One Man, Two Women, Four Babies! Is He The Father? | KARAMO

So tell me the problems that you're having with Miko.

Pretty much Miko is the type of, he gets mad and denies his kids. He know his kids is his kids. He real narcissistic, likes to flip stuff on him, double standard. You know, he out here being a hoe and he just think just 'cause he doing it, I'm doing it or whatever the case may be. That's not the case.

So that's where the doubts come from, that double standard?

Yeah. Okay. He might see somebody in my phone or something like that and then he just automatically get mad. Oh, they're not my kids. But how is that possible if I was with you every day?

How was your relationship with Miko in the beginning?

It was fine. It was great.

How old were y'all when y'all met?

We met when we were freshmen in high school, but like I didn't talk to him 'cause I had my own situation going on.

Yeah.

But we ended up start talking like 2020 when COVID first happened.

Got it. So once you met him, how was the relationship?

I mean, it was cool. Like, I mean, like he was still cheating and stuff, but like, but you know, like I ain't find that out till a little bit after. But still, it was cool for the most part.

Mm-hmm. How did you know he was cheating?

I found out through one of his family members.

Oh, wow.

Yeah, it was on some sneaky stuff. He turned off his location. She ended up telling me, "This is what he's doing." And yeah.

I know you're calm now, but I really wanna go back to that moment because—

Oh, I was pissed.

Yeah, you were pissed.

Yeah, 'cause I was minding my business. He didn't have to come bother me.

Yeah, it was his ex that he was cheating on you with.

Yep.

So that was sort of like a double whammy because now—

Exactly, because I was going through the phone and everything and I ain't never see them texts, not one message, not nothing. It's crazy how he was cheating on me and I was going through the funk. It was a lot.

Did you know that he was cheating before you got pregnant by him?

Well, with my first child, we were kind of on and off, but we still lived together. So it was like, I didn't find out he was cheating, cheating until we broke up and moved outta the house together. And then I found out and it was just like, damn.

Wham after wham.

Yeah, 'cause like I just found out I was pregnant and now I'm finding out all this other shit.

Okay, so I want you to walk me through the timeline of your relationship.

Yeah, I got pregnant like October and then we moved outta the house together. I found out I was pregnant November 16th. That same day, he went and got Jamesha pregnant, his ex pregnant. Yeah. Then when, yeah, 'cause I had my son June 15th and then she ended up having her baby a couple weeks apart. And then I got pregnant again in April of last year.

I'm looking at this timeline. So he's official with her 2016?

Yeah, and then they broke up around like the end of 2019. And then we got together March of 2020.

She has a baby, you start dating, both women find out they're pregnant. Then you both have, Diamond and Jamisha have, you're his second and third child. You have his fourth child.

Yes, my baby's 2 months old. I just had a baby.

She just had a child with him? Yeah. Oh my God.

Yeah.

Congratulations. Thank you. Yeah. Wait, so the day you told him that you were pregnant, he went and got another woman pregnant?

Yeah, basically. Basically. I found that out like, a couple days before my birthday or something like that. And it was just like, damn, you just, you out here making kids for fun. I couldn't even enjoy my pregnancy.

Like I did it for fun, yeah.

It was, I don't know, 'cause yeah, it was my first pregnancy and I couldn't even enjoy it. It was depressing. It's supposed to be a happy time. It was not happy. It was depressing. I was sad. I didn't do nothing. Nothing.

What did Miko say when you confronted him about cheating?

Well, the first time that he cheated on me, I confronted him about it and he was just, real nonchalant with it. Like, "It wasn't supposed to happen, da da da da." But come on now, you grown, that's your baby mom. You knew what she was doing.

And how did you find out that Jamesia was pregnant?

He told me.

He told you?

Yeah, he texted me and told me like, "I did something." I was like, "What?" He like, "You gonna be mad." Common sense go tell you it's a baby.

Yeah, yeah. So you already assumed.

Yeah, I'm not dumb.

Meka was playing you and Jamesia against each other at the beginning, I heard. How so?

Because he would, like when we were both pregnant, he would be like, "Jameesha said this, she said that my baby wasn't his and I was doing this, that, and the third." But that shit was impossible 'cause I was with him every day. And then he would do the same to her. Like, "Diamond said this, that, and the third." But I'm like, I didn't even talk about her. I was not worried about her at all.

So why did you call him a deadbeat dad?

'Cause he don't do for his kids. He think buying diapers, wipes, a little milk is doing something? No. No, babies need clothes, shoes, food, the whole nine.

Oh, that's the baby?

Aw, look at my baby.

Is that the 2-month-old?

No, that's my 1-year-old.

That's your 1-year-old?

Yeah, he was just a little baby.

