Stop waiting for your partner to fix you. Figure out what you actually want, release the guilt about disappointing people, and build a life that's yours.
See, the thing that I would encourage you is that understanding is that you have to figure out how, now that you have this support, to figure out how to love yourself. 'Cause both of y'all are not focusing on self and you're relying on each other. So the advice that I have for you all is like literally go home and talk to yourself about, with yourself, about how can I learn to love myself more? How can I learn to lift myself up more? You go out there and you start thinking about what is it that I really want? What does freedom really look like for me? What would life look like if I didn't have this fear of like, I'm gonna let her down like my dad let down my mom? I'm gonna tell you right now, release that guilt.
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