She Slept With Her Ex, I Doubt I'm The Father! | KARAMO

So hold on, let's go back to that text from your man. What was happening there? Child, please tell me.

So I found out I was pregnant New Year's Day, took a pregnancy test, and I'm like, okay, I need to go to the hospital, confirm this. That's what I did. And yeah, this is what happened. In my mind, since you wanna be negative and you probably cheating with multiple, uh, and, uh, uh, and, uh, yeah, like that's not something somebody wanna hear when they find out they're pregnant, especially when we was planning this.

Oh, so y'all were planning the pregnancy?

Yes.

So why did he say that?

I was cheating. But hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. He was cheating first. I'm a full-blooded Scorpio. I got a tattoo. Karamo, you Scorpio?

I'm a Scorpio too.

So yeah.

But I'm a good Scorpio. I don't do revenge.

Well, listen.

Listen, I can't never let nobody have one up on me.

Okay then.

So that's what that was.

Who did you revenge cheat with?

My ex.

Yes. Oh, you went back.

Why y'all keep doing that? He cheated first. He cheated first. Like, what?

So, okay, so he cheated and then you said, you know what, I gotta get back. Why not just leave at that point?

Because, you know, it was good. I love him.

Okay.

And, you know, but he loves me too.

You love him too?

Yes, definitely.

Would you both cheat on each other?

Yes.

Okay. So within your definition of love, that means you can be open sexually?

No.

So then if your definition of love doesn't say you can be open sexually, then do you love him if you cheated?

Yes, but like I said, it was because he cheated first.

By the way, I only do this so people can understand their own definitions of love, okay? Like that's all I'm doing. That's true. Okay, so well, let's take me back. How did you meet?

Well, that story is kind of crazy. He was friends with my ex. Yeah, but my ex was, he was, yeah, he, I had to let that go. So Antonio reached out to me and then we just been together ever since.

Got it, got it. And how long have y'all been together?

It's going on 4 years.

4 years. You got his name tattooed on you?

3 times.

Ooh.

Right here. Zoom up on it. Antonio. I got it on my back and I got it on my leg.

Ooh, okay.

He got mine too though. So yeah, I'm not one of them Delulus. Yeah. Yeah.

I can't judge 'cause I always tell y'all I got, I was stupid in my 20s and got somebody's name tattooed right here that is now covered because we not together. She was a Scorpio. Oh yeah. Well, it's time we meet Antonio and hear his side of the story. So everyone, welcome Antonio to the show.

Welcome Antonio.

How you doing?

How you doing?

Antonio, how you doing, man?

All right.

Thank you.

She's telling a bunch of lies.

Oh, she is? Yeah, definitely.

Yeah, I definitely was not.

Keep it real.

So tell me, what's the lies?

I was not cheating.

Ever?

Ever.

That's a lie.

Okay, so she said in the beginning when she revenge cheated, it's because you were cheating. So you're saying you didn't cheat in the first place?

In the first place.

So I can go through your phone and see that you were talking to your ex, talking about you were still lusting over her and you wish you would've married her. Let's keep it real.

Well, I mean, I might've said that. Come on, man.

Okay, so you were saying that you were emotionally cheating, not physically cheating?

Yeah, not physically, yeah. I never met up with nobody, none of that, so I mean.

Okay.

I don't know that. Like what I see in your phone, you're telling somebody you're lusting over them. So how am I supposed to know that? Like what are you talking about?

Okay. And then when she said she was pregnant, she also found out that you were cheating.

Wrong again. Wrong again. So like I was saying, I just had female friends that she just didn't like.

A female friend that you had sex with before. That's not a friend.

Yeah, but we wasn't active.

If the roles was reversed and I was hanging out with somebody that I had sex with before.

We wasn't active. We just hung out.

You hung out, okay.

Turn that location off while I was at work and I'm thinking you're at home. I'm not thinking nothing of it because I give you the benefit of the doubt, but you with somebody else while I'm carrying your child.

Well, there is a DNA mystery here, but you also asked my unlock the phone investigator to unlock y'all's phones. What do you think we might find in her phone?

Man, to tell you the truth, most likely the ex still there. You gonna see social media contact with Lord knows how many men or what men.

What about text messages?

Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, hold on.

Let's get to this women app that everybody be on. The Tea app.

Oh yeah, the Tea app. I know about the Tea app.

