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Sanova and Kawazi called asking for my help. Take a look at this.

Get out of my house! You did this to yourself. I want to be by myself.

Who the fuck you talking to?

Leave me the fuck alone! If you— oh my God, bro, if I have to swing on you and you don't know how to just get the fuck out of somebody's house. Oh my— all right, all right, all right. Keep doing it. Keep doing it. I don't have to sell to get money. Sorry, you do.

Whew, that's a lot. So let's meet Nova so we can hear her side of the story. Everyone, please welcome Nova to the show.

Hi, Nova.

You look beautiful.

Thank you.

You do too.

Can I have a hug?

Yes.

Nice to meet you.

Nice to meet you too.

So Nova, what was going on? 'Cause you was getting into a big fight right there.

Yes.

Okay, what was the fight about?

Basically me telling him to go home.

Okay.

Yeah.

Does it, you two often get in fights like that?

Yeah.

Because I mean, he came back up them stairs like, Y'all were about to get physical.

Yeah.

Wow, okay then. And those things, do things often get that bad?

Yeah.

They do. Mm-hmm. How bad have things gotten from your description?

It's getting a little bit bad. We've only been together for 6 months.

Oh wow.

And it seems like every time I tell him just to go home, he acts like he's homeless. So that's basically like the most of our issues.

Well, my producers told me we have a photo of the damage to your door that he did. Let me see. And this was because he was trying to get in?

Yeah.

Sis, why are you still with him?

There's not many guys I really like for real.

Yeah.

So meeting Kawazi, he was my type, tatted, cute, and he treated me like a woman, like I wanted to be treated. I'm a trans woman, so we want that. We don't wanna be hidden in secret.

Yeah, so because he loves you openly, as you should be, you're accepting some behavior.

Yeah.

Oh, okay. You know you shouldn't though.

I shouldn't. Okay. But it's like hard 'cause I like do love him a little bit.

Okay, I understand that. So how did you two meet? Take me back.

Yeah, so he hit me up on my OnlyFans. Uh-huh. And then from that, he wanted to know where I was at and we just decided to link up.

Got it, okay. And what was the fight about that night?

He was upset that I was on my phone.

Uh-huh.

Texting, whatever I was doing. And he just assumed whatever. So when I told him to leave, 'cause I'm not gonna argue in my house, like I pay the bills here. Yeah. I'm not gonna argue with someone that's not paying my bills. Okay. You can go, calm down over there, and I'm gonna be over here trying to like figure out what I gotta do.

Is he jealous about your content?

He's very jealous. Yeah, very jealous. Every time I have to do anything regarding, he acts like it's a big issue. Like he didn't meet me doing that.

Got it. Well, tell us about your OnlyFans content.

So yeah, my OnlyFans content basically just revolves me taking requests on people hitting me up. Like it can go from me wanting to eat an apple to me playing with.

Got it.

Okay.

It's either, it could go from high to low level.

Low to high, I don't know.

Got it, got it, got it. And so because of, I'm assuming from your description of the range in your content, that request, those requests make him jealous?

Yeah, very jealous.

Make him insecure?

Mm-hmm.

Got it. But what's interesting about that is that I could understand if like he fell in love with you and was like, you know what? I don't know if I can be in a relationship with a sex worker. I don't know if I'm comfortable with that. But he met you understanding your job, understanding that this was your position.

Right.

So I'm confused of where the insecurities come from. This is how you met me.

He was my trick. He was my trick. And now he wants to be a normal boyfriend, which is like, okay, that's cute. You wanna be my normal boyfriend? Well, pay my bills if you wanna be a normal boyfriend. Okay.

Okay, so Kwasi told the producers that he believes that you're doing more than just posing for the camera. He thinks that you're actually what, engaging in sex work?

Mm-hmm.

And what kind of agreement did you have with Kwasi when you began dating?

Basically, don't stop my motion if you don't got none.

That should go for any relationship.

And that.

Don't stop my motion if you ain't got none.

Clock it.

Listen. But do you think if you were off of OnlyFans, his behavior would be the same?

No, 'cause when we're like, when OnlyFans or anything with me talking to another dude is not in the picture, me and him are cool, we're fine. Like nothing's an issue, nothing's a problem. It's like the minute he hears someone else wants me to do something or anything, and I could be as classy or as respectful as I can and he will still make an issue.

Got it. So were there some red flags that maybe you might have ignored in the beginning?

Yeah, the fact that he, when I first met him, he had a job and he was so easily to be like, oh, if I called him, he'll be like, oh, I'm gonna just come over and fuck up his job. And I'd be like, mm, okay. That was the biggest red flag 'cause now he lost that job and now he don't ever seem to want to find one that's secure enough for him. Like, um, grown man's gonna care about about that job, make sure they don't lose it, and make sure they pay them bills.

