Karamo asks JJ why she won't get back with an ex from 2021 when she clearly still cares. JJ says they're just friends now, but when pressed, she can't explain why she feels she deserves to stay in this painful situation. Her self-esteem issues are still unresolved.
Brother, I'm not unlocking my phone, period. We are just friends. Our relationship ended 2021. We will never be in a relationship ever again. I appreciate everything you done for me, but I'm moving on.
Ooh. JJ, what has been happening the last 3 years? I mean, we wasn't together in the last 3 years. Okay. You got your answers?
Yes, I do.
Okay, so I'm gonna ask you this, 'cause this whole thing right now, talking about you in love with this little boy right here is silly. I'm gonna ask you really quickly. So at what point did your self-esteem get broken that you felt like this is what you deserve? Because that's the real question we gotta talk about here.
I don't know.
Because for any grown woman who, I see the passion, I understand the hurt, But the choice to sell your house was not a JJ choice, that was a you choice. And that is a choice, that is a choice of somebody who doesn't understand their own worth, their own security, what they have to do for themselves. If you could easily give up your own security for a man because you love him, that tells me something about your emotional and mental state.