Two people argue about boundaries and yelling. One person keeps saying they need to protect their peace and won't keep fighting. The other asks them to stop screaming and commit to calmer communication.
I don't wanna talk. I'm good.
I know you good. I know you good. I don't wanna talk. But she just has one last thing to say. I'm respecting your peace. I truly am. She has one last thing she wants to say. We had a moment to talk and she said she feels like she knows she has more growing to do. The same way I acknowledge your vulnerability, she's realizing that in that moment there was growth that needed to happen. What did you say you wanna say to your sister?
I'm sorry. I really am. I'm sorry, but I just can't, I can't break my peace. I'm not finna do it because every time I do it— And I get that.
So listen, this is what I ask you. Can you just commit to making sure you don't scream anymore?
Mm-hmm, I can commit to not screaming anymore. Because you talk about protecting your peace.
People don't realize that when we scream at somebody else, you disturbing your own self.