Prove You’re Not Cheating With My Cousin! | KARAMO

All right everyone, I want you to go ahead and do this. Take a look at this photo and let me ask you this question. Would you let this woman move in with you and your man? No. Well, my next guest Sylvia did just that and now she's having big regrets. Sylvia, girl, come on out. Sylvia, what is up, love? How are you doing?

Good, how are you?

I'm good. Let me give you a quick hug. All right, girl, so you gotta give me the tea on who is this woman in this photo that has moved in with you and your man?

That's my cousin Santa. I mean, she's really beautiful, but she's very provocative.

Very provocative.

She dresses like that all the time.

The question, does she walk around the house like that with your man?

Yes.

So this is how she's just around the house? Yes. Okay. Yes. See, that's the thing that gets me. Listen, I'm all about feeling empowered as a woman, empowered as a man. If you feel sexy, be you, but you also have to have boundaries and respect. And so for me it's like, so you brought them both here because you want me to unlock both of their phones?

Yes, I just want some answers.

What are the answers that you're hoping for?

I'm just trying to figure out if they're messing together or anything like that.

And you've asked them if they're messing around, right?

Yes, I asked both of them and it's never never a consistent answer. They both have different answers. She says one thing and he says something else.

What does she say?

She says no, but she makes up a story behind the no.

Oh, so it's like an excuse.

Yes.

And then what does he say?

He says flat out no.

Okay then. So they're both saying no, but there's always something that's lingering underneath that makes you feel uncomfortable.

Yes.

I get it. So how long have you and your man been together?

Well, we've known each other and been together for almost 10 years.

And how long have y'all been living together?

We've been living together for about a year.

A year that you've been living together. So you're a brand new relationship at the end of the day. And now you have this cousin who you love, who is beautiful, that could be interfering in your relationship.

Yeah.

And how does that make you feel?

Sad because I love my cousin and I love my boyfriend too. So it's just like, I don't know what to do.

What did you notice when your cousin Santa started moving?

She started to do like little things, like really, sexualized in front of my boyfriend. Like she would wear little shorts or she'd be like bending over in front of him.

Why is it that you're suspicious? Is it because that you don't trust Santa or is that you don't trust Lawrence?

I don't trust neither one of them.

Okay.

To be honest.

What has, has there already been any issues with Santa before in the past?

Yeah.

Why you don't trust her?

She slept with somebody who I also slept with. Like I was talking to them. Yeah, I was talking to this boy. So I found out that she slept with him.

So you were dating this guy and had also been sexual with him and then your cousin, knew that and decided, were you and the guy in an open relationship?

What's context for P? No, we weren't like, me and him, we still kind of were talking, but I didn't really wanna mess with him anymore. We was just hanging out. And then I had told her that, I expressed that to her, like I didn't wanna mess with him or anything like that. If she wanted him, she could have him. But she just kept telling me no, like she wasn't gonna mess with him or anything like that. And she actually just lied to me the whole time. I found the messages in her phone.

So there's the lying, there's, okay, so that makes more sense of the mistrust issues. So then if you know that she slept with someone that you had just talked to, you know that she had lied to you about doing that, why would you let her move in with you and your man?

Because, I don't know, I just, I love her. Like she's like a sister to me, you know? She's like a sister to me and nobody else wanted her to live with them. She didn't have nowhere else to go.

Yeah. Backstage, Sylvia's cousin Santa has been listening to all of this. And she is here, so let's go ahead and bring her out. Santa, come on out. Hi. Hello. How are you doing?

I'm doing good.

You look cute.

Thank you.

You're welcome. Nice to meet you.

Nice to meet you as well.

So we wanna hear what you have to say about all of this because we saw the photo and it's easy for us to make a quick judgment about just because you walk around the house, but then we're also hearing these stories. So why do you think your cousin's suspicious?

Maybe because at the end of the day, he's a cheater. Like he's done that to her. I know my fault is that in the past I've done what I did in the past, but I believe my actions has shown that I would never cross that line with you no more.

Do you think that you cross a boundary in the house?

I don't feel as though that like I do sexual things in front of Lawrence. I don't. I don't.

Is that true?

I feel as though, I think she does.

You think she does?

I've never danced in front of him.

You was dancing on the table yesterday, standing right in front of him.

Dancing?

Just because you're not bent over twerking, you're standing there twerking your butt while he's right there.

I wasn't dancing on the table. I had my phone in my hand.

And you was shaking your butt. No, I wasn't. Your butt was against the table and you was shaking your butt.