I hear her and her friends talking about it. It's like, who should I post? Who should I post? Like, come on, what is you posting all that for? You got a man at the house. Yeah. What is you doing that for?

That doesn't have nothing to do with my man.

You got a man, so what is you on the Tea app for looking at other men?

So for those of y'all who don't know, the Tea app is a new app designed for women to anonymously share their experience with the men they've dated. So like if you had a man that you was dating and you were like, you know what, he lied, he did this, he did that, you can post him and so that way another woman can type in his name and say, "Hold on." I think it's a great idea, but I also think there should be one for men.

There is.

There is? I don't know about the one for men.

There's one for men.

There's one for men?

Okay, great.

So you might, you might— She'll be all over. She gonna be on there? You gonna put her on T? She'll be all over.

You have to be a man to get on that app, but yeah.

It's time to unlock your phone.

Let's do it.

Antonio. It's time to unlock your phone first. All right, here we go.

Please, because the way he hold onto that phone, he's secure with his life.

Well, he's still holding onto it because Antonio refused to unlock his phone.

Really?

Well, I mean, let's be honest. I mean, we here about you. We're not here about me.

But if we're starting off with transparency, she did have questions about the friends that you said, you said one you emotionally cheated with. Which you admitted to and you said the other ones while pregnant, you didn't do anything. She said that the other girl said that, "No, I could have slept with him." So we know you weren't physical. But if she wants transparency, she wants clarity, why not give it to her in this moment?

That's the whole problem we have is the trust. And it's just like, that's crazy to me.

I just felt like it was more so we need to figure out her.

No, something in that phone, that's what that is.

But see, by doing that, unfortunately what has happened now is that once we get to her stuff, Now you have her answers, but she will be left with the same uncertainty. And so now instead of healing the trust issues, you've now just created a new one by saying, well, I'm not gonna let you see what's in my phone. So you know what I mean?

'Cause I—

I get that. I get it.

I definitely get it.

So if there's really a desire to be healthier, to get to a place where y'all could be one family unit, you have to understand that you gotta get the foundation to be solid. Y'all gotta start on an even playing ground. And what you've done right now, unfortunately, is y'all are not. But there is a way to rectify that. But before we do that, it's time to unlock your phone, Ari.

Okay.

Let's do it. Let's do it.

All right. Antonio, you wanna know if Ari has been posting other men on the T app. Ari says she is not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched her apps and found that she is telling the truth. Thank you.

Thank you.

For what?

For what?

Okay, okay.

But My Unlock the Phone investigator did find she posted you on the app and set up notification alerts for your name. So every time to see if anything else came back. Okay, well let's see. All right, so Antonio, you wanna know if Ari has her ex-boyfriend's contacts saved and Ari says she does not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched her phone and found that she is not telling the truth.

What?

Okay.

My unlock the phone investigator found a screenshot of her ex's number from June 11th. June 11th, you screenshotted it. What's going on? His number just wanted to be, waiting to be used. Bro, no, he's not on speed dial. Okay.

It never was used though.

So, okay. But you're still holding on.

I mean, not exactly.

Not exactly, there's a screenshot.

Wow.

I mean, I'm not, I didn't use it though, so I'm not talking to him.

But it's saved in your phone.

It's nothing.

How do that make sense?

Okay.

I mean, every time I ask a question about her and him, this what I'm gonna get. Like, I'm gonna get not the truth, so I mean.

Got it.

You asked if I be talking to him, I don't talk to him.

But you got the number saved, like you just got it on reserve.

Then why save it? Right.

I don't, I can't answer that. I don't know.

Well, Antonio, you wanna know if Ari has been communicating with other men since he moved back in March of 2024. Ari says she's not. My locked phone investigator searched her texts and found she is not telling the truth. We found 4 text messages where Ari was talking about being with her ex on 3 separate occasions and at least one other man as recent as this summer. Okay. He said, "Hell yeah, did you hear me getting crack this morning?

Did you hear me getting, I was knocked out." Well, this, this he know about because my friend was— What is that? That's when my friend was living with me and we was broken up at that time. So we were thinking that—

So she said, did you hear me getting crack this morning? No, I was knocked out by this guy. Okay, I'm ovulating, but I just am reminiscing about. Ooh, now I understand more why the paternity is in question. So we still have to unlock the truth. What are you hoping the DNA truth will be today?