Oh, he's adorable. Oh my God. That is so cute with the cookies. Stop playing, that's adorable.

Look at, that's my baby baby.

So why does he deny that that could be his child?

Because he's a hoe. Like, he's a hoe. He out doing whatever he wanna do, messing with the whole city. I don't do nothing. I stay to myself, mind my business. I might text a little here and there, but I don't even do nothing.

He get down. Well, you got children, so you're busy. I wanna confirm, you're 21?

Yes.

Okay, 21 years old. So you were secretly both dating Diamond and Jamesha at the same time. Take me back to that moment.

It wasn't really a secret.

Yes, it was.

They knew.

No, we didn't.

They knew.

Not at first, no, we didn't.

They knew.

You was sneaking around. We was both pregnant. You was sneaking around.

They knew.

You was trying to back and forth. I was. No, no.

Oh, they knew.

Look at you trying to lie.

No.

No, they knew.

What went through your mind when you learned that both women were pregnant?

I was very, very, very—

The word better be terrified 'cause you was probably what, 18 at the time?

Yeah, I was gonna say.

It had to be terrified.

I wouldn't say terrified, but more so on the scared side. Scared, sorry.

Scared for what?

Scared. Okay.

A lot of children.

You knew what you was doing. You knew what you was doing, so I don't know why you so scared. Scared.

Take me back to that moment.

Like, I just was, I couldn't believe it. Put it like that. I didn't, I couldn't believe it.

Yeah. Your actions finally caught up with you. So since then, you said to my producers, and I wanna quote this, I question my youngest kids a lot because my exes were dating multiple people.

Who was that dating?

They were outside. I take that dating part back. They were outside though. They were outside.

Oh, they were outside. So they weren't dating other people, they were outside.

They were talking to other people outside.

Mm-hmm.

I don't know what they was doing.

So why aren't you helping Diamond co-parent your sons?

'Cause he worried about what I gotta do and what I be doing.

No.

That's why.

Yes, it is.

No.

You pick and choose when you wanna be there.

I do.

No, you don't.

Only thing I might say that I don't get, that I don't do, is the getting my kids every other week part because we literally just stopped being, I ain't gonna say we literally like just stopped being around each other, but it hasn't been as long as they're trying to make it seem like I wasn't, like I don't still, I can't, I don't see my kids.

How long has it been?

The last time he did something with his kids was like the last month, the beginning of March, and he took 'em to Chuck E. Cheese for like an hour and that's about it.

So when was the last time you think you saw your kids? Was it that March?

No.

Oh no, he's seen them like a couple days ago, but I'm saying doing something with 'em, yeah.

Doing something with them, yeah. Doing stuff with them. So I think the primary question needs to be then, When was the last time that you did sort of like things that a father does? Appointments, taking, picking them up from daycare, bringing them around. Okay, okay, okay.

I admit I have not been to no appointments. I've picked them up from daycare and take them to daycare.

You never took them out?

That is a lot.

Can I ask you, what does being an involved father look like for you?

Being around your kids, taking them places, you know, giving them their needs. You don't always have to get 'em there once. You might not have it all the time.

So by your definition, are you being a good father right now?

I'm growing into one.

Okay. Well, you just said earlier, which I wrote this down, you said, "Just because they had babies, they want me to drop everything." But your specific words were, "They want me to be the mom." That's very specific, right?

Yes, they want me to sit with them all day, every day, and so they can go live their free life.

You never have. You live your free life every day. You go out to clubs. Take your bitches out, do the whole vibe.

They want to live their free life. That's all it is.

You might sit with her for an hour and that's what you wear there in front of your face.

Do you still have romantic feelings for Meka?

No, not at all.

Okay.

I don't either.

Yeah, I'm so glad to hear that.

For neither.

I actually talked to a whole different person.

Yeah, okay.

And she didn't ask me.

Are you still intimate with him?

No.

Are you? I don't know if I believe that. When was the last time?

Yesterday.

Okay, yesterday. So your new girl at home, when she watches this, does she know?

She about to be pissed.

Oh well, she already know he's a hoe.

She about to be pissed, you're a clown.

What do you think? 'Cause you're in the middle of this and now you're about to be in the middle of a third woman hearing that you've been cheating.

I don't recall.

You don't recall? You just said you gotta—

I do not recall.

You don't recall?

I was getting a rash yesterday. I was not being with nothing they talking about. On the phone with my producer the whole time trying to get change rooms and everything.

Okay, you said, for some reason I believe her. I don't think she'd come on here and say that you all had sex and just be lying for no reason. Okay. Yeah, I don't think any of us think that she's lying.

Okay.

Yeah. So you said Miko hasn't stepped up as a father. Who has supported you?

