Q&K: Can I Sleep With My Girlfriend's Mom? | KARAMO

Everybody here in the studio audience, y'all at home, you hit me up often with questions. You want advice. So I thought we'd take a little time to take it to the comments and do a little Q and K today. So I want to ask, anybody out here have a question for me? All right, stand. Hey. Oh, you fly. Ah, body too? Yes, ma'am.

OK.

So my question is for my friend.

Is the friend here? No. Uh-huh.

She's constantly dating bad boys.

Uh-huh.

And that's always breaking her heart. Do you think I should tell her to grow up and consider more mature guys, stable guys? 'Cause I have to hear about it.

No, you shouldn't tell her because she knows what she's going after. She knows what she's attracting. She knows what, it's not even what she's attracting. She knows what she's accepting. And so you telling her that she's in these relationships is not gonna help anything because she's still accepting these invitations from these men. If you wanna have a conversation with your friend, every time she starts talking about a man that's a bad boy or that does something, you should just switch the conversation and say, I don't wanna talk about that anymore. I'd love to talk about your self-esteem.

Right, right.

Switch it to that. Put the mirror back on herself. Let her have to look at herself and ask her what does she deserve? Where is my worth? What happened in my past that made me feel like this is what I deserve or what I don't deserve? Anytime you bring up the man, she's always going to say, well, I don't know. And she's gonna make excuses. She's gonna fall back in the pattern. So as friends, it's pointless for us to keep talking about it. I'm gonna talk about you. What are you doing? What self-work are you doing right now? Because if I bring it in context of the man, she's always gonna have a defense. But if I bring it in context of yourself, then you gotta be real with you. And I'm your best friend. I'm your friend. So I know what's up.

Right.

So let's talk about it so that we can help each other grow.

Right, I like that.

Yeah.

Thank you.

Good luck. How's it going, Karamo?

Good, brother, you fly too. Hey! Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you. Hey, hey, hey.

So this is a little word question. I'm a wild boy.

Okay.

And so—

Oh, you the bad boy she's talking about? Nah, I'm messing with you, I'm messing with you.

I don't know, I could be. So I've been dating this girl for a couple weeks now.

Yeah.

And I'm a tattoo artist.

Yes.

You know, so for me, I live kind of a wild lifestyle and her mom is a free spirit and I kind of want to have sex with her mom. Oh. And my thing is I don't necessarily know how I should break it to either one of them.

Got it. Well, you just told them on the Karamo Show. I just said, hey, let you know. They know now, okay? They know now. So this is the thing. Have you been intimate with the girl, the daughter?

Oh, of course.

Okay then. So for me, I would tell you that now mom is off limits. Now if you would've only been dating her and you may have had to went on a date or something, then I could say, well listen, there hasn't been any intimacy. But you know, just like when you in somebody food, double dipping ain't never cute. So—

Well, the kicker is they kind of have that, like best friend relationship type thing.

[Speaker] I don't care how best friend they are. Let me tell you something, no mother-daughter, unless they are really, really unhealthy, want to be having sex with the same man. I'll tell you that. But what I'm telling you is that at some point in our lives, we don't need to add extra drama. And you clearly have successful business. You clearly are not having problem dating. There's enough women out there that there's no reason for you to do that in a family that could cause chaos to them. But also bring chaos to your own life. It might seem cool in your mind to have sex with the mom. TV has taught, some movies have made us feel like that's the cool thing to do. It ain't. And it's also just distasteful. So don't do it.

Don't do it. Yeah.

I feel you.

I feel you.

Listen everyone, thank you everybody for your questions. Listen, I love answering your questions. I love giving you advice. If you want to join me for a Q and K, make sure to come to the studio audience. We are always here. Or make sure to continue to hit me up on social media. But as always, thank you for supporting me and thank you for being here with us. Make sure to come back next time, friends, so we can keep talking and we can keep growing. I love you all.