Karamo tells Hattie to stop keeping score in her friendship. He proposes a year of not asking for or giving anything to break the tit-for-tat cycle that poisons bonds. Real sisterhood means helping when someone truly needs it, not trading favors.
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I think a year of saying, I'm not going to really give to you and do for you right now, and I'm not gonna do for you, and we're gonna build on our foundation of sisterhood, I think would be most important. Because what I don't wanna do, Hattie, and I wanna be clear with everyone, I don't wanna paint you as a bad person. I think that if you've been in a bad situation and you've needed, you deserve to ask. But I'm glad that you're aware that they can be excessive. But I do think this tit for tat and how you all say, I did for you, I did for you, I bought for you, you bought for me, is causing an unhealthy expectation and it is killing in your relationship, can you commit to say, I'm not gonna ask you for nothing and you don't ask me for nothing?
I can commit to that. Yeah, I can commit to that.
Okay, and next time you see one of 'em say, hey, can you gimme this? You be the one to say, don't do it. Remember what Karamo said? Don't do it. Don't do it. Okay?