I'm hoping that that beautiful little girl is gonna be my daughter. I need that closure because I mean, literally it's just been in the back of my mind ever since she been here and knowing her past, like that thought ain't gonna leave until this get done. I don't know why this ain't been done yet, but I mean, that's my little girl regardless. That's my heart.

[Speaker:KARAMO] If I can assume, and please always tell me if I'm wrong, now knowing this, I know that there's deep feelings for this woman because otherwise you would've left. And so there also is a fear that comes with I've fallen in love with you, but now we've produced a child that I've really fallen in love with. And if this doesn't work, the reason I'm not gonna do this is because the fear of like, now I might lose my daughter as well. Is there a little bit of that truth?

Definitely.

Yeah, that makes sense.

And I understand that, like, you know, we've definitely been through hell. So I definitely understand why he feels the way he feels. I don't never knock him for that. Like I said, I've been with trying to get it out the way so we could just, —had full transparency.

—I understand, but there's a fear there. Well, Antonio, in this envelope is a DNA truth for a young girl that you have been in her life since she was raised. This is not my truth to open, this is yours. So here you go.

Yeah. But before I open this, I'm really, really just really praying that this is my daughter. Like, I just don't— I don't need no bad news right now. I definitely don't. Me neither. Like I've been with her this whole time. I mean, it's still a little early, 2 years, but yeah, that'd be devastating if she ain't my daughter. I'm finna start crying. Devastating. So, so I'm gonna go ahead and open this up, see what we got. All right, so Allure is my biological daughter.

There you go. Okay, you telling me the truth, okay. Yeah. Okay, thank God. I am happy for that because outside of the trust issues that are obviously here. What I always am worried about is a child. And a child knowing where they come from, knowing that they're with love and support. And she's in her early stages. So if this would've been a different way, that could've affected her long-term, having someone and then if you didn't know. So I'm so glad that you are this child's father. It sounds like you've been an amazing father and I know you'll continue to be one. I appreciate it. But I'm looking at the math here between y'all and it looked like there's a 15-year age difference. It is, it is. Okay, so Ari, 23, my Scorpio sister. Yes. You asked me earlier, you said, you know, we for the titties, for the tattin'. I told you I'm not. And the reason I'm not is because I've grown. Yeah. I've matured. I understand that if I wanna be treated like an adult, I gotta leave my child ways, childlike ways behind.

Yeah, that's true.

Okay? So you have to understand that now this is bigger than just you. This is for Allura as well. Yeah. Tit for tat. Do you want your daughter going tit for tat with some dude later on in her life? Absolutely not.

It's not fun. It's not fun.

Yeah.

It's not worth it either. Yeah. So you gotta model that behavior from now on. Right, right. Okay? But in the same way, my brother, you 38 now, almost 40?

Yes, sir.

Yes, sir. If you gonna be the man in this relationship and if you gonna lead this relationship, you have to lead with honesty and transparency. So you can't sit here and have this young woman questioning what's going on because she is younger. And right now she's trying to figure out what is love. I asked her earlier what love means and her definition didn't coincide, but that we were all like that at 23. So at 38, you need to say, well, the model of love is I'm gonna be here, I'm gonna be honest, I'm gonna be supportive. I'm gonna make sure that there's transparency. I'm gonna make sure you always know what's going on. And right now you're not doing that. So if you wanna lead this family down a path where it's healthy and happy, you gotta do that. So I'm gonna suggest to you the minute that y'all leave, you say, here's my transparency with what's going on on my phone. You've seen what's going on with her now. You know what's happening. You know that she ain't talked to her ex and she hasn't slept with him since the time. You know that she's had a little thing about the coworker, which yes, it's messy, but she's not doing anything with him. She's talking to her girlfriend about some man. And I'm sure you talked about some girl you like were your boys. It's just unfortunate that she's gave you the transparency so you could see. So now you deserve, you need to give her that as well. Yes. Okay? Yes, please. I can do that. You can do that? I can do that. So all I ask you to do is to turn to your woman and say, I commit to you that I will be the man in this family and lead with transparency and honesty.

I commit to you I'll be the man in this family and lead with transparency and honesty.

And I want you, Ari, to say, I promise you I'll be a woman in this relationship that will grow and be better and not do tit for tat.

Can you say that again?

I will be a woman.

I will be a woman. That is going to grow. That is going to grow.

Be better. Be better. And not go tit for tat.

And not go tit for tat.

If y'all can do this, y'all are taking the first step to giving Allure the family unit she deserves. Yes. All right? Yes.