I ain't know about the hotel situation.

I tell you about the hotel situation.

What I'm saying, exactly. So what else is you not telling me?

What else?

What else?

Nothing else.

Well, don't start gaslighting him. He's asking you a question. What else did you not tell him?

That's it. I mean, I didn't tell you the hotel part. That was about the only thing. You know everything else.

Jaylin, do you believe her?

No.

Okay. So Tiana, I wanna know from you, what else is missing from your relationship?

We just don't, like, my last relationship, it was the same thing. We always don't have no time for each other. It's always you wanna do your thing, I do my thing. So it was like we always separate and single. So it's just like, let's just be that. So it's just like, it just feel like the same thing.

In here.

Like, he's real— the only thing is he's really, really good with my son, and we had our own baby, but I miscarried. So it's just like, it's more like problems and stuff like that. He just— I don't know, it's just so much stress and feels insecure all the time. It's like, I'm tired of babysitting somebody insecurities. It's like, if you don't want to come out and be with me, then you don't want to come out and be with me. I'm tired of— tired of worrying about— you want to blow up my phone, but you don't want to come out. You want to see what I'm doing, but if I'm inviting you to come out If you wanna see what I'm doing, then you should just come if you just have all that insecurity.

Okay. Tiana, you actually wanted me to unlock his phone as well. Why was that?

Just because I just feel like he has something else going on. He's way too insecure.

Well, I think it's interesting because since you, Tiana, wanted Jaylen's, I'm gonna go ahead and give those results first because you said that he's young and sometimes he brings up his ex in a conversation. So let's find out, put it to rest if he's talking to his ex. I scrubbed through his entire phone. I went back the amount of time that you've been together just to see what was going on. And I have to tell you, Tiana, the proof that you are looking for is not there. I found nothing on his phone. So I'm just gonna address this really quickly before we get into your results. You're young.

Mm-hmm.

There's an insecurity there.

Mm-hmm.

And so every time you start feeling hurt, you think by bringing up your ex, it's gonna hurt her. And you know that's what you're doing.

Yeah.

This is the first step of understanding, don't bring up exes with your new partner. That's gonna help you deal with your insecurities. But what else is gonna help you deal with your insecurities is also knowing the truth about what's going on. You said right now that with Tiana, You didn't understand what's going on with the Corvette. She goes out sometimes. So you're feeling insecure. What do you think is on her phone?

As long as she ain't conversating with nobody, like relationship-wise, or like she can have friends. I ain't worried about her friends, none of that.

So you wanna know if she's having sexual communication with other men?

Yes. That's basically all.

That's it. So listen, you brought Tiana here because you wanted me to unlock her phone. You wanna know if she's communicating with other men and in a sexual way. You have insecurities because she's been going out. So again, I unlocked your phone, I went through every single thing and there were 65 interactions with a man that were sexual in nature. So the thing is, your question was, have they been communicating about sex?

Yes.

The answer is yes, 65 times.

When? Recent.

Recent.

Recent. So you been lying.

I don't know what to tell you.

Well, the proof is out there. We unlocked the phone.

I know who he is and I know personally I haven't done anything with him, so.

I didn't say you slept with him.

You been communicating with him sexually. I know he communicate and wanna have sex with me, but.

He's saying it's 65 interactions, but y'all talking about sex.

I just don't see how. If I could see it for myself, maybe.

You already have your phone. So now that you have this information, how do you feel?

I feel played, man. No, y'all.

Talk to him.

I mean, I'm young, you feel me? You know, there's plenty other options out there.

Plenty.

Okay. What you, what I'm saying, you saying okay, but.

I don't really know what to tell you. I haven't chilled with him, done anything. He hasn't taken me nowhere, but I know that he wants me. So that's just like, I don't know.

I mean, she's being honest about that.

Yeah, like she's.

I did not see that you did anything with him physically. If you know that he's communicating with you about sex because he wants to sleep with you, with you, why are you still engaging with him?

Ooh, I don't know. That's not even a question I can answer. That's just somebody that really to basically, I guess just to keep my options open. That's real.

So this is what I know about young love is that you all started off on the page that y'all about to end on. Do what you want, but there's no need to be in this codependent, unhealthy relationship. You understand?

I understand.

That's the way y'all gonna respect each other and move on in a great way.

We need to talk about this.

And figure out a way to move on. No doubt. Thank you. There you go. Hold on, where you going? I'll tell you where you're going. Right here to subscribe and right here to watch more. Period.