Karamo answers Brittany, who dates one man on weekdays and another on weekends. He calls the weekday arrangement a red flag and tells her to demand a weekend date or leave. When she admits to the weekend partner, he says she needs to tell the weekday guy the truth.
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All right, you know, a lot of y'all have questions for me. So I'm gonna take it to the comments and we're gonna do something that I like to call Q and K. So anybody in my audience got a question for me?
Hello. Ooh, come through.
Oh, you fabulous.
My name is Brittany and Karamo, I have an issue, okay?
Okay.
So I've been talking to this guy and when I told you he's talented, he is talented. But I require a lot of attention. And he could only see me during the weekdays and I need attention on the weekends too.
Why can't he see you on the weekends?
He said his work schedule, you know, I couldn't, his work schedule.
How long y'all been dating?
Oh, about like 2 months now.
2 months and you've never seen him on a weekend?
No.
Red flag. Not, not. Red flag. I'm gonna tell you right now, you need to tell him clearly, I would like to set a date on a Saturday at 2:00 PM. And if he gives you an excuse, you need to end the relationship.
Okay.
Because what he's setting you up for, and I've seen this hundreds of times, is for you to find out some truth that he's unwilling to tell you right now. Because when people have such clear distinctive distinctions of like when they can see you and when they can't with no clear answer. So it's one thing if he's like, listen, you know I have a game on this day, it starts at 3, or I have to see I have custody of my kid this day and you know that I'm with his mother. It's clarity. When it's just, I gotta go to work.
Yeah.
I don't know about y'all, but we close on Sunday here. So he gotta have some time on Sunday at least, maybe. There's something that he doesn't wanna share with you that's going on that you're gonna have to find out later on. And if your emotions are involved, you're gonna be devastated. So I would say the best thing for you to do since it's early It's that clarity. And if he says, no, I can't, run for the hills, girl. Run for the hills. Run for the hills. And find somebody who's gonna give you the attention you deserve. You know what I mean?
But I do got a little bit more tea.
Okay, give me the tea.
So, I do spend the weekends with my little yeah, yeah. So it kinda works out for me. See him during the weekdays, see my yeah, yeah during the weekends. I'm just saying. And one—
So we didn't know that she was toxic, cuz she was like, my name is Brittany, and like, you know, so we didn't know you was toxic. Okay, so give me his number so I can tell him to run for the hills. Okay, because now see, it was one thing when you were just saying you required time. Now you require time and you got side pieces? I mean, have you informed him that you have a side piece?
No, one's financially stable and one's just more physically stable. I'm just saying.
Uh-huh, okay, okay, okay, okay. So your weekday piece got a weekend piece too. So I'd say you just tell your weekday piece, listen, I love that you are not available on weekends because I am dating someone else to figure out where we're going. Be clear because what it does is it keeps you out of the mess, it keeps you honest, and it keeps you getting your, financial security while also getting your sexual security. And now you don't seem like the toxic one, but if you keep it a secret, now you the toxic one, okay? So can you do that for me?
Yes, I can.
You gonna tell your weekday piece about your weekend piece?
Yes, I'll let 'em know.
Okay, perfect, good, okay.
You're welcome, thank you.
How many people in here, clap if you think she gonna let him know. Thank you. Thank you. Nobody? You gonna let it out? OK. OK. I'm OK. OK. All right, everyone at home, thank you for joining me on another Q&A. And thank you for being with us. Make sure to come back next time, friends, so we can keep talking and we can keep growing. I love you all.