Definitely was not shaking his ass. I wasn't doing that though. I'm sitting behind, the table's behind me. And I got my phone in my hand, I'm listening to music. Of course I'm gonna vibe out. I asked you in the room, I said, yo, you trying to dance a little bit? Because we had party music on.

And that made me uncomfortable as well.

Bro, I'm not—

My boyfriend is in the room, why would I wanna dance with you in front of my boyfriend?

Bro, is this any type of dance that's sexual though? It's not.

No.

It's not, it's not, that's all.

How does it make you feel that she doesn't want you and Lawrence to be friends on Instagram?

I mean, I'm totally cool with it. I don't wanna be his friend either.

Got it. 'Cause you're saying since there's nothing going on, you're like, I don't need to be in you. Your cousin's most important.

Yeah, for sure. Like, I don't wanna talk to Lawrence. What do I wanna talk to Lawrence for?

So Santa, why does Sylvia feel like you cheated with Lawrence then? I get it, you danced in front of him.

Maybe because—

I get it 'cause she said that you didn't, you know, the social media, but there has to be something else.

I mean, we were at Sesame Place one time and she told me, she pulled me to the side we was about to get on a ride and she was like, "Oh, I seen him looking at you. I seen him touch your butt with his foot." I said, "Hey yo, I didn't even feel that, Jerome." I swear to God. Like at the end of the day, like I'm not here to hurt you. I'm not here to do nothing like that. I'm here to show my loyalty to you.

So he touched his foot on your butt and you said you didn't feel it. Did you see it?

She said she seen that, Jerome.

What did you see? Tell me.

I actually just said that because I just wanted to see what she was gonna say.

It's cool. I'm gonna stay in my mind though.

So you actually didn't see it. You just wanted to see if you could catch them in something to see if like she's gonna say something.

Yeah.

Mm. All right, I asked Sylvia this question earlier and I'm gonna ask you again, Sylvia. What's on line for you right now if I unlock their phones and you find something?

My family.

Yeah?

Like, and my relationship with my cousin too. It's rocky right now, but I still love her. Like, I just wanna make sure like there's nothing going on.

Got it. All right, Sylvia's boyfriend Lawrence has been listening backstage and we need to hear his side of the story. So Lawrence, come on out. How you doing? So Lawrence, good to meet you.

Nice to meet you too.

So you cheated on Sylvia?

Yeah, in the past.

Uh-huh. And have you cheated on Sylvia with her cousin? I'm gonna ask you directly.

Hell no.

Yeah. You said that you cheated on her in the past. When was the last time you cheated on her?

About a few months ago.

Santa, is there something that you wanna tell Sylvia about Lawrence?

Yeah, so one day I was like going through my story and I caught you in my story.

Oh, well, my girl be looking on her page sometimes. She got her blocked on my Instagram, so I don't know how that even came up. I came across. If it was, it was my girlfriend that did it.

Is there anything for you, because he's cheated on you once before from you said, is there anything that could break this relationship?

If they were sleeping around or if he has done something within the past, you know, since we officially like made things right, it's been a couple months, like 4 months or 3 months.

So since 4 months, in the past 4 months, everything before 4 months is forgiven. But if there's anything within the past 4 months, that's where you're like.

That's where I'm like, Okay.

All right, listen, when we come back, everyone, we are going to unlock their phones. We're gonna be starting off with you, Santa. When it came to your texts, we found zero texts. When it came to apps, we found that there was one suspicious thing in the apps. And when it came to DMs, we found 9 DMs that would be suspicious. Yes.

Okay.

Are you concerned about what we found?

Not at all.

We found things on the phone that could lead us to say something could be going on.

I know there's nothing on my phone that has anything to do with him.

When it came to text messages between you two, there was zero suspicious text messages. One of the big things is that there was one app that was found, and this is a big one because your only ask was that they did not follow each other on social media. We found in this app that Lawrence and Santa are following each other on Instagram.

I'm not following him.

Yo, I do not know what's going on right now.

What do you mean you don't know what's going on? They're following each other on social media. All right, so when it comes to the DMs, there's a private Instagram chat exchange between Santa and Lawrence. So you're saying that we don't follow each other and now you're gonna tell me that we didn't find this on June 22nd, 2022? What is this?

That was me.

That was you.

Yeah, I don't even have that in my phone.

That was you. So you're trying to get in there. So the following and all of this is from you. This is from you.

That was me.

Got it. So Santa, you're in the clear. You're in the clear. I know I was. That's messy on your part. She knew.

She knew that I was writing him. He blocked me. No, he was fighting.

But what happens is that that's entrapment. You're trying to set up something and unfortunately, You're using your cousin to do that.

