Should I Take My Ex Back? | Q&K | KARAMO

All right, I don't know if you've never been here in my studio audience, trust me, we have a good time, don't we?

We do.

But one of my favorite things to do is a segment I call Q&Ks.

But if you bring the Qs, I'll keep bringing the K, all right?

So if you got questions or need advice from me, I got you.

So you got a question for me? Oh, hey.

Good to see you again.

Good to see you.

So my question to you—

So she said good to see you, just let y'all know, because y'all know I'm a big fan of Wendy Williams. I know she not on TV no more, but I love Wendy. And she met me at Wendy Williams Show.

I sure did. March 19th. June 9th, 2019.

Yes, Karamo.

I got my signed book right there too.

Thank you, you brought my book with her, I appreciate it.

Yep, I sure enough did.

I love it, your friend said promote the book, girl. You can put the book down, you can put the book down.

Okay, so my question to you is, this is in regards to someone that I used to love.

Okay.

Who is now trying to come back, you know, sending all the fake pages and all this stuff trying to get back, but he was really cold to me. But I still have feelings for him, but I also have other options. Mm-hmm.

Why he come back through fake pages?

Because I guess he, I'm assuming he just doesn't know how to come back to me now that the bar has raised and I've raised it up now that I really got my—

You got yourself worked up. He don't know how to deal with that.

Yes, yes, yes, yes. Okay. So I have other options, but I still have the door open just a little bit for him, but I don't know if he's deserving of that.

I can already tell you anybody who can't step to you as the beautiful queen I'm looking at doesn't deserve a second option. That's all.

I'll tell you that. Question answered.

And if I could really be honest with you, what I'm hearing when you say I'm leaving the door open means that I never fully got close and there's things that I need to get answers from.

I did that.

Because the way you're responding to him doesn't sound like it's a romantic, maybe I need him. There's always love that still lingers after a relationship ends. But when it ends in an abrupt way that doesn't give us all the answers we need, we need that closure. You deserve that closure. So what I suggest to you is be very clear and say, I see you creeping on these fake pages.

I've been doing all of that. I've been calling them out.

I see what you're doing. I see what you're doing. Listen, say what you need to say to me. And let him say what he needs to say to you so you can understand where he's coming from. Do you have the question that you need answered from him that will give you closure?

I just wanna know why he just treated me the way he did. I'm such a wonderful person. And I think that's what he realized now. So I don't know if I should make him suffer or make him work harder.

It ain't gonna help you. Listen, and you already—

'Cause it's about him.

What I'm seeing right now is you already got so much light and love around you.

I do, I do.

Making him suffer, as much as it's fun to make somebody suffer, I ain't gonna lie, it's cute. I'm a Scorpio, I love to cut somebody off and make them suffer. I'm like, no, I don't like you. It's my favorite thing to do. But at the end of the day, that type of negative energy only really will affect us. So focus on the healing and getting the closure. And so I want you to take a little bit more time because even that question you just said about like, why did you not treat me like I should have? You can actually dissect that even down a little bit more. Because that's an open-ended question. He's gonna be like, I don't know, like I just wasn't ready and all this stuff. It's still not gonna give you the answer. So think about what it, was there a moment that you said in this moment I need to feel blank and you didn't give it. Why? In this moment, I need you to step up. I need you to do this. Be clearer about the question that's gonna help you get closure. Ask that and then say, then brother, I've moved on and then move on and just be done.

I need to say this 'cause all I needed was 2 days to shake it. One to miss them and one to mourn them. And after that, I'm good. Hey, we done. I love it.

Okay.

Thank you.

And appreciate you, Fran, for bringing the book. I appreciate you. You know it. I tell y'all, there is no question that I love talking with my audience.

So I want y'all to come join us.

So I'll save a seat for you. I'm telling y'all, it's a good time here. And if you got a Q of K, you bring the Q. I'll keep bringing the K. Come join us.

Come on. Come join us.