Period. All right, yeah. Well listen, we've heard your side of this story, so I think it's time to talk to your boyfriend, Kawazi. So everyone, let's welcome Kawazi to the show.

So this what we doing?

This what we doing?

Yeah, this what we doing. Just sit down.

How you doing, Mr. Karamo?

Nice to meet you.

Nice to meet you too, sir.

So you said this what we doing, so you feel like that she's saying is wrong?

Yeah, she told you a couple, well, a lot of invalid facts.

What was a lie?

Okay.

I didn't hit you up on OnlyFans, it was Twitter. And I texted you.

OnlyFans, Twitter, same shit.

But I didn't pay for content.

Okay. I also hear her saying that you're insecure or jealous about the fact that she has this job. Very. When you said you knew she had it. Is that true? Are you insecure and jealous about it?

Yeah, to a certain extent because stuff that happens.

Okay. What else stuff that happened?

Like once they start calling your phone, how are people that buy content calling your phone?

Mm-hmm.

So that's when it gets to me like, okay, it's more than what it is.

You met me like that, but then you just continue when I have an issue about it. So it's like you're not gonna change my life and who I am like in 6 months, sorry.

I respect that. But he is saying that he's not having an issue with the content. He's saying that he's having an issue with men who then get your telephone number?

Sometimes we gotta take it to the iPhone.

How? Why?

Because sometimes you need a Snapchat.

As someone who does different type of content but does content, I don't give my telephone number out.

Well, it's not— It's not my phone number. It's not my phone number. It's like a TextPlus number. So it's like a fake app number. So it's not directly my number, but it gives me a chance to basically talk my game up a little bit more with these guys I don't know.

Why not do it just in the app then? If I'm with you, why all of a sudden they got your telephone number, even if it's a text now number?

Well, it's because they're helping me pay my bills and he's not.

Oh, okay.

So for you, the difference between content and contact is the issue.

Yeah.

Got it, I understand. And why do you not trust Nova that she's not cheating?

Because like, for example, she keep talking about not paying her bill, but when I do come with the money, it's, "Oh, it's paid." You finna use the money for something else. But it's just like—

Oh, you know how to go deep. Oh, you know how to cut.

Mm-hmm.

Like he tried to come with the money and you like, it's already paid, sorry. Oh, you know how to cut.

Yeah, 'cause he takes too long.

Uh-huh, okay. Kwasi, how bad are things?

Bad.

Bad?

Like super bad?

Yeah.

Let's break up then.

I ain't finna say nothing on that one.

Simple.

What would you wanna say? 'Cause she just said, let's break up then.

Because she'll say that, then I'll be over there the same night, like literally.

Uh-huh. Got it. So why did you kick down her door? Because that behavior is aggressive and unnecessary.

Right, and you're not gonna pay to get it fixed, so why are you breaking shit?

For one, I went, washed her clothes, made sure everything smelled good, brought her food. When I bring the food, 'cause we had a previous argument the day before, you take everything and throw it across the yard.

And?

And then you gonna say you gonna get another dude to do it. I'm like, okay.

"So now you trying me too hard." Which you won't do, another guy would gladly do. Don't care.

So that's why it got to that point?

Yeah.

Okay. So if she did that, if she's telling you, "If you won't do it, another guy would do it," why not just leave?

'Cause every time I do, it probably go on for like a day or two days, but she always call me, "I miss you. I need you back at the house. My anxiety messing up. I need you to come home." I do.

But you have a choice in that. She's being clear about she is, but you have a choice about that. You don't have to go back if you feel like you're being disrespected or if you feel like you have to get to this place.

You right.

Okay. So why do you go back?

'Cause I love her.

Okay.

So did you try to go through Nova's phone?

I go try to go through that phone all the time.

You do?

She got Fort Knox on her phone.

You can't get in there. So why do you believe Nova is trying to sabotage the relationship? Relationship?

A lot of people just come around to try to get what they can get or use her, and I believe that's what she think I'm trying to do. So yeah, that's mainly what it is.

I mean, you're literally doing that though. You haven't paid one bill. You just chill at my house. You don't do nothing.

So I didn't pay a bill, but the money you told me you needed, even when we broke up, I still sent the money. Then you told me, oh, I used that for something else.

I did.

So where did it go?

I have maintenance. Everything costs money. If you want a girlfriend, you have to pay for one.

Do you like him?

Yeah, I like him. He's cute. He's tatted.

Do y'all get a sense that she likes him? Okay, if you think that Nova actually likes him, raise your hand.

No.

Not even one person. I saw one hand kinda. They don't get a sense that you like him.

That's their opinion. I know I care about him. I do love him. Like when he do go home after we get into a big argument, I always be in the back of my head like, are you home? Are you safe?

I believe you might care about him. I like him because you're a good person. But I can care about someone and not like them. I have many enemies that I don't pray for their downfall, but I also don't wanna be around 'em either. You know what I mean? And I think that's what we're picking up here.

