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That’s a good start #karamoshow #motherson

24 Nov 2024 · 1 min

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In this brief exchange, Speaker A asserts that they are not responsible for their father's actions and expresses a desire to rebuild trust. Speaker B responds empathetically, revealing that the speaker's mother endured years of abuse starting at age 14 at the hands of the father. B acknowledges the intergenerational trauma, apologizes for the speaker's suffering, and advises that to encourage the father to improve, he should be compared to better men rather than constantly criticized. The conversation centers on themes of personal accountability, the impact of parental abuse, and strategies for fostering positive change within a family dynamic.

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I'm not responsible for what my dad did. And I just, I wanna be able to trust you. And that's a start.
Okay, that's a good start. Now we talked about this before a little bit and I talked to your mother about this. She went through many years of abuse starting at 14 with your father. And so there is a lot of things where unfortunately the kid in her does try to reconcile the things she went through and she sees it in you. There is no reason you should be sitting on this stage today with these abuse from your ears, the hearing, all the things, no reason. I know what happened to you and I'm sorry. And somebody should have been there to do that for you. But at the end of the day, if you really want him to be a better man, You gotta compare him to better men. You can't keep telling him he's a man that you don't like.