Karamo breaks down how past rejection and loneliness drive men to use women as validation, then isolate themselves. One partner admits he's comfortable being alone because rejection shaped him that way. The pattern repeats: unresolved trauma becomes someone else's pain.
This is completely heartbreaking for me because you're so young, both of you. And there's a lot of growth that needs to happen between each of you individually. I don't know what's going on with you, why you think that this behavior of like using women to deflect from your own feelings, 'cause that's what you're doing. I will tell you this, that that behavior, I know a lot of young guys who have access to women and they feel like they special and they feel good. A lot of 'em end up being older and lonely. But see, also I'm cool with it.
I'm cool with just being alone. I always been alone before I met Dre. You're not cool with that.
I'm just not cool with that. You're not cool with that. So what I brought that up for is because it goes, your statement is exactly what, why I said I'm heartbroken. Because whatever damage you've had in your own life and in your own past makes you feel like it's fine. I've been doing it on my own all along and I've been wanting to be by myself so I don't care if nobody wants me. So I'm gonna hurt whoever because I'm hurting inside and I can't express it. So I'm gonna do whatever. And the issue for you two as a couple is that we found somebody who's feeling rejected by the world so they're okay with being alone. And we found somebody who's been rejected by the world who wants to