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Something has to change #KaramoShow #motherdaughter

4 Nov 2024 · 1 min

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In this segment of the Karamo Show, the host addresses a young woman's deep‑seated feelings of rejection, abandonment, and self‑sabotage. He explains that her negative self‑story—rooted in a belief that she is unlovable and that she mirrors her father's perceived worthlessness—continues to reinforce her isolation. The host advises a radical behavioral shift: instead of withdrawing or "kicking" herself out of relationships, she should stay and maintain presence, thereby disrupting the cycle that confirms her abandonment fears. The monologue emphasizes cutting out the repetitive negative narratives and adopting consistent, supportive actions to rebuild self‑worth and relational stability.

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This girl's dealing with rejection. She's dealing with abandonment. I understand. And she's her own worst enemy. That's obvious to us. And it's because she has never felt like anybody wanted her. And she's compiling that story over and over in her head. Also, when she has been told that her father wasn't worth it, she also believes that she is him. She doesn't believe she has a future. She doesn't believe that anyone loves her. She doesn't care that, and she doesn't believe that anyone likes her. Yeah, no, I get it. I get it. Well, what you gotta do is all these stories you're telling us, you're saying out loud, you gotta cut all of 'em. That's the only thing that's gonna change is everything you're doing has to switch. Because again, somebody who's dealing with abandonment, every time you kick 'em out only confirms their feelings. But you know how you switch that up? You throw her all the way off. No, stay. You telling me I just did something bad and you want me to stay? What you mean? No, no, stay. It will throw her whole game off. Yeah, I get it. I get it. I get it.