Mm-mm.

No? Well, listen, we're here to unlock the phone because you can't get in there and you wanna know what's really going on with him. Okay, cool. Well, it's time to unlock the phone. Nova, we unlocked your phone.

Mm-hmm.

All right, Kawasi, you wanna know if Nova is getting money through sex work. She says she's not. My unlock the phone investigator searched her phone and found that Nova— Are you ready to unlock your best self? Key is my new wellness app made for you. Fitness, nutrition, meditation, sobriety, better relationships, self-love. 6 keys, 1 app. Change starts today. Is not telling the truth. My investigator found 3 active accounts, OnlyFans plus 2 escort sites.

Oh.

Kawazi, you wanna know if Nova is communicating with any men offline. Nova says she is not. My Lock the Phone investigator searched her texts and found that Nova is not telling the truth. Nova's communicating with multiple men about meeting up for sex and in one specific text exchange, she shared her location and rate?

What? $120?

Like, damn. All right, cool.

What you gonna do with $120?

Pay a bill that you're not paying.

You told me your bill was $500 plus. I don't think $120 was gonna pay it.

Karamo, you wanna know if Nova is sending or receiving explicit photos from other men. Nova says she is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched her photos and found that Nova is not telling the truth. Nova has over 70,000 photos in her phone. One of the photos was sent by an unknown man requesting, and the photo he sent was an explicit image of what appears to be Nova in it. Okay, can I see this? 70,000, girl? How many? I didn't even know the phone could hold that much.

I didn't know y'all could find that. I deleted half of that stuff, so.

Oh, we find it all here. We find it all here. Is this you in the photo? That's you in the photo?

Okay.

Okay. So how do you feel about this? 'Cause you now know that she is going past just doing the OnlyFans work. She is engaging in sex work.

I don't even know how to feel. Like I wanna blow up, but then I can't blow up 'cause I kind of knew, but it's still like a slap in the face when you honestly see it. So it's like, I'm—

Uh-huh.

I don't know.

Okay. So there's two things at play here. First of all, you need to work on your self-esteem because your self-esteem should be higher because I think we've all seen, you got a mouth and we know that it's feisty. It gets feisty at home. And I do believe a large part of that is been to protect yourself. But in this instance, for you, you have to be able to say, you know what, I deserve more than that. I deserve more than this, okay? But secondly, what's at play here is I don't think that you actually want a boyfriend.

Mm-hmm.

I think you want attention. I think you want the feeling of stability.

Mm-hmm.

But I don't think that you actually want the commitment of a relationship. Because even if, I suspect even if he was being the breadwinner, I don't still think that you'd actually want to be in this. So if I were you, I would just be honest with myself with like, you know what, maybe you can come around, but like I don't want a relationship. I don't want any of that. We can have a little cute caring, like we could talk on the phone, but I don't want anything.

I've said that to him before and he's literally been like, nah, we ain't going for that. And he tries to pop up at my house. So then that goes back to your, So that goes back to your self-esteem.

That goes back to your self-esteem. The fact that you run back, you just saying to her like, "Do whatever you want to me, say whatever you want to me." So you have to make sure that you're working on your self-esteem so you can say, "Nah, you know what? Actually, I don't deserve this. If you say you don't want me, then fine. I'm gonna find somebody who does want me." Makes sense, makes a lot of sense.

You ain't said nothing wrong.

So when you leave this stage, What are you planning on doing?

Getting my shit together and going home, like staying away.

He ain't going nowhere. He ain't going nowhere.

So this is the—

You see what I'm saying?

But that's not about her. She can say whatever she wanna say. That's about you and your self-esteem and your self-worth. Because she can say you gonna come right back, you gonna call right back. I've seen the opposite of men on this stage with women in that position who are like, she ain't going nowhere, she coming right back. And I say the same thing to them. This is about your self-worth and your self-esteem. You have to be the one to say, no, that is not how I'm going to be treated. No, you will not see me again. No, I will not be coming back. No, I'll not be answering your calls. Because you are training her how to treat you. Be very clear.

Yes, sir.

And this is a woman who is in her power right now. She is growing into it. She is understanding herself. She is learning how to love herself and and stand clear in who she is. And she needs a man who's gonna match that. And the fact that you not matching that is why she feel like she can do this to you.

Got you. Makes sense. Makes a lot of sense. Facts. Facts.

Mm-hmm. You saying everything real.

So this is your decision to do what you gotta do. You understand?

Time to drop them balls.

Listen, you now have your answers. I want you to have your freedom. I want you to be able to grow and have the life you want. So make a decision for yourself, okay? She's making decisions for her, so make decisions for you. All right? Stay with us, friends. We'll be right back with more.

She— You can't help everybody.

I'm trying to let this little boy know. She grabbed that hand and he did this.

Uh-huh.

Okay.

All right.

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