A mother struggling to balance work and kids hears that she needs time for herself, not just as a parent but as a person. Before you're anyone's mother or wife, you're you.
As much as I love that you're a devoted mother and you're a devoted wife, your children and your husband can't just be your life because before all of them, you were still you. And I think because you're spending so much time worried about what he's doing, what everybody else is doing, you forgot about you. Mm-hmm. I can almost sure you don't have a hobby for yourself.
No, I don't have time. Well, I work, I have kids. I—
Hold on, here we go, here we go. And this is not to invalidate because I understand the experience of a mother. Your kids are important, your husband's important. I'm not trying to invalidate that at all. What I'm saying to you is that even with that, you still have to be able to find time for yourself because finding time for yourself helps you remember the woman you are, helps you understand what you're worth, what you deserve. And that's how you start to rebuild yourself.
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