I already knew it was her texting me, but she tried to play it off saying, why am I texting her cousin?

I get it. But see, the problem is that when you include yourself, it then starts to become messy. It sends the wrong messages and it's unfair to her. How do you feel? 'Cause you're in the clear now.

There's relief on my end. I knew I never did nothing. I knew I never said nothing.

All right, so there is nothing found between your cousin and your man. So you gotta stop accusing her. I need you two to swap spots and I need you close to me. All right, because now we got it clear with your cousin, but now we're talking about your man. When it came to your DMs, we found one thing that came up suspicious. When it came to the apps, we found one thing that came up suspicious. And when it came to photos, we found 378 photos that were suspicious. No, that's not right.

378?

She know about those.

Okay, let's look at the DM right now. This is a number to a woman named Angel saying my number will pop up as this thing because you were trying to text with her and engage with her. Do you know about this?

No.

Okay then.

No, what is that?

And you see the timeline there? What is that? It says 22 hours ago.

Oh, shit.

What are your thoughts?

That's old though.

No, it says 22 hours.

I don't know who that is. I really don't.

All right, when it comes to apps, we found one suspicious app on the phone, which was Lawrence, you installed Tinder and you are an active account user.

Oh, shit. I don't have Tinder.

You installed Tinder in May. The last time it was accessed was in October 14th.

That's what I'm saying. I don't know who that is.

So does it mean—

I don't even know how I had Tinder on my phone.

But it says you accessed it in October.

I know, I see that.

We give dates. Why you smiling? 'Cause I see that. Okay, so like literally he's gonna try to charm you and gaslight you right now. Santa, talk to your cousin here 'cause she was accusing you and now she's seeing the proof and she's still saying, "I don't know nothing." But at the end of the day, he's a cheater.

He cheated on you so many times. I don't give a fuck. I'll say it to your face. You cheat on my cousin all the fucking time and I don't like that shit.

All right, so when it comes to photos, we found 378 images considered nudity. Some of the images were sent through text, which means you are sharing images with other people. Women. And these are within the past 4 months. So the reason I asked you to get closer is because these are photos that were shared that I cannot show. All right, so this is the first one that was shared. You don't need to see 'em. You can back up. They were already on your phone. This is the first image that was shared. So this image is in the last 4 months that he had on his phone that he received.

Okay.

And that's not you?

No, that's not me.

Okay then. The next one.

Let me see, are all of these from June?

No, no, this is recently. Last 4 months. Okay then. So this is the last photo.

I just got a problem deleting stuff. That's my fault.

This is a photo that was in the last 4 months.

That's you?

That's whoa.

But that's you?

This is a photo of him receiving. This is a photo of him receiving. This is a photo of him receiving fellatio from another woman.

Yeah, wow.

That was, yo, that's dope.

You asked me for a certain time period and you asked me for phones, apps, and DMs. I've given you the answers you want. This is where you have to say, I asked you before, what was at stake? You said my relationship was at stake. I know you have a child together and I understand that. And so it's very hard and complicated when you're breaking up families and things of that nature. And I'm not trying to tell you to break up, but you asked proof and you got your proof. Talk to your man.

He don't got nothing to say.

First of all, you know about all those pictures and the messages.

The 3 pictures, but not that one.

Bro, that is old, bro. I could tell you when we leave when that happened, but that was not in 4 months though. That was not even 5 months, 6 months ago.

So I think whatever issues you two have, you gotta be able to figure it out. I do agree with my audience member. You need to find a new place to live. At the end of the day. I got somewhere to live. Yeah, yeah. At the end of the day, for y'all to really rebuild your relationship, which I think is gonna be most important here, y'all gotta figure it out. You, you in a situation where you gonna get away with whatever the hell you want to get away with.

Oh, man, why y'all think that?

Yo, why do y'all think that? Listen, I'm not mad at you. I'm not mad at you. That didn't come across as mad at you. Listen, you in a position where you young, you getting to do what you want to do because she's not setting any boundaries with you. No, she did.

She has, and I learned my lesson. I used to be way worse than what I am right now. I used to be way worse. But who's—

That's—

Bro, that joint is old. That picture is old. I don't know how he— He good what he do, 'cause I don't know how he found that. I don't know how he found that. That's what I need to know.

When that picture was from? Listen everyone, this dynamic is It's not gonna be solved today. I actually do wish you all luck. You have information, use that information. And then once you use that information, try to heal your relationship with your cousin because I think that's gonna be important for you, all right? Good luck to you all. Hold on, where you going? I'll tell you where you're going. Right here to subscribe and right here to watch more, period.