My mom.

Your mom has?

And she has been around too.

Yeah, Diamond, y'all two support each other?

Yeah, we raised all the kids together.

So how did you two get past that drama?

For anybody else who's watching and needs to understand It was just basically like we linked it, we was about to fight a couple of times, but it was just like, yeah.

It was just, we ended up talking about something totally different.

Yeah, we ended up seeing like he was just doing the same, he was telling us literally the same thing, doing the exact same thing to both of us, like literally. So that's why we didn't fight. Why would we fight over a boy that's gonna keep doing us both dirty and doing the same thing to us?

Got it. Jamisha, so what do you need from Migo today?

I just need him to just step up as a, like, Yeah, call the kids every day. Tell them you love them. Yes, tell them you love them. Keep the kids every other weekend. Like, we need a break too. You're not the only one.

'Cause he swear, but now we be outside. Be outside.

Like, what the fuck? So Mika, these are your kids. Can you be a better father?

Yes.

You can? Mm-hmm. Okay.

I hope to see you.

Well, let's, I think it's time we just jump right into this because.

Please do.

It's time to solve the DNA mysteries for these 4 kids. And so before we, I reveal the outcome of the DNA, Meka, are you ready to understand and finally hear this truth?

Yeah.

So Jamesha, here are the outcome for your two daughters. So it has been confirmed that Jamyra is your child.

But he already knew that.

You knew that though.

You already knew that.

We're talking about Jaleah now, right? Beautiful name. It's been confirmed that Jaleiah is your child as well.

But you knew that. You knew that.

Like I said.

There was no question.

Like I said, like I said, you already know. Like I said. Yeah, I just proved my point to everybody.

All right.

Thank you.

So Diamond, here are the answers for your sons. So when it comes to Mycaison, it has been confirmed that Mycaison is your child. That's for you. That's for you. And when it comes to little Miko, It has been confirmed that that is your child as well.

Yeah, I knew that. I knew that.

You said.

Come back out here. Come back out here. Come back out here. You gotta face this. You facing this. No, no, no, no. It's all right, you can talk to me. I'm truly here to help you.

It ain't nothing. It's just, you know.

He just don't know how to express how he feel. We be telling him that.

He's just talking about the past. I don't like talking about the past.

I know. But what you gotta understand is that that past that you're not talking about is directly affecting your present and will affect your future. And it will also affect these kids' future. Do you feel loved? No, I got it. Who do you feel loves you? Just give me a hug for a little bit. All right. For you to be able to be a better co-parent, you gotta be able to talk about this. For you to make better decisions, you gotta be able to talk about this. If I was to figure out how to get you therapy, would you go? Yeah? Okay, I'm gonna give you therapy. All right? Yes. Because I do know in your heart of hearts you want to create the family you didn't have. And I do know you want to be a good dad. That's why you're working. And you're trying to give what you know how to do. You're trying to provide. I see it. I ain't gonna beat you down. I know that's what you're trying to give. I know it is. But once you start healing that stuff that is bothering you, and once you start to get these tools, you will be a better dad for them. Now, young women, you all as well, I applaud y'all, okay?

Thank you.

I applaud y'all because y'all are doing the best y'all could do. Yeah, I'm trying. And I love that y'all are building each other up. I love that y'all are supporting each other, but the intimacy with him has to stop.

For sure.

Seriously. Because what's happening is y'all are getting distracted by the fact that y'all are supporting each other and not realizing that by y'all still engaging in intimate relationship with him, y'all are actually taking away that credibility y'all building up for yourselves. Y'all are taking away from that strength that y'all have. Y'all are taking away from your own self-respect. Respect. Because at the end of the day, for you to be that confident and know that she's still sleeping with him and that he's sleeping with another woman, it takes away from the woman we know you are. We see the woman you are. We see the woman that you're about to grow into. But if you keep making those little small choices because you're comfortable with him, because you don't wanna raise your body count, come on, you know better. You too smart. You too smart. Just because you 21, I can see the intelligence in both of you. I can see it. Y'all can see the intelligence in them, right? So we not about to sit here and pretend like y'all not intelligent, but y'all gotta make better choices. Y'all gotta make better choices. You agree? For sure. Mm-hmm. Your 4-year-old is gonna start to recognize this is the behavior mommy has.

Yeah, so she gonna think she gonna have to reciprocate it.

And that's not right.

You already know. You already know. Can you just turn to these women and say, "I'm gonna work on me so I can be a better father." I'm gonna work on me and be a better father. There you go. Hold up, hold up. Where are you going? I know you wanna watch more Karamo, so click here to subscribe and click here to watch more so we can keep talking and growing, friends. I love you.