Stop Accusing Me Of Cheating, You're The Father! | KARAMO

I've got this feeling that my wife is, or was cheating, or could be still cheating, and trying to find out if my daughter is mine. I love my little girl. She's got blonde hair, I got dark hair. She don't look nothing like me. I just needed to know the truth and that's why I'm here.

Everyone, let's meet Kristi to see what she has to say about this. How are you doing? You look beautiful, by the way. Thank you. How do you feel about what just was said?

It hurts, it really does because we've been together for so long and I've spent my entire youth with him and I don't want my daughter to hear that from him.

How long have y'all been together?

13 years.

13 years, okay. So why does he believe he isn't the father of your daughter?

Number one, I think is like he said, because of the hair. 'Cause his hair's so dark And I mean, I was born with strawberry blonde hair.

Does he know that? Has he seen a baby photo?

He's seen baby photos.

Okay.

And another thing is he's hard of hearing and so is his father. So we almost expected that to transfer down to one of the kids, but all of them passed their hearing exams. So that's another thing that kind of gets him doubting.

Got it, okay. So when did he start accusing you of cheating on him?

A long time. I mean, I can't tell you how many times we've had that argument.

And I gotta be direct with you and just ask you, have you cheated?

No.

Never once?

No, never. Not a single time.

Okay. So why do you think it is that he doesn't believe you?

I honestly don't know. Part of it may be the fact that pretty much every single one of his exes has cheated on him.

Oh, okay.

I mean, like, I get the insecurity, but I'm tired of it.

Yeah. Especially after 13 years, I can imagine how exhausted you are by it. And he says you check out his friends when they come over?

No, he says that. He might think that, but no, no.

Yeah, that's what he says. That's what I'm saying. He says you check out his friends when they come over?

No.

Never?

No, if someone speaks to me, I'm gonna look at you and I'm gonna speak to you. Yeah, okay. Yeah, but no, I'm not sitting there like oogling his friends.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay. How do you feel when he constantly accuses you?

It hurts me. 'Cause I mean, if I did something that would give you an excuse, you know, maybe where there was something that made you doubt, but when I'm not doing anything wrong, it hurts me because I've done anything. I've told him like, what do you need for me to prove this to you? To show you that I'm here for him only.

Do you think he's cheating?

It's crossed my mind. 'Cause there's been instances where he's gone out and I can't get ahold of him. You know, I'm blowing up his phone, calling, texting, and I get no answer.

And for how many hours?

5, 6 hours sometimes.

Sometimes overnight?

No, never overnight completely.

But in the evening, but late in the evening?

Late at night, yes.

Okay, what does he say?

He says he's, oh, playing pool or playing poker or there's music going so he don't hear his phone. And I'm like, it's on vibrate. It vibrates in your pocket, you should be able to feel that. Why can't you answer my phone call, you know? Send me a text, something.

Well, listen, everyone, I think it's time to hear from your husband, Waylon, and hear what he has to say about this. So everyone, please welcome Waylon to the show. How you doing, Waylon? How you doing? I'm good, thank you. So I have to ask you, how do you feel about what she just said?

I'm just trying to find out if everything's true or not, you know what I'm saying? And make sure she's mine, you know.

So why don't you think she's your daughter?

It's the hair.

That's it?

She's got that blonde hair, you know, so I don't know where she gets it from, so.

But your wife says that she had blonde hair, strawberry hair?

I had strawberry blonde hair when I was young.

That she had strawberry hair when she was young.

I never seen it though.

Okay, okay. So you accuse your wife of cheating?

I have, yes. Many times.

Many times. And why?

It's just, I used to work at a warehouse, like kind of where she was working at, and I just know how things go up there, so.

How do things go?

There's people that snoop up in the bathroom sometimes, you know?

Mm, got it. So if you think your wife's cheating, Why have you stayed with her all these years?

I just didn't have the proof, so.

Mm, okay then. Do you think there was something going on with one of your coworkers?

Yes. Oh, wow. The reason why is because like when we were trying, when they were trying to get her to come back to work and like he called up And I was, you know, he was like, "Why ain't you?" But he had this like voice, you know, like kind of down. You know, like feeling like, you know, like I really care, you know? I really want you to come back. You know what I mean?

That was just how he talked.

So if the DNA outcome turns out the baby is yours, will you stop the accusations?

Yes.

Okay.

Absolutely.

Done. No more.

Yes, sir.

Well, Kristian and Waylon, are you ready for the DNA truth?

Yes.

Okay, you're ready?

Yes.

All right, well let's get to it.

I've been ready.

So this is about your baby girl, 2-year-old? Okay. If this comes back not to be your child, what will happen to your relationship?

I'm gonna still try to be there. I mean, that's my daughter and she calls me daddy, so.

Yeah, but it would break your heart.

Yeah.

Yeah. And for you, do you have any worries at all?

Not one. Not a single one.

He said not at all. Well, listen, this is not my truth to open. This is your truth to open, Waylon. So here you go.

I'm the father.

Okay. I told you. Thank God, because I really did not want that one Heart to be broken. I love you.

I love you. I told you she was your daughter's.

I mean, what do you have to say to your wife now that you have the results?

I ain't never gonna accuse you anymore.

Thank you.

I think it need to be an apology in there as well.

Yeah, I'm very sorry. I'm very sorry, baby.

Well, I'm gonna say just so that the communication can be built on a foundation here that can use for you to be built later. What are you sorry about exactly?

I'm sorry that she's, you know, that I always thought that she was sleeping around on me, so.

Yeah. I want you to repeat after me to your wife. I'm sorry.

I'm sorry.

My insecurities.

My insecurities.

Allowed me.

Allow me?

To accuse you.

To accuse you.

I love you. I love you. Because what happened in your relationship is a you problem. And I think sometimes we have to acknowledge that when we give our sorries, that this was my issue and I put my issue on you consistently. You got a good one who stayed with you through years of being told that she was actually less of the woman that she actually is. I see you getting emotional. What are you thinking about?

Are you glad you finally have that feeling?

I feel a lot more, you know.

Yeah, yeah, I get it. The relief, the relief. Right. You've had trust issues for years that have made you feel as if, is the shoe gonna drop? Is my woman gonna do this to me again? But she's not. She's showing you that she's committed to you and she loves you. And I think this is a time that you can start to heal that young man in you that was betrayed because now you have a woman that's showing you, I'm never gonna do that to you. Use this as a jumping board to build an even better life than you two already have. You got a good one here. How do you feel? Do you need to say anything?

No.

You're happy, you feel vindicated?

Yes.

I wish y'all the best of luck. I can see the emotion, I can see the vulnerability in your eyes. And I know you love your wife. I know that you're sorry for how things have went down. And I just hope that you continue to work on that that's inside of you so that it doesn't cause more issues in the future.

Yes, sir.

Yeah. Good luck to you both. Thank you.

Y'all gonna be all right.

Yeah.